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  1. How many people have you slept with?

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    Scorpius12 [sign in to see picture]
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    3 - They were all relationships

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    Lovehoney - Jess Wilde [sign in to see picture]
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    BigEmma wrote:

    Hi everyone.
    I'm getting married soon and its occured to me that ive only slept with 3 men...!! (Age 29)
    My hubby to be has lost count on his sexual partners and im really quite jealous! I wish I was more confident and put it out a bit more whilst I was younger!
    .....xx

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    Aims85 [sign in to see picture]
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    About 15... I think... Long time ago as been married to the one for 13 years now 😀

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    Purring-Pussy [sign in to see picture]
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    As a swinger, too many to count.
    I'm not ashamed of the amount. Most were women though,, or tend to only soft swing with men, meaning I do everything but penetrative sex with them.

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    LIL_KNOWN69 [sign in to see picture]
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    3 actual sexual partners, a few snogs and a bit of a fondle with a few others but have never had a one night stand.

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    Terri JJ [sign in to see picture]
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    I don't know......

    I went through a difficult time when I was younger, and I lost count 😕

    Only Mr JJ for the time we've been together. Been together for 29 years and married for 27 xx

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    Lu SB [sign in to see picture]
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    I'd say about 50 guys and 2 girls - I'm sure about the girls, but not the guys though!

    I've been married now for nearly 17 years, so that is part of the past and I think that was a good thing because it helped to have experience enough to know my hubby was the one, my soul mate hopefully for the years to come...

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    BigEmma [sign in to see picture]
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    Loved hearing all of your experiences - thank you. My sexual partners I have always been in a relationship with so I wished id had a few one night stands just for the experiences... I saved the best until last - love him ❤ ...xx

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    BigEmma [sign in to see picture]
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    Lovehoney - Jess Wilde wrote:

    BigEmma wrote:

    Hi everyone.
    I'm getting married soon and its occured to me that ive only slept with 3 men...!! (Age 29)
    My hubby to be has lost count on his sexual partners and im really quite jealous! I wish I was more confident and put it out a bit more whilst I was younger!
    .....xx

    ??....xx
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    SassySoutherner [sign in to see picture]
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    4

    2 in relationships, 2 one night stands

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    Loulou25 [sign in to see picture]
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    Just the one, my husband, and he is the same...

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    Lady Bella [sign in to see picture]
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    9 for me. 7 women and 2 men.

    I definitely value quality over quantity, so I hope that the OP doesn't feel that she's missed out in any way. I was a bit of a late starter compared to most of my friends, but every encounter I've had has been safe, consensual and a lot of fun, which is definitely what it's all about!

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    ShyAndChatty [sign in to see picture]
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    Bigtrak wrote:

    ShyAndChatty wrote:

    0 too body insecure 😪😪😪

    Every body style and type is sexy and beautiful and especially unique. I also get that you feel how you feel but surly some of the posting in here shows we are all different and like, admire and love different things. Also the number of porn sites list so many different categories including many different body types. I think one of the most sexy attributes is confidence.

    I hope you find the courage to go out and enjoy as the water is quite lovely out there.

    Thanks i hope too as i'm getting tired of being unsecure and going to bed alone and no one to cuddle. I don't know if it's related but the fact that getting pregnant quite repulses me and is probably always somewhere in my mind plays a lot. I don't have regrets in not having any experiences as I'll be happy with one hoping i'll find my OH. I'm glad i bought toys when i felt ready as i don't think i'd have enjoyed my such late first time with a partner (i was ready once but the guy was so surprised and chocked when i told him that he freaked out and didn't want to be this guy, well too bad…)

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    *sexybabe* [sign in to see picture]
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    13. 12 men and 1 woman... so far! A couple of one nighters and a few FWB's. No regrets as I've learned something from each of them, particularly the girl I was seeing!

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    pusseypleaser [sign in to see picture]
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    1 only my wife. I'm proud of that

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    RubyDarling [sign in to see picture]
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    Only 1 and we are still together, it's been 11 years.

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    Kanu Suckmeov [sign in to see picture]
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    Just the two. My first love, we were together for three and a half years, from teenagers. and then wifey. Over 40 years now, and she still floats my boat every day..... a wonderful women.

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    VanessaTG [sign in to see picture]
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    I have slept with 15 men and and lost count of the women. I an not ashamed of how many i have slept with as it has developed me into what i am today. Besides you can't turn back the clock, so why worry about it.

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    VanessaTG [sign in to see picture]
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    Shy and chatty, i am a big cross dressing guy with a small manhood, but i have still managed to have encounters even though i hete my body. It is just about saying to yourself "i'm going to get out there" and do it. One great place to meet is on the interweb. Lots of sites for diffent interest and sizes shapes, sexualities etc. You will find someone out there for you. Just need to throw caution to the wind and get yourself out there. I have met plenty of people on the net. It is easier for people with confidence issues as you are not face to face with them while chatting.

    Good luck to you XX

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    Hazeladam [sign in to see picture]
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    Just 3 for me, my first I slept with her a handful of times, my ex (we were together 7 years) and my oh and we've been together 13 years now.
    There's been a few kisses and gropes inbeteeen partners but nothing o would class as sleeping together

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