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  1. Best positions for anal sex....

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    Aims85 [sign in to see picture]
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    KNOTTED COUPLE wrote:

    Aims85 wrote:

    As the title says... What are the best positions for beginners. I mean we've had anal sex a few times before but we stopped as I found it too painful... Mainly because he's huge and I had never put anything up my butt before!!

    Now I love butt plugs and dildos etc and I'm used to it and have worked my way up to roughly his girth size so I'm ready to try again but don't want to scare myself off at the first hurdle!!

    Which positions will allow us good penetration but ease me into or onto 😝 it.The

    The essential point is to relax, lots of anal play to get the anal muscles to relax, the use of an anal lube is also essential, combine the use of anal toys before penetration is attempted, if you dont relax your muscles wont let you play.

    Yep, was very relaxed and was awesome, looking forward to a repeat performance 😀
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    Corset_is [sign in to see picture]
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    Aims85 wrote:

    Corset_is wrote:

    Aims85 wrote:

    Corset_is wrote:

    Am ordering some ASAP too. We'll have to swap notes 😉😂😂😂

    Not sure it helped but it didn't hurt at all 🙌🙌

    Definitely ordering some as soon as I get paid. Can't wait! 😜

    🙌🙌 let us know how you find it 😀

    Just got Pjur Analyse Me (£2.99 cheaper than on here, sorry LH!) and all being well Sir will be over tomorrow...which is when my big LH order is also due! Wish me luck! xx

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    Corset_is [sign in to see picture]
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    Waste of money as I got dumped 😢

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    Aims85 [sign in to see picture]
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    Corset_is wrote:

    Waste of money as I got dumped 😢

    Oh no that sucks...... His loss and you have it ready for the future 😘
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    Corset_is [sign in to see picture]
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    Aims85 wrote:

    Corset_is wrote:

    Waste of money as I got dumped 😢

    Oh no that sucks...... His loss and you have it ready for the future 😘

    I'm just giving up Aims. Literally devastated 😢

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    Spooning and doggy style are the best for me!

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    Me and my girlfriend really want to try anal but haven't had much success we've tried with lots of lube but still no luck and we love trying new things so it annoying that we haven't been able to do this she says she struggles to relax her bum and has wandered if there is anything we can do to help

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    Ballstein94 wrote:

    Me and my girlfriend really want to try anal but haven't had much success we've tried with lots of lube but still no luck and we love trying new things so it annoying that we haven't been able to do this she says she struggles to relax her bum and has wandered if there is anything we can do to help

    You could try with fingers first, yours and hers, so she can feel how to relax doggy or spoons possibly the easiest to start with, my wife recently was really surprised that I had 4 fingers up her bum she'd thought it was 1 or 2 but I did use a "relax fisting lube" sold here that very slightly numbs the area, it's really good and does not take away all the feeling (and safety aspect) the same lube she fist me with. A butt plug may help too try a set where you get 3 though I would just buy a medium one as lots of people vastly underestimate what they can take after only a very short time.

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