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  1. Help! Does my obbsession with big penises mean more?

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    Dave10uk [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi. First of all i am a straight engaged man. I have never thought or doubted my sexuality and i have never found men attractive but have started to wonder if my obbsession with big penises is a sign i may be gay.

    I love big penises, the bigger the better and i wish i had one. I love to watch pornography with Mandingo and Whitezilla and pretend i am them. One of my faviourte fantasies is that a 'well hung stud' steals away my fiancee and sleeps with her in front of me. I alternate between the role of being the stud and the cuckold depending on my mood.

    I just dont know if these kind of thoughts are healthy. If i am honest i find these fantasys more of a turn on at times then my regular turn ons.

    I dont know if its the perceieved power or the man i am attracted too.

    Any advice would be great. I dont want to lie to myself and these doubts have really shaken my confidence.

    Thanks

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    Boaso [sign in to see picture]
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    You actually answered your own question in the first sentence:
    "...i am a straight engaged man. I have never thought or doubted my sexuality and i have never found men attractive..."
    You're not gay, no. What is most likely is that your fantasies could be the result of competition, submission, or (surprising as it may seem) dominance. From what you've said you're a "switch", liking both being submissive and dominant depending how you're feeling at the time.
    Cuckold fantasies are very common (around 70% of men in some studies), but not always a sign that a man is submissive. I have talked extensively about this, and will be adding some essays about it when I start my new blog, as it is one of the most misunderstood fantasies and role plays around.

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    Mr Pheebs [sign in to see picture]
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    If you’re watching porn with well hung blokes, it’s quite possible you’re enjoying the actresses responses and viewing the ‘stretching’, so to speak. It’s really interesting the use teeny tiny actresses generally with massive blokes with big cocks isn’t it?

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    Bigtrak [sign in to see picture]
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    Dave10uk, Hi.


    I am Polysexual. What that means is I am straight. I have never found the male form attractive. However I really find penises attractive. I love seeing them on the female form or just close up. I'd have no problem playing with one sexually, not that I have, and after years of being ashamed of how I felt finally shared with my wife about a year ago.

    Am I gay/bisexual..............No. Not that I'd have a problem if I was.

    I just enjoy what I enjoy and feel no shame. So I'd suggest you try and accept your kinks and then enjoy them as life's too short not to.

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    InOrbit1971 [sign in to see picture]
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    I agree...I'm entirely straight, but perfectly comfortable with the concept of homosexuality and have many gay friends. I myself have never found another man attractive but have found women sexy by the million. But I do find seeing a big cock to be really very hot. I think it's why I find oral, and especially oral porn, such a turn-on. And I'm clearly not alone in that!

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    Dave10uk [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks everyone. Im aware that there is more to homosexuality then just liking penises, but this one threw me, especially since its only been in the last few years. Glad to see im not alone.

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