1. First threesome

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    Jocardwell [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi - blushing as I write this but I experienced my first threesome over the bank holiday weekend with a younger guy (mutual friend) 12 years younger then my husband who somehow happend to be considerably bigger & thicker despite being shorter in height (always heard taller guys mean bigger manhood) & gave me my first orgasm.Not sure if this is to do with size or his powerful thrusting but it felt like I was going to pee and then my whole body became overwhelemd with pleasure. Is this feeliing normal? My husband is 5 inches hard so bigger then most men I think as i read the average was 4.5 however hasn't ever been able to give me an orgasm.I didn't actually realise I could but haven't told my husband as I don't know how to say that a guy 12 years younger then him was able to do what he hasn't been able to do in 12 minutes & don't want to damage his ego! All I know is that having a bigger thicker penis inside thrusting me hard was incredible.

    My hubby actually premature ejaculated as soon as Max began having sex with me as he said the sight of my vagina being stretched was to erotic. Anyone else experienced there husband cumming quickly during a threesome? When he tried to penetrate me after getting hard again he came with his first thrust. To keep him involved he gave me oral whenever I felt I needed more lubrication with kissing and hand holding etc.

    When me and my hubby have had sex this week he has felt a lot smaller. I guess this is where I have been stretched. Will this always be the case now?

    Desperate to have an orasm again. Max was able to give it to me with me wrapped around his wait standing & thrusting powerfully but my hubby isn't strong or bigger enough to have sex this way. We have tried spoonng but he often slips out so we just have missonary sex. Any tips to have this kind of orgasm again? Now i know I can I just want more of it & getting frustrated!

    Thanks

    Jo

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    abi_mo [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi Jo

    We are only slightly ahead of you. I had my first threesome last year, when I was 26, just before we got married. It was something we both wanted to try and had talked about for a while but didn't want to do it with anyone we knew. We met a lovely chap on a holiday and it was really easy to just ask him.

    I have to admit, I loved it, like you, I came very easily although my husband has always been able to make me come. Also, like you, my husband came just from watching me. He had been wanting me to have sex in front of him for a while and he came as soon as the other guy entered me. So, in that respect, it wasn't a threesome because my husband didn't actually make love to me that night although did everything else. When they were both ready again they spit roasted me with my husband in my mouth and, again, he came very quickly.

    I loved it and would love another one. My husband is also keen but I know feels a bit self concious about what happened. For me, it doesn't matter, I loved it and it hasn't changed what I think of him, in many ways it is better that he found it so horny he couldn't control himself, although I do know the other guy made sure he lasted as long as he could, to prove a point I guess.

    I am not sure about the 5" thing. My husband and the other guy are about the same size, 7-8", but my husband has never made me come just from penetration whereas the other guy did. I think it was about the event rather than anything else.

    Why not just get a nice big dildo and get your husband to fuck you with it?

    Cheerio

    Abi

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    Delboy1991 [sign in to see picture]
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    Have you thought about using something like this ..

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35672

    ( they do do it in a smaller size too)

    Its hollow so you husband can get enjoyment from it too. Or may be a simple extender would work too.

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/penis-extenders-enlargers/penis-extensions/

    You could also try a penis pump which would make him harder and bigger

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/penis-extenders-enlargers/penis-pumps/

    Let us know what you go with x

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    Vanessa8 [sign in to see picture]
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    Jo, what about having your husband bend you over the bed or the arm of a couch and penetrating your from behind?

    The 3some sounds awesome btw ;)

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    Ragnar Lodbrok [sign in to see picture]
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    Jocardwell,
    It sounds like you both had a fun and exciting time.
    You might consider this product in order to remedy your problem:

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28310

    We have used it (and reviewed it) and it’s fab.
    My wife ( a “Girth Queen” likes the feeling of being filled and this penis extender certainly provides her with this!


    Good luck with your quest!

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    Love Stud Too [sign in to see picture]
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    I was the other man in a threesome at university.

    My flatmate had been going with a French student **removed**, since we started uni, nearly two years when our other flatmate finished uni **removed**moved in. This was not a shy English rose, no she liked to bare her body at every opportunity and always left the bathroom door open dropped her towel etc. One night after about three months together my mate and this **removed**came back from a few drinks down the pub. I had just finished some course work and was watching the football when they arrived back **removed**went to the bedroom and returned naked and said she wanted to please both of us!!!  As a 19 year old I didn't need much encouragement but my mate was a little uneasy about this situation. She made a move on him first and he was soon in the saddle so to speak. It was over very quickly and I was next having my first and only sloppy seconds experience. I lasted a lot longer having had a wank earlier in the evening with the flat to myself. **removed**was making a lot more appreciative noises than she did with my mate, he watched but I could see that he was not happy. We did both had seconds which **removed**obviously enjoyed and then my mate called time and took her to his bedroom. This never happened again. **removed** became more modest around the flat and we never spoke of that night. When we left uni I heard that my mate had married **removed**but I wasn't invited to the wedding.  The marriage didn't last long, about a year and then she returned to France.

