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    Flyaway [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi people,

    Just want to ask some tips and stories about prostate orgasm as I never had that. Is any guys here had that and if yes how? If you had a toy which one would you recommend for that purpose?

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    Alicia4Ever [sign in to see picture]
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    The how is a very personal thing, as is with everything sexual; but I will give you some ideas to work with.

    Your prostate, is about 50mm to 75mm in on the front wall of your anus, you will know if you put any pressure on it as produces quite a unique sensation, unlike anything else up there. Some people can use this type of prostate massager.

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34729

    here's the whole section,it does include other types of prostate toys, too. https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/prostate-massagers/

    This type of toy is is what you could describe as hands free, in that you can grip it with your anus, or sit with it in, to keep it in place. repeated clenching of your anal muscle moves the toy against your prostate, giving a massage type effect. some do vibrate as well. As to whether vibrations there are your thing, I can't say, but if you get one that does you can use the vibration funtion or not.

    Other people prefer more of a thrusting action, to give an orgasm, for which there is this type of toy, https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34253.

    personaly I prefer a "g" spot vibe or rabbit, like this, https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29418. the rabbit ears also vibrate against the outside of your body. It allows for a more controlled stimulation of the prostate (in my opinion, and experience) as well as giving me the option ot thrusting the toy like a dildo. As personally I seem to need that to get off; plus there seems to be for me, some other "sweet" spots up there, as well as the anal sphincter it's self, that loves to feel that in out sensation.

    You will have to experiment to find out what does it best for you; there is no one method fits all. Besides I like to think the search for what works is half the fun; that's how I found the other spots, and techneques which work for me.

    I often find myself with a continuous orgasm, as long as I continue to thrust past the point of orgasm. To which it's better to have someone using it on me, as my body goes limp during orgasm, to the point I can't keep up the thrusting action very long once in orgasm. It's such a pain being single.

    If I want to go hands free with a "G" spot toy, I lay on the bed on my back, with a towel laid across the bed just under my bum. I then insert the rabbit, and create a hammock for the base of the rabbit from the towel, then pull each end of the towel onder my bum cheeks to tighten, and secure the "hammock". Then by bringing up my feet towards my bum, I can use my legs to lift me a little to get a hands free thrusting action. If you masturbate at the same time you can have a blended anal/ penis orgasm.

    In case you are wondering I'm a pre op trans woman, who likes to think of her anus as a tempory vagina, until I have my surgery. but don't let that stop you trying my suggestions; I still have a prostate!! and nothing I'm suggesting has anything to do with being trans.

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    KingGrthy [sign in to see picture]
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    Good description, I didn’t answer becuse it’s hard to explain but that pretty much describes it. I don’t get off from prostate massagers personally but I do off dildos thrusting in and out. Doesn’t have to be a large girth dildo either. It didn’t happen for me until after quite a bit of experimentation (several sessions) though but when it finally did, wow! I find I can get there by thrusting a dildo in and out almost the full length, starting slower at first and speeding up until I’m in what A4E calls a “continuous” orgasm. I also like to clench and relax my muscles back there in rhythm with the thrusting, clench our and relax in.

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    Flyaway [sign in to see picture]
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    Thank you for this very detailed answer for my question. I was just asking this as i seen it on the internet that some people get erected and even cum without touching themselves. Also seen it in some gay porns. Im very fascinated about this as I planning to order some toy. Can anyone recommend some prostate massagers? I heard about ANEROS brand. Is that good?

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    A prostate orgasm is an happen without an erection and while sometimes it will cause ejaculation anyway it can also cause you to urinate.

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    Flyaway [sign in to see picture]
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    Thank you but which are the best toys on the market right now?

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    I think Alicia4Ever has given some ideas if you follow those links.

    I can only speak personally about my experience. This is something I do solo, although my OH knows I have toys and do this when alone in the house or in the shower.

