1. Tesco sex.....

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    BigishBen [sign in to see picture]
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    This was in my Google as one of the most searched phrases so naturally I had a look. A 35 year old male manager and 19 year old female employee have both had to leave their jobs following a video of him performing oral sex on her on his desk went around social media.

    Now obviously they were wrong and I could understand them getting sacked if someone had walked in on them, but to be filmed by teenage boys through the window on their phones I think is terrible. It's scary how quickly lives and reputations can be ruined so easily in today's world with just a mobile phone.

    Two people caught in the throes of passion now pornhub stars already (and it's the woman's name that it comes under) due to a few immature guys deciding to be their judge and jury. Scary in my opinion. They should really be facing charges as I'm sure filming someone against their will is not legal!?

    And I'm 35 thus year and if I wasn't married and had the offer of a beautiful 19 year old pussy in front of me, I'd be giviring her an orgasm just like he did!

    Any thoughts, counter opinions on This!??

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    There was something similar where I live, only it was a married man caught having an affair with a coworker in their offices at night, filmed from a pub across the road. The pair didn't realise that their "privacy glass" wasn't so private at night with the office lights on.

    Entertainment for the crowd.

    Marraige destroyed when videos posted to social media and the mans wife being shown the video Careers destroyed (was mid/upper level management in an insurance brokerage firm). All for a piece of ass

    Making an intimate recording is illegal here without the persons permission where that person has a reasonable right or expectation of privacy (so filming a couple going at it in a field is fair game, but if someone simply forgot to close the curtains, not so much.

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    I think this is awful..

    Okay so they should have been working , that's what they get paid for. But.. haven't we all been caught in the moment once or twice? Even if it's the wrong time, and place!

    I think it's disgusting that anyone could get away with filming this , let alone posting it online.

    Those poor people have had their lives turned upside down. The way everyone is talking about it you would think she was underage. They are BOTH adults. We all do it. 🙄 was no need to post it online.

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    I don’t agree with the filming or public posting at all. How would those people feel if they were filmed in an intimate moment without their permission? Especially if it was then posted online for all to see forever. It’s as wrong as revenge porn in my opinion.

    I feel bad for the man’s partner as she’s had to find out publicly that he was unfaithful to her and that must have hurt. Hopefully she’s doing ok.

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    People shouldn't be doing things like that at work, especially with a big corporation where they have a large public image to maintain. Even if they had not been filmed, it would be classed as gross missconduct. They got caught and paid the price.

    In this day and age I think people need to be more aware of doing things they shouldn't be doing in certain places. If they had been at his or her home, or even in a hotel room then the people who filmed it should be prosicuted to the full extent of the law. To find your sex life imortalised on the internet without your consent, surley would be horrendous.

    The days when it would have been a photo print that would have got the person taking it to be printed in trouble; and practically no one would ever see it even if it was printed, unless it was taken to a news paper, are over. If it happens now the whole world gets to see it in seconds. And while there is a major down side for that, there is also an up side to it too, in that crimes can be filmed and so quickly solved.

    But yeah I'm kind of sad for the people involved, one lapse of judgment will follow them around for a long time. And may make finding future work very difficult.

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    I agree it's awful to film people like that without their permission and then post it online for everyone to see. They also clearly don't give a toss whether either of the people involved are already in relationships with other people. I'm not justifing extra marital sex behind a partners back but no one else had the right to expose what they thought was a private moment.

    I can't imagine the humilation of finding out your partner has cheated by finding out the evidence is all online . The idiots filming this think it's just a joke but this is peoples lives they're messing about with.

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    Good to see most people are generally in the same opinion of me. I think the world is getting more dangerous by the day. People have to much power at the tips of their thumbs now in my opinion. It's not just filming things, there are so many ways to slander, bully and manipulate the truth to turn people against people or business.

    I also look at cheating. It must be so easy to cheat in this day and age!? There are websites dedicated to it. Escorts are easy to book online within minutes. Back in the day cheating must have been genuine hard graft but now?! I think the definition of it has changed............

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    “ Delboy1991 wrote

    Okay so they should have been working , that's what they get paid for. But.. haven't we all been caught in the moment once or twice? Even if it's the wrong time, and place!

