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  1. Found my spark again

    jessrose91 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi guy it's been a while since I've be enough on here.

    So I had a baby in April and he is now nearly 10 months old. It's gone so fast can't believe it!

    Anyway when I was pregnant my sex drive just vanished! And even after having the baby it never really came back until now. It's not completely back but I'm starting to enjoy sex more and want it more. It has taken a lot of persuasion from my partner and patience on his part bless him we went month with out anything. I didn't even want to be touched!

    But suddenly my sex drive is coming back. Yay

    So ladies or gents anything you can suggest to try to spice things up?? We starting slowly again basically reintroducing our sex back into the world of sex haha

    I have plenty I'd toys but none really take my fancy!

    Anyway can't wait to hear all your hints and tips to try

    Love you all xxx

    LadySpider [sign in to see picture]
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    Hey jessrose!

    Welcome back and lots of congratulations on the birth of your babi!

    Losing sex drive happens to loads of girls after the birth - I think being so god-damned tired is the culprit! And those stupid hormones...sounds like they're all finally balanced though, and you sound raring to go, my lovely!

    Dunno what to suggest to spice things up... a long bondage session is bound to be interrupted by a crying babi, innit? If you can, send him to the Grandparents for the night - have a whole evening and night of uninterrupted play time with your toys...try them all again! Or treat yourself to some new ones?

    Mr Pheebs [sign in to see picture]
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    Hey JessRose, we agree with Lady Spider but only when your comfortable as leaving a little one takes courage, this is definately the place to start though!

    As for toys you may find fun & different, here we go!


    Take a look at the Doppio 2.0 for a couples toy it does just about anything your mind allows it too.

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=39546 (get this one it’s worth the extra if you can).



    Also clitoral suction toys are great. We can recommend these



    Then you get the G spot vibrating toys like the Rave you can also lick each other 😛, it’s a great toy! https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34852

    FOR HIM.

    For him, depending on size, treat him to a Fleshlight https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/brands/fleshlight/

    or something like a Tenga Zen https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22882


    But whatever you do, make sure you get the right stuff to be close, patient & intimate and just enjoy touch & closeness.

    For massage and sex in the bath, not for your toys though https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=359

    For closer sex, to lube your toys and just for the Kink!https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/brands/sliquid/

    flavoured ones are great tasting too!

    We hope this helps, we’re not saying get it all but this list covers most bases. We would start with the Doppio and the lubes 😉 have fun!

    Purring-Pussy [sign in to see picture]
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    Treat yourselves to some massage oils or the massage candles. Have a sexy play list, dim the lights and enjoy. For added sensation, ass a blindfold, satin restrains and a feather tickler.

    VR [sign in to see picture]
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    Congratulations on your nearly new addition :-)

    Aren't hormones a wonderful and whacky thing?!

    What if your partner pulls all your toys out, blindfolds you and then uses each on you until you find what tickles your fancy?

    Btw, Purring-Pussy, your new pic is lovely.

    hampshirecouple [sign in to see picture]
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    I recommend a good babysitter lol x

    pusseypleaser [sign in to see picture]
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    Yes a baby sitter for a weekend so you both can have some quality time

    Bigtrak [sign in to see picture]
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