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  1. Loss of libido- tips for pleasuring him please :-)

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    Fujiyamamama [sign in to see picture]
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    Pesky pregnancy hormones have caused a drop in my sex drive but I'm desperate to keep the flame in the bedroom burning.

    I'm 34 weeks and experiencing a sudden onset of SPD so manouvering myself into different positions is quite painful and awkward and sex seems to be off the cards unless I have a miraculous recovery over the next few days.

    Last night I have him a handjob, which ended with a spectacular finish. But I don't want to be limited to just that for the next god knows how many weeks.

    What else can I do?

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    ScumptiousDumptious [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm probably stating the obvious and things you've done or thought of.
    Oral sex.
    Massage.
    Role play where you tell him how / what to do to himself or you if desired.
    Temperature play where you tease him and then finish off by hand / oral.
    Have fun x

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    Tallish Darkish & Average [sign in to see picture]
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    Dress up and touch yourself upfront of him, telling he can't touch only wank? Appreciate this may be awkward if you have no desire but just putting it out there.

    A lubey hand job works wonders if you need any help from a male perspective, alternatively why not shop the male pages and get a stroker or similar you can use on or with him?

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