    I have happy memories of that night in the flat but my former mate does not. Envy and jealousy are powerful and destructive emotions.I was the other man in a threesome at university.

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    Jocardwell [sign in to see picture]
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    Oh wow a holiday threesome .... what position did the other guy give you a penetrative orgasm? My hubby came quickly so we didn't spit roast but Max took me over the bed from behind with my hubby & myself 69 with hubby at the bottom keeping me wet in giving me oral whilst we held hands. Very hot!

    Now that Max has stretched me will my hubby always feel smaller? We actually had sex last night and he even said I felt looser since the threesome.

    I am starting to think my hubby may be smaller then most men after reading your post & doing some google searches. Some say 4.5 is average but alot say 5.5 average? Hubby is 5 inch exactly. Max has a bananna shaped cock & seemed to hit the spot upon entry so not sure its size , shape or powerful thrusting .... I just now it felt bloody good!

    Also is it normal to feel sore & how long wiill this last... feels like my cervix has taken a bashing? Worth it though : )

    Like the idea of by hubby giving it to me with a strap on the size of Max. He can't thrust very hard/ast though so not sure if he will be able to give me an orgasm.

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    Lovehoney - Cheekbones [sign in to see picture]
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    Jocardwell wrote:

    Now that Max has stretched me will my hubby always feel smaller? We actually had sex last night and he even said I felt looser since the threesome.

    The vagina is made up of muscles that expand and contract - yours have had a workout and it won't take long for it to spring back to what it was before. If you're worried about it, kegel balls are great for pelvic floor muscles and 'tightening' that area.

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    Ian Chimp [sign in to see picture]
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    It sounds like you may need to do some exploring on your own to find out what you do and don't like. Once you have a few ideas you can then give your husband some tips on how he can satisfy you more thoroughly. Everyone is different, and trying new things out can be a lot of fun (as I think you've already found out 🙂).

    I don't know how many toys you've already tried, but your posts suggest that maybe you're a bit of a beginner to the whole thing. If that is the case then Lovehoney do quite a few selection kits that allow you to try a lot of different styles without having to empty your bank account to do it. I think they even have a couple in the 50% sale they've got on this weekend so you can save even more. They're not the most swish of toys, but if you find a style you like then you can invest in a more expensive one when you're ready.

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35238&fo_c=24&fo_k=5e2e9bffa8920369252478c4ef3bda73&fo_s=monetategb

    (don't forget the extra 20% off if you buy two Lovehoney sex toys. If you add a cheeky little something for a couple of quid it'll bring the price down even more).

    We tried this one when we were looking at exploring other vibrator styles (though it's not currently reduced at the moment unfortunately):

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=37698

    The G-spot one has a very bulbous head, which may be something you'd like. And the ribbed vibrator is 7" and also quite thick. They're not monsters though, so if this other guy was a stack of tuna tins then you may need something with a little more girth. I haven't tried this but it looked worth a look. 🙂

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35541

    And if girth is important make sure you check the details section of each product to see how they measure up.

    Hope this is helpful.

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    Heya 

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    Jocardwell [sign in to see picture]
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    Hey - yes its fine!

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    abi_mo [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi Jo

    I am hardly an expert am sat at an airport waiting for a flight to Greece so this will be a bit garbled, sorry.

    We started out in the pool with a bit of skinny dipping and fumbling, that led to the suggestion of a threesome. We went back to our appartment where we couldn't really work out how to do everything so my husband ended up watching the other guy fuck me from behind bent over a table. Hubby came almost as soon as the other guy entered me.

    That didn't really work, we were at the wrong height, so moved into the bedrom. He fucked me missionary style and I came as he came inside me.

    I have had much bigger cocks in the past than my hubby and the other guy, and also a few smaller ones. I honeslty don't think it makes any difference. Once you get over the initial shock of a massive one first entering you then it feels the same as a normal one I find. The stretching lasts about 48h, I think. I do wish hy hubby had a massive one sometimes only because they are nicer to look at and more fun to suck and stroke but other than that it doesn't bother met at all.

