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    VirginAngel [sign in to see picture]
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    Take care of yourself x

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    Elbow. [sign in to see picture]
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    Hope you are both ok. You have each other and you are obviously so strong together. Take care of yourselves.

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    AmyA [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm so very sorry, there really isn't any suitable words. Sending peaceful thoughts of healing and support to you both.

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    KinkyMira [sign in to see picture]
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    I hope you managed to get some sleep last night. Look after yourself today and don't be hard on yourself if you don't have a decent day - that is totally understandable.

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    Mrs LST here

    All the advice is good and valuable here. We are all a supportive group. Remember your fiancé loves you deeply as you love him. It may be his birthday but he needs to know what has happened and what you’re going through. This will bring you together and make you closer than ever. Sharing this moment will be painful but it will make you both stronger. Sending you positive 💗

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    SoontobeMrs [sign in to see picture]
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    Hey guys- didn’t sleep well last night at all, just going through the motions but pain is horrible. Find out tomorrow if I need to go into hospital for more testing as I had cervical cancer treatment last year and there are concerns now that I may need help to carry a baby to term. Doctors have been amazing and I’m incredibly grateful to both them and yourselves for the support. As for OH he’s been next level amazing, really looking after me xx

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    Aw sweetheart, I'm sorry you had to go through this. Miscarriage is heartbreaking whether you are 2 weeks gone or 22 weeks gone. You did the right thing telling your soon to be husband. The timing wasn't great, I understand but there is never a right time. You have his support and you can heal in a way together.

    I hope specialist's can help you with advice with future pregnancy. Medical care has come so far, I have my fingers crossed they can give you hope.

    Look after yourself my love.

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    So sorry to hear this, I’m glad you told your partner and he’s supporting you. Sending lots f healing hugs xx

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    SoontobeMrs [sign in to see picture]
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    Hey lovelies, I’m being referred for a pelvic scan and I’ve had word back from swabs that there isn’t any sign of infection so I’m on way to healing and when I get the scan out of the way I should know what next steps are. OH has admitted he’s cautious about trying again now as the pain is just so intense but we both want a baby so hopefully we’ll have reassurance soon. Currently struggling with my body image- I just don’t feel very womanly and I never realised the impact mentally this could have xx

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    At least the swabs are clear. That’s a good start. It’s going to be difficult but we’re all here for you.

    Feeling womenly will come back in time x

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    SoontobeMrs [sign in to see picture]
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    Hey Guy, thank you. Yeah I was scared as pain was still really intense after 36 hours but it’s subsiding now, our communication as a couple has been put to the test- really difficult subject and OH is really struggling with saying how he’s feeling. We just need to focus on the good things and the rest will follow xx

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    Hey, I just saw this and wanted to say I'm sorry for what you're going through and I hope you're doing okay. Good luck for any other tests you have coming up <3

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    SoontobeMrs wrote:

    Hey Guy, thank you. Yeah I was scared as pain was still really intense after 36 hours but it’s subsiding now, our communication as a couple has been put to the test- really difficult subject and OH is really struggling with saying how he’s feeling. We just need to focus on the good things and the rest will follow xx

    From the bottom of my heart, I'm so sorry for what you have gone through xxxxxxx

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    SoontobeMrs [sign in to see picture]
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    Hey guys- sorry I’ve been quiet, my head’s just not been with it and I managed to drop and break my phone so I’ve been awaiting repairs which seemed to take forever!

    I’ve got the date for my pelvic scan and it’s almost a month away so they can’t be too concerned, my body is back to it’s usual non-pregnant state and I’m working at getting my mind there too. Managed to get out yesterday and we bought my wedding ring so now funds are tight but I’m feeling more secure and have positive things to look forward to.

    Hope you’re all okay, thank you again for being so kind as to check in on me, really do appreciate it ❤️

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