    I think it's disgusting that anyone could get away with filming this , let alone posting it online.

    Those poor people have had their lives turned upside down. The way everyone is talking about it you would think she was underage. They are BOTH adults. We all do it. 🙄 was no need to post it online.”

    I totally agree. Sex is a natural part of life and as long as no one is being taken advantage of what’s the prob?
    The posters should not have done this.

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    Aside from the fact they were caught having sex in the workplace I think there are a number of issues ...

    1. At least one of them was in a 'long term' relationship so was cheating and got very publicaly exposed for that.

    2. I think most employers would be a bit concerned if their staff were performing sexual acts on each other in the office whether it is while they are being paid to work or after hours. They are both consenting adults (apparently) but so obvious in the office? Sex may be a natural act but not in the office unless you work in a brothel

    3. For me the biggie is that the fact the clip has been posted online and still available to view. I am surprised that the people being filmed don't have the right to get the film removed if they wanted to. I realise it isn't revenge porn but it must be close. As to the newspapers who paid to put clip on their websites ...

    The guy cheated in a very public way and has had to 'suffer' because of that but surely the issue was the clip was then sold to papers and posted online and is still available?

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    They took a risk and broke T&C of employment, they were found out, they had to go. As I imagine you would if your Mrs found your face in the lap of another.

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    This is why I dislike the 'sex at work' & ' masturbate at work' threads, really don't like promoting people to perhaps make a mistake to lose jobs or more. 

    Unfortunately, in an age of technology-dependent people, things like this will happen more and more.  I don't agree that it should happen but in the same respect perhaps a more secluded (non public workplace) area would have been better OR don't cheat at all is the better option. 

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    Also, in a food store that`s pretty disgusting!

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    It’s sad to think the new trend of posting clips like this will just make things worse and situations like this will be “normal”. If you had someone watching a couple through a window and filming an intimate moment then they would be deemed a “pervert” or “peeping tom” so what makes this any better?

    I feel for everyone involved, at 19 you have barely finished education and that’s hardly the age for someone to be posted online. As for the cheating aspect, it’s very wrong but no one should be forced into being publicity humiliated no matter what mistake they have made. I find it all really creepy and distasteful. Also shocked the amateur photographers haven’t been arrested for ruining the lives of the people involved and filming someone against their will.

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    I shall start off with my manager head on. Even with consent he has abused his position. One of the first things I learned on management training was "do not have relations with staff without first contacting the person above you". Many have used their position of power to get what they want so we all must tread carefully.

    Sex is a great thing but sex at work in a supermarket where you could be found out? Not the best idea. Saying that those who filmed it are seriously out of line. In an age where anyone can film anything, take photos of anything and publicly humiliate anyone instantly is a disgrace. It's not just the couple and tesco that suffer, it's their family, friends and their future children. They will never escape it as even if it was deleted the Internet will have a footprint. It really saddens me.

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    Looked like he was on his lunch break to me lol

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    yup they were wrong to do it in their workplace, but the prople filming eed to be charged it is disgusring that people think they can just whip out their phones and post something that has nothing to do with them online, they need to think how they would feel if it was them being filmed or a member of their family, Im sure they wouldnt find it amusing! The couple need to press charges against them and hopefully this will discourage others from doing the same xx

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    I think it's terrible. The rights and wrongs of what the employees were doing don't matter really - it's the fact that a bunch of immature lads saw fit to film it and post it on the web. Pity they can't be named and shamed and suffer the abuse on social media.

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    I have to say, I work in that store and it has increased sales quite a bit. If they had done it at home no one would have cared but doing it while on shift, in uniform and in store is just stupid.

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    Lovehoney - Leanne wrote:

    This is why I dislike the 'sex at work' & ' masturbate at work' threads, really don't like promoting people to perhaps make a mistake to lose jobs or more.

    Unfortunately, in an age of technology-dependent people, things like this will happen more and more. I don't agree that it should happen but in the same respect perhaps a more secluded (non public workplace) area would have been better OR don't cheat at all is the better option.

    I agree, in my opinion sex at/during work is not acceptable at all and is a total lack of professionalism

    Filming without someones permission is horrible too, sounds like a bad situation all around really.

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