    I wouldn't worry about the 5" and orgasms. You will find a way to make it work and if he is your husband and you love each other the sex will always be better than some hook up with a random with a big cock. But if it does bother you have you thought about asking if you could have some no strings fun to try out a bigger guy?

    Loved reading your story

    Abi

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    Bigiain [sign in to see picture]
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    My friend opened up about this the other day to me and another friend.

    His first threeaome ruined his first marriage.

    Basically his ex suggested it, they talked it over and went with a stranger, but waited till they were in another country and went to a brothel and got a prostitute to be involved. So my mate said the wife picked a guy out and they went in, done the deed and came out, went home etc and came back to Scotland.

    They kept it quiet, but turned out the wife was running about telling everyone in her work about it. My friend got annoyed and pulled her up, but then told him she found someone to do another with...he refused and basically their marriage started to fall to bits because she was on the hint for guys to bring into their sex life and he wasn't keen.

    Ended up she cheated on him like 3 times with these guys in another tiresome without the hubby.

    My friend was broken for years over that and is due getting married again.... I personally can't see any good outcome to being in a relationship/marriage if you're going to bring over people into it.

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    JonnyHatesJaz [sign in to see picture]
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    My only 3sums were when I was younger and often after too much alcohol but all good fun

    i think if you’re in a steady relationship it can be ruinous even though you both fancy it

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    Sounds so hot! Did you ever see him again? In your experience/anyone else have bigger men resulted in longer harder sex? Apparently men with big ones last longer because nerve endings are not so close together which would explain why my hubby cums quicker?

    Also did you find yourself more vocal? I've always been quiet. Sure I will say things like thats nice honey when my hubby has sex with me but in a soft tone & never found myself biting shoudlers/pillows or being so vocal as when Max pounded me. Was just so much more animalisitc.

    Me and my hubby have only really had slow steady missionary sex for 2-3 minutes 4-5 times a month but upon feeling how my body responds to hard big cock thrusting am trying to encourage him to give it to me harder by pushing his bum into me more aggresively and saying harder/faster gently into his ear when he is inside me.... the problem is when he tries to give it to me like Max he explodes within seconds! He is such a loving hubby and gives me pleasure orally,  massaging & kissing but I'm just craving the same penetrative experience again more then anythng! Not sure if its the size but power & speed helps

    For guys you have had who are smaller what positions do you find works best?

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    Hey jocardwell, if your looking for positions to last a little longer have you tried the flat iron? Simply lay flat on your tummy and let him mount you from behind, he can get a deeper penetration with more power as he is dropping into you, and usually this doesn’t feel as intense for the man. Another position if for him to enter you sideways, put one leg straight on the bed and let him lift the other up so your hips are sideways, he will get a lot deeper this way. We tend to stay away from these two positions unless plenty of pre play has happened as my size makes it’s quite uncomfortable for my partner as they are known to make things deeper.
    As for orgasms, get your partner to bring you to orgasm orally first before you have penetrative sex as once you have one it’s usually easier to achieve more 👌🏻

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    Jocardwell [sign in to see picture]
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    Hey - thanks for the tip! I have only ever had an orgasm with my hubby riding his face but obviously not a vagina one. Usually thats how we finish and stop once I climax.

    I loved Max spooning me (even though I felt a peeing sensation) but anything sidweways my hubby struggles with due to size, my big bum & slipping out.

    We have never done flat iron. I will have to ask if he can put it in like that! Thanks for the tip! Definitely a feeling of being full / deep that I want again! Thrusting hard key though!

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    LIL_KNOWN69 [sign in to see picture]
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    With the flat iron position your hubby can drop hard at force and give you a really deep and hard thrust which should be what your looking for. I would highly recommend you letting your partner give you oral to orgasm and then start your penetrative sessions as this can make things happen a lot fast rather than the long build up required ☺️

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    Hi Jo

    Sorry, been away for a week.

    No, we never saw again after the holiday. We did seem again on the holiday of course but it was pleasant and relaxed. No more sex!

    The bigger men I have had have generally been a bit disapointing. Some guys with really massive cocks can't get it properly hard and otherwise I have not noticed too much difference except the occasional arrogance related to size and that I will be grateful.

    It is funny you ask about being vocal. I never am, but during the threesome I was giving a sort of slutty commentary to my husband which he absolutely loved. It was more a performance for him but I enjoyed being able to do that.

    In all honesty, why not ask your husband if he has happy for you to have a bit of fun with a bigger guy, a sort of open/FWB thing. You could time limit it, say 6 weeks, and promise to tell him everything about it. He might go for it if he really enjoyed seeing you fuck and lots of guys like the hotgirlfriend thing especially if it is totally open and honest.

    Abi

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