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  1. Need recommendation on couples vibrator

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    ll_and-no-more [sign in to see picture]
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    I have a product question for the community. I really like the idea of couples vibrators, where she can be hands free while we make love. However, the We-Vibe did not perform and neither did the Desire Luxury Clitoral Vibrator. The later was because it wasn't powerful enough. My wife does not do wands, they scare her., but I want to move beyond teh $16 egg that she has to use by hand. Again, hands free being able to hold each other while she is getting clitoral stimulated into multiple orgasms.

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    Purring-Pussy [sign in to see picture]
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    How about a bullet vibe? Can recommend these:

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30320


    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=36366

    They're great to use solo or together as a couple.

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    Senator [sign in to see picture]
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    How about a vibrating cock ring?

    I have the wildthing remote vibe which I find really good to wear and the Tracey Cox USB chargeable ring. I have swapped out the vibe from the Tracey cox one as I prefer the size of the wildthing more and now don't have to worry about batteries.

    Works best when she grinds against me (so cowgirl / reverse cowgirl) rather than missionary, doggy etc

    Completely hands free, good vibrations for both.

    I was originally pretty much against the idea of a cock ring, but having tried them, it's pretty much my preference to wear them now.

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    Alicia4Ever [sign in to see picture]
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    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35060 this has some great reviews.

    I know you said for clit stim, but I thought I would throw this idea in. its a remote control rechargeable love egg, that could be used vaginally during PIV sex, as it's not too big, but I love the vibes it gives; it is £85 though. What I really love about it, is it's the only love egg that is imo safe to use analy, as well as vaginaly, if you are into anal that is. I don't get on with butt plugs, but this is great. https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30888

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    Jezebella [sign in to see picture]
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    I second the cock ring idea. If power is Important and you can afford it, these luxury ones have been highly rated and the reviews say they are powerful:

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34075


    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22879


    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=37986

    I think cock rings are the easiest way to get hands free vibes. For me this works best if I'm on top because I can grind on to the vibe and keep my clit in contact with it which is the quickest way to orgasm.

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    ll_and-no-more [sign in to see picture]
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    The only problem with the cock ring is that in my wife's words, "I don't need anyhelp going off." So extra stimulation for me doesn't help :(

    Is there a more powerful version to the type of toy that the Love Honey Desire Clitoral Vibrator that anyone has experience with?

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    Kevkris [sign in to see picture]
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    I was like your wife even worse I was scared of any toys really 😁 I have Jessica rabbit cock rings bullets the works and I can honestly say the best thing i have is my magic wand I only started my fascination with exploring and toys in 2015 but I can say it is a fantastic adventure exploring within a relationship and if she gave it a try she will beyond pleased with the wand.

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    Jezebella [sign in to see picture]
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    ll_and-no-more wrote:

    The only problem with the cock ring is that in my wife's words, "I don't need anyhelp going off." So extra stimulation for me doesn't help :(

    Is there a more powerful version to the type of toy that the Love Honey Desire Clitoral Vibrator that anyone has experience with?

    I'm a bit confused, do you mean that you can't use cock rings because you don't need the extra stimulation or because your wife says she doesn't need extra stimulation? The wording has left me unsure. If it is first then cock rings are a great idea because they can actually help a penis stay harder for longer and delay ejaculation. If its the latter then I think its a good idea to encourage your wife to have a look with you and pick her own products. Perhaps you could make a wish list of things you think she might like and she could have a look? I'm not aware of a more powerful version of the desire clitoral vibe I'm afraid. There are other pebble shaped vibes out there but I'm not sure if they would be any more powerful, and I would think most of them you would need to hold on to during sex.
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    NatandTom [sign in to see picture]
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    The more expensive/luxury version of the Desire Clit Vibe is the We-Vibe Touch x

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    captainmeow [sign in to see picture]
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    ll_and-no-more wrote:

    The only problem with the cock ring is that in my wife's words, "I don't need anyhelp going off." So extra stimulation for me doesn't help :(

    Is there a more powerful version to the type of toy that the Love Honey Desire Clitoral Vibrator that anyone has experience with?

    Just to add, the vibrating bit on cock rings is primarily for the partner, not the person wearing it. The We-Vibe Touch would be what you're looking for, but you would probably need to hold on to it.

    I've heard good things about this for cock rings: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34697

    Not sure what product you mean when you said you tried a We-Vibe that didn't perform, but the We-Vibe Sync is designed to be a couples' toy https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=36858

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    ll_and-no-more [sign in to see picture]
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    What magic wand do you have?

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    ll_and-no-more [sign in to see picture]
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    What I am saying is she needs pretty heavy vibration to go off, but I shouldn't be receiving vibration because I go off easier than her.

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    Kevkris [sign in to see picture]
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    I have the mini rechargable and the main powered one ...you can control level of vibration ...maybe try anal while playing with wand ...you won't set off as quickly

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    Lu SB [sign in to see picture]
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    I agree with Kevkris - the magic wand is, well, magic. I've the Lovehoney Classic Mains one which is very powerful and your OH can start on the lowest setting and increase the intensity gradually. If she needs power to get it off, the wand really delivers that. I absolutely love mine.

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    ll_and-no-more [sign in to see picture]
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    Ok, so I took your advice and took the plunge a bought the magic wand. it is halfway here and I am nervous. About 10 years ago, I bought a massager and she said to stay away from her with that. She also sees the wands and is very hesitant because they look too agreessive and thinks the head will hurt her lady parts.

    Ladies, any advice on how to introduce this unit to my wife?

    I'm hoping not to have to return this... :/

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