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  1. Spanking, next step up from using a hand

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    MrsND [sign in to see picture]
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    So i am very into spanking, i love it when my OH does it.
    We keep playfully joking about trying other things than just his hand but because we are both relatively new to that kind of stuff we dont know what would be the next step up from him using his hand?
    What is the tamest props to be spanked with to the not so tame?
    If this scale is even a thing or is it just personal preference?

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    Scorpius12 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi there, Jess has done some fantastic videos relating to this subject - please see link below for one called '7 spanking tools for erotic spanking' 

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M0abOCbMB9M

    When you go to this link, you will also see some other videos that Jess has done on the right side of the screen :) xx

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    LIL_KNOWN69 [sign in to see picture]
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    The next step up would usually be light paddling, but as scorpius linked it may be worth just having a look at what's on offer and check out some online tutorials and guides.
    Best place to also start is finding a guide on what areas of the butt to spank and make sure your hitting the right spot as you can cause a little damage or make it a less pleasant experience. You can also take the spanking from the back and bring it to the front with light spanks between the thighs.
    Check out this blog post as it covers everything including a simple little diagram
    https://www.lovense.com/bdsm-blog/erotic-spanking

    Good luck!

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    HFVD [sign in to see picture]
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    I found this paddle to be great fun.
    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33628
    It has two different textured sides one is satin and the other is leather. Satin side is nice and soft so would be great for a step up. The leather side is thougher and can give more of a bite which would be perfect if you feel like going that one step more!
    Like you said it is down to personal preference but just remember to communicate and you will have lots of fun!

    Enjoy

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    Purring-Pussy [sign in to see picture]
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    Definitely a double sided paddle. I love this:

    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=19807

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    mysteron [sign in to see picture]
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    If you are looking for a scale then this is the way we went.

    Hand spanking.fur lined paddle,leather/pvc paddle, beginners riding crop and then intermediate riding crop .

    A thing perhaps you need to consider is the leaving of marks or even bruising . The chances of this happening are increased when implements are introduced . These need to be carefully considered if sports are undertaken such as swimming, running etc or even wearing a swimsuite on holiday as the marks could be on display.

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