• What sex secrets do you have that would shock your colleagues / family?

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    Lu SB [sign in to see picture]
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    But you know what: I think part of the excitement is having this facade in which people assume we're something so correct, innocent, demure, serious 100% of the time and only if they could see this other side, everyone would be shocked! That's so cool, I like people like that a lot, dark horses you know.

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    Gem276 [sign in to see picture]
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    My Mum was really shocked that I love BDSM as a submissive as my pain threshold is so low! I don't tell my Dad but the rest of my family know I love anal etc x

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    *sexybabe* [sign in to see picture]
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    I love having sexy secrets! I'm bisexual which not all of my friends or family know. I often wonder if other people have the same sort of secrets but the look of pure shock on my friends' faces at times when I tell them about my sex life suggests that they don't!

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    We have to be very careful for when friends come around as the Mrs has got quite a large costume collection as roleplaying is our thing. If someone saw the costumes hung up in the wardrobes they would invite questions as neither of us are members of amateur dramatic clubs or anytrhing like that.

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    mysteron wrote:

    We have to be very careful for when friends come around as the Mrs has got quite a large costume collection as roleplaying is our thing. If someone saw the costumes hung up in the wardrobes they would invite questions as neither of us are members of amateur dramatic clubs or anytrhing like that.

    Same....except I have a lot of pvc too. I did open my wardrobe door a few months back to show a friend the new fitted wardrobes/drawers etc my oh had built....she was clearly shocked, she went bright red,,,but didn't say a thing. I just smiled, shut the door and didn't say anything either lol x

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    Terri JJ wrote:

    mysteron wrote:

    We have to be very careful for when friends come around as the Mrs has got quite a large costume collection as roleplaying is our thing. If someone saw the costumes hung up in the wardrobes they would invite questions as neither of us are members of amateur dramatic clubs or anytrhing like that.

    Same....except I have a lot of pvc too. I did open my wardrobe door a few months back to show a friend the new fitted wardrobes/drawers etc my oh had built....she was clearly shocked, she went bright red,,,but didn't say a thing. I just smiled, shut the door and didn't say anything either lol x

    I am just waiting for something like this to happen on "Couples Come Dine with Me" on CH4 when they go around snooping in each others houses and in particular the bedroom . Perhaps a good reason we would never place ourselves forward for the programme even though my OH is a brilliant cook .

    Just wondering when kink will become the norm ?

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    Terri JJ [sign in to see picture]
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    My yougest daughter (21) often changes all the bed linnen for me when she's home. She always says 'dont worry mum, I've put your underbed restraint back on ' !! Lol....dont think I'd like a complete stranger poking around in my bedroom if I'm being honest x

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    Terri JJ wrote:

    My yougest daughter (21) often changes all the bed linnen for me when she's home. She always says 'dont worry mum, I've put your underbed restraint back on ' !! Lol....dont think I'd like a complete stranger poking around in my bedroom if I'm being honest x

    Its nice to see you can have this type of relationship with your daughter I guess she's seen way more than most.

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    dem1 [sign in to see picture]
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    That I swallow!

    To me it's normal? All of my friends 'spit' so when we talk about it I just nod along, I know they would be grossed out if I said I swallow...

    Weirdos

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    Penny26 [sign in to see picture]
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    I love having sexy secrets ! I come across as quiet and reserved very innocent, not even my closest friend knows I have a large collection of LH toys and some sexy Lingerie.

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    Well, my online friends know this but not many people I know in 'real' life... I write fanfic, and nine times out of ten it's basically porn. No one except my OH and a few close friends know about the boxes filled with sex toys... and the fact that we're starting to try out impact play, sensory deprivation, and restraints!

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    None of my real-life friends or family know that I blog about sex toys and lingerie, except for my OH.

    They also don't know about my huge stash of toys, underwear, kinky stuff and outfits 😹

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    Over the years letting little things slip to sisters and friends about our exploits of outdoor sex, the thrill of cool air on bare skin and the excitement of the possibility of being caught.

