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    Kirsty92 [sign in to see picture]
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    So I was wondering if anyone can help me?

    My boyfriend has a habit of looking for stuff under the tag of slutty. We have been looking for underwear and things for me to wear and recently bought the Lovehoney Plus Size Seduce Me Push Up Plunge Chemise Set.

    When he has a look for things for me it'll be things like "slutty skirts for the bedroom" "slutty bedroom outfits", on porn sites he has looked at things along the lines of sluts and slutty stuff too.

    When I ask him about it he says he was just nosing but I was wondering what I can wear and how to act a bit slutty in the bedroom for him? Does anyone have any tips?

    He always says there's not much he wants me to do in the bedroom but I want to give him a little surprise and be his naughty slut.

    Although just bear in mind we cant be too graphic.

    Bigtrak [sign in to see picture]
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    Kirsty I suppose it depends on what he actually is looking for. I too like my wife to dress and act "slutty". So to ME that means either fishnets, short skirt, tight top showing midriff - Thinks pretty woman/prostitute type or a roleplay schoolgirl/st Trinians look. Always fishnets always boots. Then there's the attitude to math. A lot sass, confidence and control. Also the tease element and dirty language. That's my idea of "slutty". Of course his may differ. I'd certainly look at costumes on here.

    Kirsty92 [sign in to see picture]
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    I know some things he likes the idea of me wearing like short skirt but not fish nets.

    How can I act slutty?

    Modo [sign in to see picture]
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    Slutty means different things to different people. Unless you ask for a list of things your other half considers slutty the best bet might be to imitate the sort of things you yourself would see as slutty in other women.

    On the other hand why not create your own version and modify it depending on his reactions. As metioned above some items are always seen as slutty.

    Short skirts

    Stockings especially fishnet.

    High heels

    Low cut tops with push up bras.

    Bright lipstick especialy red.

    As already mentioned the way you talk has a bearing on this so I would suggest standing in front of a mirror and talking dirty until you feel confident doing it.


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    I spent an hour typing up what I thought was a great way for you to get what you wanted, yet after all that time my account was timed out and I lost everything I had typed.

    Sorry I spent way too much time to redo this effort.

    Goodluck I hope you find the advice your looking for.

    LIL_KNOWN69 [sign in to see picture]
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    Slutty has a whole host of meanings, what one person would say is slutty could be totally normal to someone else. If you boyrfriend is looking for this on porn sites then I'm guessing his looking for the girls to be quite vocal and take a bit of charge in the bedroom. I don't mean in a dominant way, but taking control of what's happening. My partner occasionally has her moments where she will be on her knees with her mouth open, or she will go on top and then get down between my legs and just be really dirty and vocal until I'm hitting the big O. It's a complete change to our usual roles of being submissive and dominant.

    Try and build up a lot of dirty talk phrases, maybe put on a little toy show for him and also dress like your gagging for him. A lot of this is to do with confidence so once you have it nailed you will be absolutely fine. Just maybe have a snoop and see what his version of "slutty" means to him

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    Hi Kirsty

    As the others have stated Slutty merans different things to different people.

    For me its dressing in a way with a lot of flesh on show or tight clothing to show every curve.Things like shorts teamed with boots and a cropped top . Or a minskkirt say white teamed with black stockings with the stocking tops on show . Fishnet would even look better in this instance .

    If you place the word "prostitutes" into your search engine and select images it will give you many examples.

    I would be tempted to do this in a style of a roleplay so that he wont associate you with this sort of image. Perhaps for the dirty talking you could put on an accent as well . For some reason a Southern USA drawl accent comes to mind . Dirty talk has been covered many times before on this forum so just look it up for some examples. Then practice on your own perhaps record it and play it back to see how it sounds.

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    Might be a good idea to clear your Search History if you put `Prostitues` in your search box!

    Kirsty92 [sign in to see picture]
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    Thank you everyone. I may try to dress up in everything he likes as he has been very open about from day 1. Its just trying to find everything.

    It would be role play he wouldnt get it off me every time it would just be a random treat.

    He said there is nothing he wants me to do in particular that he can think of but maybe if I just dress like he likes... I have tried but atm I havent got exactly all I want to get.

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    My OH got a butt plug with a shiny end. She pretended to drop something and then bent over, revealing that to me. Oh my, that was a slutty treat!

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