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  1. Help how to help keep the spark alive in a long distance

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    Spicymeatball [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi,

    I am currently in a long distance relationship, so I was wondering if anyone had any tips/advice on what to do to spice things up/ keep things interesting

    thank you

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    Alicia4Ever [sign in to see picture]
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    Sorry I can't help you with that, I can't even manage any kind of relationship; but I thought I would just bump this back to the top for you.

    Maybe someone is on now that didn't see this earlier.

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    Jake Perolta [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi Spicymeatball, I have had a long distance relationship in the past. For us what made it work and kept it fresh is sending each other naughty pics, videos and the like.

    We used Facetime to share intimate moments, sent each other romantic gifts and notes in the post. Try and be open minded and be open to exploring new ways to excite each other.

    I hope this helps?

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    Spicymeatball [sign in to see picture]
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    Yes thank you guys :) the more ideas the merrier

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    hihowareyou [sign in to see picture]
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    hi Spicymeatball, have you tried write storys/fantasies together lets say you start you write a small paragraph, setting the scene you a maid/teacher/cop etc, then he writes what happens and you switch back and forth between you until it eaches its natural finish.

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    Alicia4Ever [sign in to see picture]
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    Lovehoney - Jess Wilde [sign in to see picture]
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    Me and my bf find that sexy texts, naughty pics and chatting keeps things hot. We also share wishlists for things we'd like to try from Lovehoney, and tell each other when we've seen a hot move or position we've seen in porn and want to try. 

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    Shouganai [sign in to see picture]
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    My partner and I were long distance for YEARS. I'd honestly say that the one thing that kept us strong was probably Skype, as silly as that may sound.

    This goes for overall spark, not just sexual (like putting on shows for eachother or leaving your webcam running in a call after showering, etc.).

    Of course, if you're strictly talking about sexual things, why not buy toys that can be controlled long distance ? Give him access to a small vibe and tell him that you're gonna be wearing it from ??:??am to ??:??pm and that he should "let you know" when he's thinking of you, etc. uvu

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    Shouganai [sign in to see picture]
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    Ack, I can't edit on a phone, sorry ! Forgot to add, random nudes in public (as in, sitting at your desk with the phone camera facing your crotch; pull your underwear aside kinda deal). That stuff is pretty spicy as long as it's safe/you don't get caught or in trouble.

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    Spicymeatball [sign in to see picture]
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    Thank you so much I will definately use all of these :) I'll see if I can find an alternative to lovehoney wishlists as I imagine US shipping is out of my price range right now. and I'll try my best not to get caught xD

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    Spicymeatball [sign in to see picture]
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    Do you have any ideas of pictures that arent exactly nudes, like maybe teasing ones

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    Glaswegian82 [sign in to see picture]
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    Shots like ones that are allowed on here are a good way to go for that. There are plenty here (including your avatar!) which are insanely sexy, but with nothing inappropriate showing. I'd say that's a good start.

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    Lovehoney - Jess Wilde [sign in to see picture]
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    Spicymeatball wrote:

    Thank you so much I will definately use all of these :) I'll see if I can find an alternative to lovehoney wishlists as I imagine US shipping is out of my price range right now. and I'll try my best not to get caught xD

    Don't forget that we ship a lot of items from within the US now. Maybe you can set up a UK wishlist, and your partner can set one up on Lovehoney.com? 

    That way you'll know anything your OH wants is available on that site and can be shipped there, rather than overseas. 

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