• Spicing up masturbation

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    KinkyKLL [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm 31 and I've been single for 8 years. Prior to that I was in a long term relationship and had a healthy sex life. I've had 1 one night stand since I've been single but that's the only sex I've had as I'm more of a relationship person.

    I enjoy watching porn, usually female friendly stuff on porn hub, and I've got a rabbit vibrator but I get a bit fed up with the same old and wondered if anyone has any ideas on how to spice up things on my own?

    I share a house so it's difficult to get time on my own.

    Thanks!

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    ScumptiousDumptious [sign in to see picture]
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    I use nipple clamps while masturbating. Esp in the shower. The pressure of the clamps and pummeling from the shower. Then your hands are free for whatever!?!

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    m4t1n [sign in to see picture]
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    Buy a Lovehoney Magic Wand or any other Wand and you will see the difference!

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    Lu SB [sign in to see picture]
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    m4t1n wrote:

    Buy a Lovehoney Magic Wand or any other Wand and you will see the difference!

    The Magic Wand is the most wonderful thing, I can't live without that. Another suggestion is the we-vibe Tango, it's so powerful and quiet. I'm sure one of these two and we will no longer be bored.

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    Have you ever tried double penetration. A toy in the back door at the same time is wonderful; if you like that kind of thing.

    I love this love egg for anal, it's the only one that is cordless that I consider safe from getting lost up there. https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30888. it's adds a whole new buzz to things.

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    would not recommend actual spices though

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    Sex Squid [sign in to see picture]
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    Sum Sub wrote:

    would not recommend actual spices though

    Tumeric might be okay, but you'll probably end up with yellow genitals.
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    Sex Squid wrote:

    Sum Sub wrote:

    would not recommend actual spices though

    Tumeric might be okay, but you'll probably end up with yellow genitals.

    Sum Sub wrote:

    would not recommend actual spices though

    Haha, you two!

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    delilahxx [sign in to see picture]
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    My immediate thoughts are maybe try a bullet, glass dildo, g-spot vibrator.

    Some lubricants can provide different sensations.

    As others have said maybe nipple clamps, or a clit clamp.

    Have a good look around the Lovehoney site, there are lots of great different toys to try 😊

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    KirstyLee [sign in to see picture]
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    Have you tried using any orgasm balms ? I find they add a completely different feel.

    Also definitely invest in a good bullet vibrator - the WeVibe Tango is absolutely amazing, so powerful but really discreet - I find using that with an internal vibrator is like heaven to me!

    do you use your fingers ? If so take a look at a site called OMG Yes - it's a site made up of loads of different woman's sharing their masterbating techniques it's £29 but you have access to it forever, I never used to like using my fingers but have started to open up a bit after joining that site. It's very tasteful and the clips are nice and short and they even give you a demonstration!

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    KinkyKLL [sign in to see picture]
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    Thank you these are great tips I'll have a look at them all!

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    Lil_Red_Kinkyboots [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi there,
    For a variation on porn you could try some audio erotic stories on Literotica. You could use earphones to prevent others hearing it and it adds a whole new dimension and feels not quite so solo 😊

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