1. Strap on advice for girl on girl

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    Hey 😊

    I have been talking to a like minded woman, exchanging photos and talking about what we would like to do to each other.
    We are hoping to meet and act out some of our fantasies, including having sex with a strap on.
    I would really like some recommendations please of which are better for first time use and whether to go double ended or not initially?
    It's something we're really keen on, so I'd like it to be as pleasurable as possible.

    Thanks in advance.

    S x

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    I would not recomend a strapless strapon fo a first attempt, if that's what you mean by "double ender" such as this one, https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35130. These requre you to hold one end of it in you vagina, while using it as a penis on your partner. it takes a fair bit of pelvic floor strength, plus you wont be used to the mechhanics of how to thrust like a man has to; that takes a bit of practice.

    If you try this your first time, you may end up feeling a bit stressed, and dissapointed at how it went; I don't know if your prospective partner has experience, if she has then maybe you could, but you would need to ask her. The other result could be an evening of falling about laughing at your attempts to get it to work.

    When I think of a double ender I think more of something like this, https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14776 a double ended dildo. They are easier to use, but much more limitted in the possitions you can get into with them.

    You would in my opinion be better with such as this, https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30701

    It's on offer at the moment too, the usual price of the dildo it comes with is £22. It's suitable for use with any dildo with a suction cup, or harness base. It has room for a bullet vibe to give the wearer a bit of a tingle, plus its unisex, as it has the twin leg straps, as apposed to the one with a single lower strap, like this one https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35671, which would not be very comfortable for a guy to wear. Thats assuming your oh is the kind of guy who would be into using it on you, for dildo play, ( your profile does say you are married)

    These kind of harnesses can be fitted in such a way that the dildo sticks out from your body from a small range of positions, so you should give yourself the chance to see how it is best to fit on you, or your partner, depending on who's going to be topping, or both of you.

    You can give the wearer a bit of extra stimulation by using jiggle balls https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33555 so that as they thrust the balls, well, jiggle inside them.

    Good positions are mish, doggy, spoons, froggy, prone bone, side slide, and X position.

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