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  1. A pervert ? or just fed up of just wanking

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    biglobe [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Officer Cadet
    • Posts: 7
    • Joined: 27 Jun 2017

    Decided that after years of lone wanking and using my imagination, I would make some purchaces. A cock restraint, wand and crop as I like the idea of being controlled. A pussy as I want to fuck. Womens underwear as it feels so good and I don't have a partener wearing it so I will.wear it to feel it next to my skin. Not sure if I am just a pervert or lonely. Would love to try bi but only ever had a taste, want to try everything at least once and need to find a friendly cock (not being a looker does not help the confidence to try)..
    I still don't believe I am writing this down where people can read it, but after many years alone, why not. Please be kind.

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    NaughtyNerd [sign in to see picture]
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    • Joined: 16 Aug 2016

    Hi BigLobe, you don't need to be either.
    Loads of men and women on here LOVE toys whether they are single or not and they are not necessarily lonely and doesn't make them a pervert.

    There is nothing odd about what youve said so if you want to try these things, go for it and have fun!!

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    SquirtyPanda [sign in to see picture]
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    • Posts: 1734
    • Joined: 18 Oct 2015

    Hello

    Don't fear there is no judgment at Lovehoney you're in the right place

    I personally don't think you are a pervert, not at all. Well done for being brave enough to step up and speak about it, it is not good to bottle things up.

    I am single too and it is NO different to me purchasing dildo's and vibraters to satisfy myself.

    I suggest taking a look at fetlife.com, that is a good site for stating your particular kinks and may find suitable and local 'friendly cock' there.

    🐼

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    Browncoats [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 1155
    • Joined: 5 Dec 2016

    Welcome to the forum. My husband has numerous toys and he's not a pervert (well actually what's wrong with it if he is) he's just enjoying his toys. You're right lingerie feels staying do why shouldn't you be able to wear it? The best thing about this forum is we see happy to support each other whatever our preferences. I hope you will stay and get to know us all 🙂

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    Couple looking to spice things up [sign in to see picture]
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    • Joined: 22 Jul 2015

    Enjoy your purchases! I personally don't see anything wrong with what you've bought. Do let us know how you get on.

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    NatandTom [sign in to see picture]
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    • Joined: 6 Jun 2015

    I don't think you're a pervert at all. There's nothing wrong with wearing ladies underwear or using sex toys! No different to a lady using a vibrator or a dildo in my opinion. Enjoy yourself!

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    Lovinthetoys [sign in to see picture]
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    • Joined: 22 Jun 2015

    Nope, not a pervert, just happy to explore and experiment. Enjoy your new purchases and i hope you find what you are looking for.

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    Colonel Lube [sign in to see picture]
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    • Posts: 230
    • Joined: 6 Oct 2005

    Good luck to you. Nothing wrong with spending your money on you, on things that will make you happy. Enjoy yourself.

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    coffee2sugars [sign in to see picture]
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    • Joined: 30 Nov 2010

    Just human I think.

    There is nothing wrong with taking the time to explore what makes you YOU.

    One way to look at it is that when you do meet a partner you will have found out a little more about yourself and know what you like. Sharing that with someone will help you bond and hopefully easier for them to open up to you and share with you what they like

    Not a pervert, just a human being on a journey on self discovery.

    Enjoy.

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    Terri JJ [sign in to see picture]
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    • Joined: 20 Aug 2014

    Hi and welcome to the forums

    There's nothing wrong in enjoying yourself...however you choose to do it :) Pleasure comes from all sorts of areas and it sounds as though you're going to have loads of fun discovering what you like. You sound like a completely normal guy to me....enjoy your purchases xx

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    More Sexy at 50 [sign in to see picture]
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    • Joined: 6 Mar 2017

    +1 to all the comments so far, don't worry, just enjoy yourself, you only get to live once.

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    More Sexy at 50 [sign in to see picture]
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    Unless you believe in reincarnation !

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    Heidi920 [sign in to see picture]
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    • Joined: 17 May 2011

    It's great that you are opening up about what turns you on, there's nothing perverted about any of it. Enjoy making your purchases and trying out new things things. You are not alone. X

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    Bigjason [sign in to see picture]
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    • Joined: 31 May 2017

    biglobe, what ever makes you happy and you like to do is OK. If you like to used toys on your self and you like it, that's great. Beside you are not a pervert. If you think you are a pervert then the whole world is a pervert.

    YOU ARE NOT A PERVERT.

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    Alicia4Ever [sign in to see picture]
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    • Joined: 27 Feb 2010

    There's nothing wrong with liking wearing lingerie, if you think you are a pervert, I'm a trans gender woman, and live my life in womens clothing, so what would that make me lol.

    Nothing wrong with toys either LH has a good business out of selling them, and every one here uses them.

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    Lu SB [sign in to see picture]
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    • Posts: 646
    • Joined: 4 Mar 2017

    Hi Biglobe I'm joining all the others in telling you: you're not a pervert, please don't even think about that. Like everyone else you're human and free to explore and do whatever brings you happiness. You're not harming anyone so there's absolutely nothing wrong with treating yourself and getting the sexual satisfaction you deserve. Please, enjoy and don't feel guilty!

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    kittencub [sign in to see picture]
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    • Joined: 11 May 2013

    biglobe wrote:

    Decided that after years of lone wanking and using my imagination, I would make some purchaces. A cock restraint, wand and crop as I like the idea of being controlled. A pussy as I want to fuck. Womens underwear as it feels so good and I don't have a partener wearing it so I will.wear it to feel it next to my skin. Not sure if I am just a pervert or lonely. Would love to try bi but only ever had a taste, want to try everything at least once and need to find a friendly cock (not being a looker does not help the confidence to try)..
    I still don't believe I am writing this down where people can read it, but after many years alone, why not. Please be kind.

    You enjoy your thing's your not a pervert
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    biglobe [sign in to see picture]
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    • Joined: 27 Jun 2017

    Thank you all for the comments. Good to hear that there are people out there that don't judge different tastes and are happy to say so. Looking forward to my delivery even more now.

    Thank you all again for your support.

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    m4t1n [sign in to see picture]
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    • Joined: 28 Jan 2016

    Terri JJ wrote:

    Hi and welcome to the forums

    There's nothing wrong in enjoying yourself...however you choose to do it :) Pleasure comes from all sorts of areas and it sounds as though you're going to have loads of fun discovering what you like. You sound like a completely normal guy to me....enjoy your purchases xx

    +1 Enjoy it!!!

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    Tallish Darkish & Average [sign in to see picture]
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    You are not a pervert you have many kinks you wish to explore, as most of us here do, welcome, enjoy!

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