1. How many people have you slept with?

    Bigiain [sign in to see picture]
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    Em...10 I think. Couple of relationships and a couple not

    Gosig [sign in to see picture]
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    Only two, the second of whom I have been with for nine years. Think it is easy to get a bit misty-eyed about missed sexual opportunities, but conversely I don’t remember loads of guys from my youth that I would have actually wanted to have sex with.

    Welovetoduck [sign in to see picture]
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    I’m 23 and I actually don’t know.. if I had to guess I’d have said between 40-60? Went through a few dark times and sex seemed to be an unhealthy outlet for me leading to sex addiction.. but everything’s good now and my girlfriend and I have a healthy sex life

    sd63 [sign in to see picture]
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    about 100...ish....I think..yup I was a complete tart when I was younger

    helleven [sign in to see picture]
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    Honestly don't know but a few dozen

    I've gone through phases where I'll go ages without.. but then phases where I'm the opposite 

    Horneehubby [sign in to see picture]
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    1, my wife. Didn’t plan it that way, it just never happened for me before I met my wife. A combination of scared off by one girl (long story! 😂) and fear of underperforming as a virgin. Looking back I don’t regret any missed opportunities, they may have seemed like that the the time but I’m glad my wife took my virginity and no one else. It took 4 weeks to sleep with my wife when we met, she didn’t know I was a virgin and she started to think I wasn’t interested 🤦🏼‍♂️ I was just terrified of failing, and a fear of rejection. Happy to say one night it just happened 💪 Somehow she got the idea I was some kind of super stud and slept with loads of people 😂

    Ahappyguy [sign in to see picture]
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    Lucky 7

    Mdb1983 [sign in to see picture]
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    To many to count. When I was an escort when I was 18-21 and military in amazing fitness oh I would love that body back. It was 4-8 a week then I got into stripper stuff that had extra for special parties. That must been 12-20 as many parties would take advantage of me. Now happy I’m a amazing relationship together we sleep with others so definitely over to many.

    Behind Closed Doors [sign in to see picture]
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    Me 6,  Wife 3...everything/everyone was a warm up for right now with my gorgeous wife 

    EyeAy [sign in to see picture]
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    Just two, one a long term relationship and the other is my wife. I think I'm her 7th if I remember right. I sometimes think it would've been good to experience a few other people, but I might not have the family I've got now if that had happened so I'm ok with what I've got.

    CwtchCariad92 [sign in to see picture]
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    Just 2! My ex and my husband. There are times I wonder what it would be like to have been a bit more carefree before settling down but I’m very shy so don’t think it ever would have happened even if I tried. It’s just not who I am. Doesn’t stop the curiosity though I suppose.

    himnher [sign in to see picture]
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    Him here, 5 for me. That includes my wife, 2 long term relationships and 2 one night stands.

    Emerald269 [sign in to see picture]
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    LIL_KNOWN69 wrote:

    I love how varied everyone’s sex lives are, I wish I had never met anyone but my partner. She really has broken the mould for me and No one has even come close to the chemistry we have.

    Emerald says; I totally 100% agree with you. I love listening to others' experiences too. I also wish I'd just done everything with no-one but my hubby. He is so special, understands me in and out, accepts my flaws and I have never met someone so amazing in this way. I feel loved for the first time in my life! Together now for 13 years (married 7!) 

    Love the fact u feel this way about ur partner too! 😃

    VanillaWithSprinkles wrote:

    Three. Two one-night stands and then one relationship. If I could go back I'd probably not have had sex with the first ONS as I simply did it to lose my virginity but the second one was incredible.

    Emerald says; I slept with someone just to lose my virginity aswell. It was 'good', lots of biting and quite harsh at the same time. It was consensual tho and I really wanted to do it, just to get the messy bit of actually losing my virginity out the way! I was 20 as well, so thought it was about time. I wish it was with my hubby tho! But I learnt a lot, so was confident to have sex with hubby when we first met (before we got married). 😯

    Married Man30 wrote:

    5 for me, 4 before I was  **edited - life starts at 18 on LH**  then met my wife, we’ve been together almost 20years now

    Emerald says; I can relate to this - almost! 5 for me 'b4 hubby'. 

    Emerald269 [sign in to see picture]
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    I don't have any regrets as such as I wouldn't have had a clue what to try with my OH in the bedroom. On the other hand, I wish it had all been with him! No-one else has come close to how he makes me feel when we have sex, previous encounters were just drunken ONS' really. 😮😬

    YoungStud [sign in to see picture]
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    0 to be exact, don't know why never happened so still waiting for one day

    newbie_analyst [sign in to see picture]
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    2, both turned out to be batshit, must be jinxed, I'm good at 2.

    EngAz [sign in to see picture]
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    1 - Just my lovely wife. I'm happy with that.

    ophelia-rose [sign in to see picture]
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    11ish I think. Some were relationships, some were casual short-terms things, a couple of one-time things. The one-time ones were only cos they were bad though :P I generally figure that if something was good why not do it over and over and get better and better as you get to know each other's bodies lol

    brufton [sign in to see picture]
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    I wouldn't worry about it, it's only a number and everyone has a different history. It's easy to wish you had something different - grass is greener on the other side as they say. I couldn't tell you my number and I'm not proud of that.

    Rugbyman [sign in to see picture]
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    20 for me and 9 for my OH

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