1. How to prepare for giving a blow job

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    Eymd_ [sign in to see picture]
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    Any tips and tricks?
    I'm doing a blow job session with my Sir later today and I have noooo idea how to prepare.

    ginger tea? or some tips about how tomake my throat more open?

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    I'm assuming you mean deep throating?

    Because for a blow job I do little to prepare. I just dive right in! For deep throating though I do have a sensitive gag reflex so I will do some practicing before hand on a dildo sometimes. Tea is good (I like peppermint for it personally but ginger would work). Also, I find I go deeper when I use a nice flavoured lube. Might be something to try for you.x

    They used to offer deep throat gentle numbing sprays on here which I used to love but I think they've discontinued them. : (

    Have fun!

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    Eymd_ [sign in to see picture]
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    Thank you bex1213!

    Ofc I meen deep throat, sorry!

    But thanks for the tips, I have a deep throat numbing spray and a strawberry flavored lube.

    I've been drinking ginger tea, to make my throat less swollen(it'ss not swollen, I just think this is working). but maybe I'll switch over to peppermint

    Thank you :D

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    Delboy1991 [sign in to see picture]
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    We use to use the numbing spray too. Gutted it went..😭

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    Eymd_ [sign in to see picture]
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    Wait,

    HAS LOVEHONEY STOPPED STELLING THE NUMBING SPRAY? D: D:

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    Lovehoney - Jess Wilde [sign in to see picture]
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    Eymd_ wrote:

    Wait,

    HAS LOVEHONEY STOPPED STELLING THE NUMBING SPRAY? D: D:

    Yes we have. 

    Really, as a general rule, you should never use anything numbing during sex (unless it's for delaying penile ejaculation). 

    Pain is your bodies way of telling you to stop doing what you're doing / that you're doing damage to yourself, so you should never try to block these signals. You could do yourself a real injury. 

    Also, numbing only numbs, so won't help your throat relax or anything like that. 

    Deep throating is about slow practice. Once you 'find it' (which takes a few sessions usually) you'll find it easier and easier to do without any prep. 

    For me, it's about finding the right position, and warming up to it slowly. 

    Have you ever successfully deep throated before? 

    If not, don't be disheartened if you can't do it straight away (I don't think I've ever met anyone who could) and remember, not ALL guys like deep throat, so maybe chat to him before you go for it? 

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    Love honey does a great cupcake flavoured heating lube

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    Eymd_ [sign in to see picture]
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    Yeah I've deepthroated him before, but it's been a long time since last time.
    I didn't do any warm up back then but after I always felt like I had a sore throat and it kinda felt like I was sick.

    He really likes it when I deep throat him, no worries. We talk about these kind of things.

    What kind of position would you prefere? Any tips on that?

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    Eymd_ wrote:

    Yeah I've deepthroated him before, but it's been a long time since last time.
    I didn't do any warm up back then but after I always felt like I had a sore throat and it kinda felt like I was sick.

    He really likes it when I deep throat him, no worries. We talk about these kind of things.

    What kind of position would you prefere? Any tips on that?

    Ah this is good news. It's pretty normal to have a bit of a sore throat the next day - if anything using numbing during the BJ could lead to a more sore throat as you would push through pain. 

    Really, it depends on the shape of the penis as for which position is best. 

    I was with a guy who's penis naturally curved upwards so to deep throat him, we had to be in the 69 position with me on top, but then other guys it's been easy enough to do knelt down in front of them. For me, that's always been a trial and error thing. 

    If you've deep throated him before, then try to find that position again. 

    My top tip for making more room in your throat is to open your mouth wide and push as much of your tongue out of your mouth as you can (a lot of your tongue is in your throat so this shifts it out of the way). A flat wide tongue will work best to leave room in your mouth too. You may feel a bit silly, but it will honestly make deep throat so much easier (and he'll love it). 

    Then just practice syncing your breathing with the ups and downs :) 

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    Lovehoney - Jess Wilde wrote:

    Eymd_ wrote:

    Yeah I've deepthroated him before, but it's been a long time since last time.
    I didn't do any warm up back then but after I always felt like I had a sore throat and it kinda felt like I was sick.

    He really likes it when I deep throat him, no worries. We talk about these kind of things.

    What kind of position would you prefere? Any tips on that?

    Ah this is good news. It's pretty normal to have a bit of a sore throat the next day - if anything using numbing during the BJ could lead to a more sore throat as you would push through pain.

    Really, it depends on the shape of the penis as for which position is best.

    I was with a guy who's penis naturally curved upwards so to deep throat him, we had to be in the 69 position with me on top, but then other guys it's been easy enough to do knelt down in front of them. For me, that's always been a trial and error thing.

    If you've deep throated him before, then try to find that position again.

    My top tip for making more room in your throat is to open your mouth wide and push as much of your tongue out of your mouth as you can (a lot of your tongue is in your throat so this shifts it out of the way). A flat wide tongue will work best to leave room in your mouth too. You may feel a bit silly, but it will honestly make deep throat so much easier (and he'll love it).

    Then just practice syncing your breathing with the ups and downs :)

    Wow Jess that's a really cool tip. I had no idea about this tongue out thing, but I've wondered a few times watching porno why some girls do that. That's my answer. Worth a try!

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    Lovehoney - Jess Wilde [sign in to see picture]
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    Ah good - I'm glad it helped!

    This tip definitely works for me :) 

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    Make sure the cock or cocks are clean before you start!

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    First off as a guy whom loves deep throat blow jobs allmost as much as I like breathing and better than eating yet never gets them, I have to say you Women have some very lucky men in your lives.

    I never knew people could prepare for this task, I always thought it was something someone could do or not.

    For you very cool women to prep in this way just to please your mate. My hat is off to you.

    Yet I am oh so jelaous of your men. LOL

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    My go to Position for deep throat........

    I lie on my back with my head hanging off of the bed. He is is in standing position. My throat is open n I can take a lot more than kneeling or hovering above him.
    I hold onto his legs / bum cheeks to pull him closer still.

    Have fun

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    ScumptiousDumptious wrote:

    My go to Position for deep throat........

    I lie on my back with my head hanging off of the bed. He is is in standing position. My throat is open n I can take a lot more than kneeling or hovering above him.
    I hold onto his legs / bum cheeks to pull him closer still.

    Have fun

    I just wonder: do you keep your eyes closed? It's just that I feel I'd get a bit light headed in this position with my eyes open.

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    I got dizzy too at first I think the secret is not to be at right angles if that makes sense more of a 45 degree angle. My mood decides whether I close my eyes. If he starts returning the favour I have to close my eyes to concentrate lol

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    Honestly my number 1 tip is to be careful and don't force yourself to do more than you can manage! If it's been a while since you've last done it then you may not be able to do as much straight away and that's okay.

    My other tip that has served me well is that if you squeeze your thumb in your fist it can help suppress your gag reflex a little ;) Not totally but enough to make it a little easier!

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    I personally find you shouldn't deepthroat at all if it's too big. There's a fine line between gagging, a neurological reflex, and gagging as a defence mechanism for not choking. One is ok. One makes you physically throw up. Try to avoid soft palette stimulation.

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    I hate giving blow jobs but as my swinging wifes sub I do it under pressure. I just close my eyes and open my mouth as wide as I can and let the guy cum as quick as possible, many of them want and get a very deep throating and I generally gag most of the time.

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    Call me innocent...but I never thought there was any prep needed!! I can't deep throat, my gag reflex is too strong (and I'm too selfish to learn). I do like to havesomething in my mouth as extra stimulus though - like ice cream or an extra strong mint...don't do it with hot coffee though!!

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