    Semi nude and nude photo shoots in the wild along with accidental flashing in shops and high street.

    I love the look on their face of shock and fascination and wanting more info. Would really love to hear some of their stories but because we haven't it has made us retreat from exposing more of our lifestyle

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    None of our friends no about our PVC fetish and the fact i often wear stockings,suspenders, pvc underwear when we go out.Just got back from a few days in yorkshire and the one time the maid came in the room after knocking i might add there was pvc clothes laying all over bed whip on the floor and vibrator on bedside table which we had forgot about and the fact i was wearings stockings under my dressing gown which is normal to us but she never said anything just winked at my wife when she left if only our friends new

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    Kanu Suckmeov [sign in to see picture]
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    Like many on here we come across as an ordinary couple, quiet and conservative is a good word to describe us.

    We are very fortunate to have retired early to our villa in Spain. Now like many of our friends out here we do indulge in swimming naked in our pool, I must point out in our own pools not at the same time or with our friends. However they would be shocked, as would our friends in England if they knew that we frequently indulge in outdoor sex, and have done for many many years.

    These include, caves, beaches, balconies, gardens, forests, in front and back seats of cars, over the bonnet of cars, parked cars, moving cars, and of course our swimming pool.

    ​As for our multitude of toys, lingerie and thongs best they dont know. Wouldn't want them to faint!

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    Friday13 [sign in to see picture]
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    I doubt my mum would be shocked I'm a masochist and submissive. I'm not exactly the most conservative or conventional person and I am pretty sure she knows I've been to fetish clubs (there's a big crossover with the goth scene). Years ago we watched Secretary together and she basically insinuated trying BDSM might be a solution to my issues with self harm (little did she know I was already involved in kink by then).

    Most of my friends know I'm kinky and I've told them a lot of the things I'm into. They find the more extreme stuff hard to get their heads around but they have never really been that shocked.

    My work colleagues don't know much about me. My work clothes have a tiny hint of goth/alternative style and I occasionally say things that give away I'm a little unconventional but that's it. I guess a bit of light bondage and spanking wouldn't come as too much of a shock but I'm pretty sure that if I mentioned spitting, needle play, punching, trying watersports etc they would fall off their swivel chairs.

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    Just to reverse this slightly, my OH regularly went out with her ex boss for drinks, meals and spa treatments. Once, my OH got home from drinks, meal and "Spa" just as dawn was breaking to report that her demure, very professional boss had taken her to a club with sauna, Jacuzzi, sun beds and "play rooms". It was a two for the price of one ladies night.

    So, while you think that your workmates might be shocked at what you get up to you may also be shocked at what they get up to.

    Just take a look at how many members LH has registered. You may actually be sharing your intimate thoughts on here with your next door neighbour! :-)

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    AlyBlue [sign in to see picture]
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    Everyone I know thinks i'm so innocent and native when it comes to sex stuff.....they would literally be mouth wide open in shock if they knew i have buckle handcuffs, blindfold, butt plug and a several other toys and loved being dominated :'D. They think i don't even know what a vibrator is hahahaha Defo would never guess I was bi x

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    Tallish Darkish & Average [sign in to see picture]
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    Well a few of our friends know we're a little more experimental than they first expected but reckon they'd be more shocked to see the vanity case of restraints & bondage gear and the 2 boxes of toys in the top of the wardrobe!

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    AlyBlue [sign in to see picture]
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    *sexybabe* wrote:

    I love having sexy secrets! I'm bisexual which not all of my friends or family know. I often wonder if other people have the same sort of secrets but the look of pure shock on my friends' faces at times when I tell them about my sex life suggests that they don't!

    Same here on the bisexual, only my bf knows. Not sure how my friends would react so unless they full out ask (cause i hate lying) i'm not going to tell them.

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