    I started in earnest around 1 year ago experimenting with anal stimulation using dildo's, I particularly enjoyed glass ones as they clean well and are firm which is good to get pressure on your P-spot, thay also feel cold with is a nice feeling. I've heard that metal ones are also good, check out ones designed for G-spot stimulation if you don't see anything under the anal section of LH website. I did struggle to have a P-spot orgasm, however, it felt amazing sliding something in and out. I cheekly tried a large vibrator that my my Wife has (but rarely if ever uses, it's overly "vigorous" for her) and found the vibrations really did give me a stronger feeling, but it's shape wasn't ideal as you need a curve. I think on the third or forth use of this vibrator I had a P-spot organsm and yes it's very different to a normal ejaculatory orgasm. You get this gradual building sensation (I mean 30 mins or longer !) in your lower abdomen, in order to P-spot orgasm you have to learn to "let go" and focus on that sensation in your lower abdomen. The feeling can come and go so can get increasingly sexually frustrating as I've found my state of arousal gets pretty extreme with anal stimulation, honestly I end up panting like a dog !! I then bought a G-spot/P-spot vibrator which LH no longer do, but it was a good quality one around £100 (I'm at my PC and cannot remember the brand), but what attracted me to it were the female comments about it. It has a couple of lower "random" rumbling vibration settings (there are 8 in all I think) and I've found that really does the trick, but it still takes time. That P-spot vibrator is proably now my go to toy and I've become so used to the feeling of anal stilumation that I can usually acheive an organsm every time, but there are still times when I don't, at those times you just have to realise the arousal and feelings are still very, very good. I sort of get a semi-erect penis during stimulation and there is usually some, on occasions a lot, of pre-cum. Generally there is no ejaculation as such, but occaisonally there is, I've never urinated as a consequence of anal stimulation. One thing I have noted is that sex and traditional orgasm with my OH is more intense I presume because of all the ejaculate build up. Double benefits !

    I've also being experimenting with butt plugs and have worn some of these "out and about" which is an odd but pleasent feeling. I started with glass ones, but I now find the flaring, which prevents it "riding up" too small. I then made a decision to buy the LH large butt plug later last year, you should read my review that I just posted, but the upshot is that it was a struggle to take, but oh yes when you finally manage, pushing a bullett vibe in the hole gives me a P-spot orgasm too.

    Well that's my journey so far. One issue is that I now routinely fantasise about my OH pegging me, not sure if I'll ever get her to do that, but it's a lovely image in my mind

    A few final points. I bought an anal douche which is useful to "clean out", always go to the loo first, and do use plenty of anal lube for the butt plugs, but only a little/just enough on any P-spot vibrators otherwise it will slid out when you don't want it to. This has happened to me a few times, I just wipe off the lube that that's there and re-insert with any lube that's already in my anal passage, it's usually all good then ! Body position can also help improve your chances of P-spot orgasm, for me the best is in the shower and I close my legs to maximise the internal contact and lean forward against the wall to hit the right spots. I also occasionally just gently touch my penis to help the sensation grow a bit stronger, not masturbation of my penis, just a few gentle carassing strokes, this does make me erect generally. Doing this sparringly does help to strenghen the feeling in my abdomen for the P-spot orgasm and as soon as I feel that growing I stop touching my penis; you have to be patient and disciplined to do this. One of the dissapointments that can occur, especially in the early days while you practise, is that you "accidentally" orgasm the traditional way and ejaculate. I've found those orgasms to be weaker than normal and consequentally dissapointing, so I have to console myself with the feeling of arousal and the anal stimulation sensations; anyway do be prepared for this as it does feel like a set back.

    I was pleased to see this post as I was going to ask about multiple anal/P-spot orgasms and whether they were possible; I see someone mentioned this. Yesterday I think I had my first one. I had a series of waves of pleasent P-spot orgasmic sensations go on for a number of minutes and then I ejaculated with a powerful orgasm and loads of cum, which caught me unawares as it went all over the bedding, don't tell my Wife ! Well actually I did tell my Wife about what I had experienced, just not the messy bit. She has been supportive so far, but possibly I gave her a little too much information and she possibly felt treatened by it; anyway that's for me to worry about.

    Good luck in your explorations.

    MS@50

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    PS I've read that a prostrate massager like the Aneros brand can be difficult to master, their website gives lots of advice and help. I have considered getting one, but I'm happy with what I have at the moment, I'm still new to this having only been doing anal stimulation for 1 year.

    Have fun, trying is certainly part of the enjoyment, but don't be disheartened if it takes time to perfect; it took me a number of attempts and then only sporodically successful, but now much easier after a year. It's almost as if you have to re-train how you body reacts to the sensation of being stimulated anally rather than via your penis; it's a most curious and pleasurable feeling and makes a change.

    Byeeee

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    Flyaway [sign in to see picture]
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    Is there anyone who can hire to help you reach prostate orgasm and it’s not an escort or a hooker?😅

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    Red-Renai [sign in to see picture]
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    Tantric massage services are what to look for, haven't done this, but there are plenty out there based in London. Afraid the best I can suggest is Google or meetup groups like Men in Touch

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