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  1. How long does your foreplay last compared to sex?

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    Scoob [sign in to see picture]
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    Some our friends say they have almost no foreplay so 90/10 sex to foreplay.

    We love foreplay, so probably 70/30 foreplay for us

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    Browncoats [sign in to see picture]
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    Really depends on the situation. Last night was definitely 80% foreplay some nights it is aboit 30% foreplay

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    Terri JJ [sign in to see picture]
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    A bit hard to say. Quite often we start off with foreplay which leads quickly to sex but then we go back to more foreplay for ages then sex again.....then possibly anal....then maybe lots of oral, then sex again.....then more foreplay ....pretty much always finish off with anal. A rough guess I'd say maybe 50/50 xx

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    not tried oral after sex started, would you recommend it?

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    Scoob wrote:

    not tried oral after sex started, would you recommend it?

    Definitely. It's incredibly hot and something we do often
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    Browncoats wrote:

    Scoob wrote:

    not tried oral after sex started, would you recommend it?

    Definitely. It's incredibly hot and something we do often
    It feels like I've been missing out!
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    mysteron [sign in to see picture]
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    Well role playing is nearly all foreplay I suppose. So yes we do a lot of it.and not just when we do roleplays either.

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    Heidi920 [sign in to see picture]
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    We definitely have more foreplay than sex. 70% foreplay 30% sex

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    Terri JJ wrote:

    A bit hard to say. Quite often we start off with foreplay which leads quickly to sex but then we go back to more foreplay for ages then sex again.....then possibly anal....then maybe lots of oral, then sex again.....then more foreplay ....pretty much always finish off with anal. A rough guess I'd say maybe 50/50 xx

    + 1 this is pretty much what we do too 😊

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    Ita hard to say foe us. Sometimes it can be 90/10 to sex but thats really only if we are having a quicky.
    I more often than not its about 50/50 or leans slightly towards sex than forplay.
    But i love it the most when forplay is a good 80% of it lol x

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    Tallish Darkish & Average [sign in to see picture]
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    I'd say def more foreplay than sex, well from memory! 65/35 f/s at a guess, this includes oral, toys, ties tease & spanks vs penetration.

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    Usually more foreplay than sex for us.
    Once I've got to the stage of penetrative sex, I don't usually run marathons if you know what I mean (at least not the first time, seconds can be different).
    Foreplay makes up for this, and we both really enjoy the foreplay as much as sex anyway. I could happily spend a long time just on foreplay making sure she enjoys herself.
    Obviously, if we're just after a quickie then it's all about the sex, bit of a reacharound during, but less foreplay.

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    NatandTom [sign in to see picture]
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    We are not huge fans of PIV so it's probably 80% foreplay and 20% sex

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    I don't really understand the distinction between foreplay and sex. For me, oral sex/using hands/using toys/BDSM is all sex.

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    definatley 80 foreplay 20 sex

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    BigBikeGuy [sign in to see picture]
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    prefer more foreplay, love the long build up. Doesn't happen that way though.. 40/60

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    Hutch013 [sign in to see picture]
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    Friday13 wrote:

    I don't really understand the distinction between foreplay and sex. For me, oral sex/using hands/using toys/BDSM is all sex.

    I'd agree with this, it's all part of sex.
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    Foreplay / Sex 70-80%

    Intercourse ( me inside her) 20-30%

    i can't last long so tend to make OH cum a few times before I get mine. It works for us, it helps that I really enjoy and get off on pleasuring her.

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    Danger man wrote:

    Foreplay / Sex 70-80%

    Intercourse ( me inside her) 20-30%

    i can't last long so tend to make OH cum a few times before I get mine. It works for us, it helps that I really enjoy and get off on pleasuring her.

    Quite similar to us alot of the time, thanks for taking the time to reply to my post!😀 I find I last longer when she's had at least one during foreplay, takes the pressure off😄
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    1percent foreplay

    99 percent sex

    It doesn't take long to say " brace yourself"

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