• We want to try a sex club but we're nervous/first timers.....help!

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    Danandsteph [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi, we want to try going to a sex club (not swinging!) to see what it's like, but we're first timers/nervous.......help!

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    NaughtyNerd [sign in to see picture]
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    Bumping this so it doesn't get lost

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    Gigglesandjiggles [sign in to see picture]
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    Not something I've done but definitely curious.....

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    NatandTom [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi and welcome,

    Have you looked into going to a munch? It might be a good stepping soon if you are nervous. You can meet the people who will be at these places and it may make you feel more comfortable about going into the environment of a club.

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    Belle_djour [sign in to see picture]
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    By sex club, we assume you mean a Go-Go bar or strip joint?

    If so, we have gone to a number as a couple, and found them entertaining. Mrs Belle enjoys them as much as Mr Belle, and likes to see Mr Belle get turned on by the performers. Mrs Belle herself doesn't actually get turned on by the peformers but will always go dressed so that Mr Belle also has her to get turned on about; no underwear and short skirts are favourite. A quiet table a little way back allows you to have fun watching, and also have some discreet fun with each other.

    Depending on the place and the clientele, Mrs Belle may also allow herself to be seen, again discreetly, by others so making her an unofficial part of the performance. Mr Belle does enjoy that, and that is a turn on for Mrs Belle too.

    However some are better than others, and our advice is if you don't feel comfortable it's best to go elsewhere. Some of the people there may make you feel uneasy by hovering near and giving a bit too much attention to you. I suspect some are there because they are hoping to pick up and suppose that any couples are swingers because they are in a sex related club and so are looking for a guy.

    Anyway, like all things in life - if you don't try it you'll never know!


    Belles

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