1. Do females have fetishes and if so...

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    Hen Night Toad [sign in to see picture]
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    ...what for?

    I think they do but they dont seem to be as well known as male fetishes. Curious to learn more..?

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    NatandTom [sign in to see picture]
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    Yes, of course they do. Anyone, regardless of gender, can have fetishes. I think it’s just not spoken about as much, and the focus with women seems to be on fantasies, rather than specific things that they need or prefer to have in order to orgasm.

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    KinkyMinxMoo [sign in to see picture]
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    They sure do! After reading this interesting Blog post by Jess, https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/blog/2017/11/10/fetish-or-kink/ I’ll say that I don’t think that I have many to any fetishes where as kinks... how long do we have?! To cut it short, I have a pretty “healthy” looking list of kinks.

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    Mr Pheebs [sign in to see picture]
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    I have loads of kinks. Even latex is a kink, I just love the way it enhances the female form but I’m not in to hoods n stuff. And sexually i’m quite functional. So yeah i’m Kinky 😉

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    Lovebirds_x [sign in to see picture]
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    KinkyMinxMoo wrote:

    They sure do! After reading this interesting Blog post by Jess, https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/blog/2017/11/10/fetish-or-kink/ I’ll say that I don’t think that I have many to any fetishes where as kinks... how long do we have?! To cut it short, I have a pretty “healthy” looking list of kinks.

    I was also going to reccomend this post as the best explaination I've read as to what the difference is between a fetish and a kink. Great post! OP, you'll probably find that whatever fetishes you're thinking of as 'male' are loved by people of all genders. Like NatandTom said anyone can have them :)

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    Gender has no role in if you has a fetish or not, some of my female friends are actually far more sexual and have more kinks than my male friends and personally I always felt it’s because females tend to understand and dissect things a lot more by human nature. Plus it takes a lot more than staring at a bum to get most ladies off unlike most men. Males/females all have the same ability to fantasise and play out different roles and experiences.

    Males are more prone to visual stimulation so will have more kinks which relate to pornography etc and tend to be a little more open in certain aspects so the reason you don’t hear much about female kinks is because for some reason the media never pushes this sort of thing. They always talk about “how to turn on your man” etc but sadly they still assume females don’t need the same returned. Just shows that when fifty shades came out it was a huge deal that a lot of women was reading something erotic ... kinda shows the mentality of the world. Sorry for the rant but long story short.... men/women and every other gender all like whips, chains, water sports, threesomes, swinging etc just as much as eachother it literally depends on every individual

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    I think women just don't talk about it as much as there's much more of a social stigma about women and enjoyment of sex.

    All my male friends happily talk about what they're in to, but none of my female friends do. In the same way it's seen much more acceptable for males to have multiple partners, i think it's seen as more acceptable for them to have fetishes too.

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