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  1. guilt from masturbation?

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    Mastershy [sign in to see picture]
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    I do like the feel of masturbation especially from watching some sex scenes from hentai but the trouble is after I finished I feel like I done a bad thing and feel guilty and I know this may sound like something Ned Flanders(simpsons)would do but I pray before I go to sleep saying sorry for my actions and sometimes I feel like doing those twice a week is addicting can you guys help me feel better

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    SquirtyPanda [sign in to see picture]
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    Masturbation is completely normal. Nothing to feel bad about! You have to train your thinking into it being normal and just let yourself enjoy it.

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    Sxleksaker [sign in to see picture]
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    There's nothing wrong with masturbation at all. It's healthy in more ways than one. Why would self pleasure be a bad thing? We're made to feel pleasure from it so we'll keep doing it :)

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    Sparky 1 [sign in to see picture]
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    Couldn't agree more with all the other posts masturbation is completely natural and one of the most pleasurable things to do or have done to you, embrace it enjoy it revel in it,almost everyone does it , it's not something to be ashamed of or embarrassed about so enjoy yourself and here's to lots more enjoyable sessions masterbating

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    Alicia4Ever [sign in to see picture]
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    Do you think this is from mastubating, or the fact that you get turned on by hentai?

    Neither is wrong in any sense of the word, neither does harm to anyone, and is in fact masturbation is quite normal.

    Sexual pleasure is there to make us want to procreate; I'm not a religious person, but I do belive that it's not wrong to feel pleasure from touching your own body, where ever on your body that may be.

    perhaps say a prayer to thank who ever it is that you pray to thank them for giving you a body that feels pleasure when you touch it.

    Your thoughts are your own, and as long as what turns you on would do no harm or break any laws in reality; then I see no reason to feel guilt or shame, for your own thoughs.

    Even "somethings" that would get you arrested if you did them for real, like having sex in a public place, are not wrong to have has sexual fantacies. It's only wrong to take them out of the realm of fantacy, and do them for real.

    Use your own "adult" sense of right and wrong to know, just what is really wrong. Many religions teach what they consider as "wrong" to even think of, so I don't know what you have been taught. Some parents teach their children that sexual thoughts and actions are wrong and dirty, to protect their children, but then never explain to them as they grow up that such things were said to protect them as children, and that these things do not need to continue to be thought of as wrong once they become adults.

    Such people can then needlessly hang on to such teachings as adults, and as a result feel they are doing wrong to have normal "adult" thoughts and feelings.

    Please don't feel the need to punish yourself, for doing what nature intended, instead embrace it, and enjoy "gods" gifts

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    Mastershy [sign in to see picture]
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    so say I do it twice a week regularly it's alright?

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    NatandTom [sign in to see picture]
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    Mastershy wrote:

    so say I do it twice a week regularly it's alright?

    You can do it as often as you want. It's actually healthy for your body and mind to masturbate, so I'd say do it whenever the mood strikes. Twice a week is totally fine!

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    anothername [sign in to see picture]
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    I do it pretty much every day, and yes, I am a christian too (albeit a bad one). I also feel guilt from it, but I keep on doing it, I like it so much. I also get guilt for similar reasons when I wear bra and knickers and other ladies clothes.

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    mamz [sign in to see picture]
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    As it's been said, it's totally ok to do it. It's not wrong, and yes it's actually good for your health. having desire isn't bad either, it's humane nature.

    I wish I could say more and make you feel better and not guilty. I just wanted to address you my support.

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    Mastershy wrote:

    I do like the feel of masturbation especially from watching some sex scenes from hentai but the trouble is after I finished I feel like I done a bad thing and feel guilty and I know this may sound like something Ned Flanders(simpsons)would do but I pray before I go to sleep saying sorry for my actions and sometimes I feel like doing those twice a week is addicting can you guys help me feel better

    Is a sin if you have an itch and scratch no so just about the same thing for masturbation it is a normal thing to do.

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    Lord_Vetinari [sign in to see picture]
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    I was brought up a Catholic and was always taught that sex and masturbation are in some way wrong and something to be ashamed off. The result was I was a bit of a late starter and didn't have sex for the first time until I was 26. I realised what I was missing and soon made up for lost time!

    As for masturbation we are sexual beings and assuming there is a God he created us as such thus if you feel the need for relief it is entirely normal. If you look at porn or think about your sexy colleague, whilst wanking, then you could argue you are admiring God's creation.

    In short providing whatever you are doing is consensual and doesn't involve children or animals then I think it's unlikely you'll be hit by lightning or burn in hell.

    Hope that helps.

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    bondagegod [sign in to see picture]
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    There is nothing to feel guilty about when it comes to masturbation. Try to let it worry you and simply relax and try to enjoy yourself.

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    The Lord N [sign in to see picture]
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    Masterbation is an amazing experience for one self. It really allows you to understand what you like and find what you find pleasurable. It's great to explore your body further.

    Just relax, enjoy it and let the orgasm pour! :)

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    Lozz [sign in to see picture]
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    Masturbation is a perfectly healthy thing to do! Enjoy and don't worry x

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    Bigjason [sign in to see picture]
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    I myself like to maserbate. It is very natural and healthy thing to do. I do like to watch XXX movies before I masterbate, it gets me in the mood.

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    KERMIT [sign in to see picture]
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    SquirtyPanda wrote:

    Masturbation is completely normal. Nothing to feel bad about! You have to train your thinking into it being normal and just let yourself enjoy it.

    🐼

    I do agree miss 🐼

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    Sparky 1 [sign in to see picture]
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    It's absolutely not a sin to masterbate,it gives you a great feeling of relief and-pleasure, it's a natural thing to do or have done to yourself that's why it feels so good, i do it sometimes every day other times a couple of times a week. Enjoy it and don't feel guilty

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    Lovehoney - Paige [sign in to see picture]
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    I know it can be difficult when religion is involved but there is no need to feel guilty, masturbation is natural, pleasurable and even has health benefits. :)

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    M101 [sign in to see picture]
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    Masturbation and solo cumming is perfectly natural and normal, using ones own imagination, or watching porn. Try to cum at the same time as the man.

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    Mastershy [sign in to see picture]
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    thank you for the support and that made me feel better and the masturbation seems to be more pleasureable so thank you everyone

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