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  1. Squirting

    waitingformagic [sign in to see picture]
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    To me, squirting is what you see in porn - the full on launching.

    I have always got exceptionally wet (even totally soaked a bed) and have been told that's squirting but I didn't agree - then last week I most definitely did some launching!

    Do you need to launch for it to be classed as squirting? Can it be either?

    Let me know your thoughts! I'm so confused still about it happening, and he could even do it to me randomly - not even my plug-in Lovehoney wand has managed that and that thing is a serious legend in terms of orgasms! haha :-)

    Lovehoney - Paige [sign in to see picture]
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    It does sound like it - does it feel different to your usual orgasm? If so, sounds like it is squirting

    SquirtyPanda [sign in to see picture]
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    Nope in my opinion it doesnt have to projectile launch out of you at 100mph to qualify as a squirt.

    Porn is 90% for show, a lot like wrestling. When you see women projectile squirting like that, its because she is really pushing down to make it squirt out like a fountain, again all for show.

    Releasing fluids, be it even just a gentle gush, is still squirting imo. When you see women being fingered with the vigorous up and down motion which leads to a lot of gushing, that is still classed as squirting in pornography - I know because watching squirt porn is one of the things I like to watch.

    In my experience I know if I really bear down I can turn myself into a human fountain. However I choose not to concentrate on bearing down so much and just let myself flow at what ever pace is natural and enjoy the orgasm.

    Also I try to not lable things, releasing a lot of fluid and indeed saturating things is still squirting to me. It doesn't need to only be projectile squirting to qualify.

    In regards to your confusion with how it happens, it is from a lot of Gspot massage. It can indeed be at random sometimes too, which for me makes it all the more fun to play around with! But yes some women can squirt with clitoral vibrations alone too (I can). HOWEVER if you try a gspot dildo whilst using your wand on your clitoris you may be able to achieve blended orgasms. I am one of the lucky ones who can and boy is it something to shout about! Have a look around at some Gspot toys and see what you fancy trying, this dildo is my go to Gspot dildo and works every time

    Also make sure to use the search function at the top of the page to search through threads of topics of interest to you, i.e squirting. There is already a live thread discussing squirting and will be of use to you


    NatandTom [sign in to see picture]
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    "Do you need to launch for it to be classed as squirting? Can it be either?"

    No, I don't think so. Sometimes squirting can be more of a dribble, sometimes it can be more vigorous and other times it can launch. It can be any variation of the above in my experience.

    I would take what is seen in porn with a pinch of salt. A lot of women who "squirt" in porn are not actually doing it. I watched some interviews with adult filmstars who said that a lot of women actually need to have water pushed up into them, hold it until the camera is rolling and then sort of flick their clit and push it out.

    4Uonly [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm a squirter and when the time comes, fluid just flows out and it's like a dripping tap, wet and sometimes very wet. I'm always puzzled how some women spray like fountain?

    Caru-ti16 [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm a squirter too.
    I've always got super wet having sex, even from a teenager and I became so embarrased by it that I surpressed it for years.
    My husband finds it a huge turn on. Lately It's become full on porn style squirting. fountain and all! No idea why. But he loves it.

    Zoebear93 [sign in to see picture]
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    I myself have never managed to squirt, maybe I can't or maybe I havnt found the right toy or position. Porn seems to show a squirt as a huge amount of fluid shooting from the vagina, bit I believe a squirt can just be a flow of liquid too, maybe depending on the strength of the orgasm / squirt?

    AmyA [sign in to see picture]
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    For me it is mostly a flood or gush but every now and then there is a bit more force behind it which feels awesome. I think this is when I have managed to hold back longer, almost edging. I squirt from both clitoral and g-spot stimulation and I think it also seems to be more forceful when it's been more g-spot than clitoral. Either way the bed is soaked pretty much every time I play and it's wonderful.


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    Since using toys as well I ejaculate way more than before! :-)

    BigInBerks [sign in to see picture]
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    My wife has admitted she gets the urge to pee when I'm really stimulating her, but she suppresses it. As she normally wees just before sex, I keep telling her to go for it!

    harri173 [sign in to see picture]
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    I've never cum of a man before only when playing with toys what can I do to help? Thanks xx

    Phil42 [sign in to see picture]
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    harri173 wrote:

    I've never cum of a man before only when playing with toys what can I do to help? Thanks xx

    I dont think you need exclude one from the other... wife and i very often bring her to climax with toys before any part of me gets any real action. That said, when i do get cracking, it always seems she climaxes far more easily. Does she 'squirt'? Maybe. But defintely we are advocates of both in tandem instead of toys OR real bits ;-) x
    teacake [sign in to see picture]
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    My OH gushes, somtimes a little will shoot out but mainly she is a river.

    jaycmoore [sign in to see picture]
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    @harri173 It'll happen when you get the right man, the right stimulation and the right ambiance. My wife enjoys toys and can cum very quickly, especially if her clitoris is stimulated by vibrators, but she cums when we make love too. She's not a squirter, although she can get very wet, but I'd bet any of your partners would love you to squirt on them, that'd be such a turn on!

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