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  1. Age old issue, but don't want to cheat

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    Love Stud Too [sign in to see picture]
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    Buy ing him grooming kits with the hope that he gets the hint and uses them is often a lost cause. I took direct action with my husband. Escorted him to the hairdressers and sorted out his hair style and even took care of his pubic grooming. He has admitted that he likes his style now and thinks that my help was needed. It sometimes takes direct action so take some. Don't be passive.

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    pazza [sign in to see picture]
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    Oh no I have. It's gotten to the stage now where I say things out right now. He's either too busy or says I'm nagging. The hints and presents were in the earlier stages (but I think someone here suggested I buy them, that's why I brought it up)

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    pazza wrote:

    Just to clarify, it's not that I want to change him, it's more just improve on who he is which is what we all strive for right?

    I totally appreciate that this comes across as a lost cause, but It's literally the only gripe I have with him.

    This still sounds like trying to change him to me.

    If you only have 1 gripe why do you have such a “strong urge to sleep with other men”?

    I don’t mean to frighten you off so I apologise but I’m a little confused here, what else is going on?

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    pazza [sign in to see picture]
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    I realise I seem to have trivialised things now. By 1 gripe I mean the bedroom issue. Him not taking care of himself is feeding in to the abismal sex life we have (if it helps paint the full picture, his face isn't the only place he lets go).

    We aren't compatable in the bedroom, after typing out these messages it's clear to see. And that is making me nit pick over other things such as grooming etc.

    Do I sound like a crank?!

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    pazza wrote:

    Oh no I have. It's gotten to the stage now where I say things out right now. He's either too busy or says I'm nagging. The hints and presents were in the earlier stages (but I think someone here suggested I buy them, that's why I brought it up)

    I stated it but wasn't aware of his past beard experences lol

    But on a serious note. I hope you get it sorted and somehow manage to speak to him just take it one step at a time i know it's easier said than done and for yourself try making more time for yourself it will make having a higher sex drive easier to live with

    personally in the past if i found it hard to tell my other half something that id put on here id downright show him the thread but that's just me.

    Good luck and all the best of your future x

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    pazza wrote:

    Do I sound like a crank?!

    No, just sounds like you know the answer to your own question but haven't accepted it yet.

    I once decided to stay with the person I loved and the mother of my child in a marriage that had become sexless (her choice) just to find out she was cheating on me and was waiting until after Xmas to serve papers to not ruin our kid's Xmas.

    You pays your money and makes your choice.

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