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  1. Is it wrong to masturbate whilst your partner is at work?

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    DNK [sign in to see picture]
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    I don't think there's an issue with it, I'm sure most people do it.

    I found out recently my partner does it, even if I'm in the house. If I'm busy working sometimes she will, I told her that she doesn't need to be secret about it. If I'm aware she's doing it it turns me on so much. If she wants the alone time to do it I'm fine with that but if I knew she was doing it then afterwards we'd be having sex.

    I love to see her masturbate

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    Slutty Little Mrs B [sign in to see picture]
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    My husband works away four days a week and loves me sending him pictures and videos of me masturbating, a few times we've even done it over facetime Sometimes I watch porn to get me doing, sometimes I have a cheeky play with the wand (as it only takes a few minutes lol) sometimes its the naughty texts we've sent back and forth that have got me going.

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    paulsballs [sign in to see picture]
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    Well, I think with human nature we all do it, as long as we're own and honest about it(all though it might be embarrassing in a new relationship) there shouldn't be a problem.

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    mrsharvey [sign in to see picture]
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    I do it all the time, and so does OH. We have our own fantasies and also last longer for each other in real world 😊

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    Alpha123 [sign in to see picture]
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    To agree with many others; no not wrong at all.

    Maybe if it was detrimental to your sexlife when you are together it could be an issue but otherwise I dont see the harm.

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    Sparklee [sign in to see picture]
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    No not at all. Even better if she finds out about it. I leave iPad on the material I used to wank over. She loves it

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    Dave84 [sign in to see picture]
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    i see nothing wrong with it, as my partner and i masterbate, and we also send pics and videos to each other whilst at work

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    Blushy [sign in to see picture]
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    I do it every time i get a thought, is so good, if i send a video to my bf is turning him on to.

    It is good and bad /blushing, in the same time, but i love ME time and my orgasms to...it is fun when hes doing it to me but i know my self bether somitimes.

    But i get what i want faster if i do it my self :P.....if he mind`s it ...f**k him ...i dont mind if he wanks without me :D ...is fun and excitment at the end of the day Enjoy it :)

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    Humpy Tail [sign in to see picture]
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    Nothing wrong with that in my opinion. I work from home so can do this whenever I please! Bonus! :D

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    4Uonly [sign in to see picture]
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    I do it whenever one of us are away for a couple of days or more. He knows I do it all the time... and we agree that it's better than we cheat.

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    carby [sign in to see picture]
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    Yes. Fingering and toys, playing with my clit, lube, watching porn. Some days it can be difficult to stop

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    Blue Steel [sign in to see picture]
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    Nothing wrong with a solo if you get the urge. I found it a turn on when my OH told me she had.

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    RachelWelsh [sign in to see picture]
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    My husband does not think this is respectful to him, he has only just opened up to allowing me to have any toys and has told me only to use them when he is around, which I have done only with him. But as far as masturbating goes I hate having a dirty little secret, I would much rather be open and honest and involve him in it and make it something fun between us but he has made me feel ashamed of it in the past so I have to keep it to myself. If I didn't masturbate I would be horrible to live with as we don't do it often enough for my liking despite how I always put his needs first and focus on his pleasure before my own, his sex drive is just lower than mine so this is the way it is.

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    jaymma [sign in to see picture]
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    Rachel, from reading your other posts, it sounds to me like you need some attention. 😜

    A serious conversation with your partner is needed. Although from my experience over the last 17 years, you may as well go find a brick wall and bang your head against it.

    May sound negative, but unfortunately some people just don't desire sex on same level as others. My gf says she could go without it for months, yet climax every time we do. I think if so good why decline it. Hey ho.

    If it wasn't for my self time I'd be in a psychiatric unit.

    Play play play I say. I'd love my gf to engage in self pleasure and to two me that she has just done it whilst I was at work.

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    LadySpider [sign in to see picture]
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    Nothing wrong with your needs at all - I think most people do it, but even if you was the only person in the world to do it - would that be so wrong? Myself and Lord SPider both enjoy our alone time, he loves porn - I'm not such a fan (but will watch a bit) but I have a huge toy-chest and a very fantastical mind! There really shouldn't be a need to tell your OH that you're doing it whilst he's t work surely? As long as it doesn't affect your relationship why would you tell him - other than to turn him on? I mean, you don't ell him you've taken 5 pee's and a poo whilst he was working do you? So why tell him about your other 'physical activities/needs' ?

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    Dickiebird [sign in to see picture]
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    I would be very surprised if my OH doesn’t know that I masturbate a lot. We never mention it and I see no reason to mention it. I have recently bought a Fleshlight as I quite enjoy masturbating and it feels fantastic. This is not a replacement for the OH, but an addition for when I am on my own.

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    protectyournuts [sign in to see picture]
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    Personally I'd love it if my OH did it more while I was at work. Would set me off when I got home.

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    Delboy1991 [sign in to see picture]
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    No! Needs must 😂

    Sometimes I got told to by the Mr.

    I know he does it when I'm not here , so why shouldn't I do exactly the same.

    Plus we don't always want it at the same time. Especially if it's the monthlys so why shouldn't he be able to pleasure himself.

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    TazMJay [sign in to see picture]
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    I often masturbate when my wife is working and she likes to do the same when I am in bed sleeping and she is downstairs watching the TV.

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    Jedie_lover [sign in to see picture]
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    My wife loves a good sneaky wank. If I’m sat downstairs working late she will have a good session with her vibrator. She will normally watch porn, especially videos of gang bangs. Sometimes I creep upstairs and catch her midway and will touch myself and cum on her breasts or mouth. I often check her toy in the morning to see if it’s been used. I love watching her and hearing her moan, especially if she squirts!

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