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  1. Temperature play tips needed.

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    MrsND [sign in to see picture]
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    So me and my hubby want to experiment with temperature play. I am just wonder how i would go about doing temperature play on him.
    Any advice and tips greatly appreciated please

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    bondagegod [sign in to see picture]
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    Do you own any glass toys?
    Ice cubes on his chest that can always be fun and sexy at the same time.

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    mysteron [sign in to see picture]
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    For us the receiver of ice play is best blind folded .Restraining optional but I would use it if you have an under matress system .The ice is best placed in a container and just allowed to melt slightly. This avoids potential skin burn as fresh out of the freezer ice cubes can do that.

    With the ice,a favourite trick is to place place one in your mouth and gently lick your partner now with your ice cold tongue .wet cubes can also be pushed all over the receivers body. If anyone has been naughty then as a punishment pour the ice water from a small height onto your your partners body..

    For ice play if your using the bed its best practice to place some beach type towels o it before you play.

    Glass toys can also be used by placing them in the fridge befoe hand.

    It's great for these hot summer sticky nights.

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    Heidi920 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi Mrs ND, Having a sip of a warm drink before oral or as bondagegod suggested glass toys are perfect for warming up or cooling down.
    Lovehoney have some lickable candles you could try
    https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33546
    Or there are some great warming/cooling gels and massage oils too. Have fun! X

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    The hot / cold switch can also be pleasurable; I blindfold my OH, put some ice in my mouth and then go down on him, then after a while I stop, sip a warm drink and then continue. I alternate between the two, and by stopping it makes oral last longer so when he finally comes its pretty intense!

    Works equally well for us girls too! 😉😉

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    MrsND wrote:

    So me and my hubby want to experiment with temperature play. I am just wonder how i would go about doing temperature play on him.
    Any advice and tips greatly appreciated please

    MrsND, I don't know if you like anal sex or not. But if you are in anal sex, you can try to put ice cubes I your OH rear end. It is cold at first, but it warms up. It also a good way to cool down
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    *sexybabe* wrote:

    The hot / cold switch can also be pleasurable; I blindfold my OH, put some ice in my mouth and then go down on him, then after a while I stop, sip a warm drink and then continue. I alternate between the two, and by stopping it makes oral last longer so when he finally comes its pretty intense!

    Works equally well for us girls too! 😉😉

    Doesn't ice in your mouth numb you as well? Then you need the warm drink to thaw your mouth.

    Sensitive teeth stops the use of ice for me, too busy going ow!!

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    The Woodie wrote:

    *sexybabe* wrote:

    The hot / cold switch can also be pleasurable; I blindfold my OH, put some ice in my mouth and then go down on him, then after a while I stop, sip a warm drink and then continue. I alternate between the two, and by stopping it makes oral last longer so when he finally comes its pretty intense!

    Works equally well for us girls too! 😉😉

    Doesn't ice in your mouth numb you as well? Then you need the warm drink to thaw your mouth.

    Sensitive teeth stops the use of ice for me, too busy going ow!!

    I think this is hilarious......so with you on this.

    I love hot but not cold.

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    *sexybabe* wrote:

    The hot / cold switch can also be pleasurable; I blindfold my OH, put some ice in my mouth and then go down on him, then after a while I stop, sip a warm drink and then continue. I alternate between the two, and by stopping it makes oral last longer so when he finally comes its pretty intense!

    Works equally well for us girls too! 😉😉

    Stupid question maybe? But.....am i suposed to pop the ice in my mouth and then take it before going down on him or keep it in? I am just wondering about how i am going to fit him and an ice cube in 🙈
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    MrsND wrote:

    *sexybabe* wrote:

    The hot / cold switch can also be pleasurable; I blindfold my OH, put some ice in my mouth and then go down on him, then after a while I stop, sip a warm drink and then continue. I alternate between the two, and by stopping it makes oral last longer so when he finally comes its pretty intense!

    Works equally well for us girls too! 😉😉

    Stupid question maybe? But.....am i suposed to pop the ice in my mouth and then take it before going down on him or keep it in? I am just wondering about how i am going to fit him and an ice cube in 🙈

    Go with it and do what seems right at the time, no right or wrong answers with this...

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