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  1. Screamer or silent appreciator?

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    BigishBen [sign in to see picture]
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    SmokingHotLove wrote:

    BigishBen wrote:

    I wish my wife was a screamer!!

    Then make her scream BB 😉

    I do try!!😥
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    SmokingHotLove [sign in to see picture]
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    Lu SB wrote:

    I find it very hard don't scream. I've read somewhere that it's actually very good moan and scream to really enjou, lose yourself in the moment and potentially reach the climax. I used to scream before we had kids and it's lovely when I don't have to worry about it and just go for it. By the way I'd love if my OH expressed himself verbally a bit more as he's a bit on the quiet side. I was on my own enjoying a bit of a sole play the other day and I don't know how, I just lost and shouted when having an orgasm and later on I felt really embarassed when talking to my neighbour. He's a nice guy and we chat a lot and I could feel he was looking at me in a different way - maybe it was just me feeling guilty - lol!

    I hear ya (no pun intended) with the whole embarrassment and coming face to face with a neighbour is instant cringe. And i agree it's highly likely that, due to sheer guilt on our part and probably a bit too much over analysing we in fact make it bigger than it! Thinking they must have heard every single detail (positions and all lol), when in actual fact, they've maybe only heard enough to know we're very lucky ladies or men.

    We probably give them more of a complex with our sheepish, can't get away quick enough, coy "Hi and Bye"!

    But at the same time... while we're screaming out in pleasure and moaning and groaning in privacy (lost in the moment) its a far cry from the reality of coming face to face with your sweet and lovely neighbour! I think we want our neighbours to think of us as whiter than white, innocent and delicate little flowers lol. The saying "A lady in the street, but a freak in the bed" is (in my head) a skill that only your partner of choice should be privy to... Not the whole street! My OH loves it and then teases me after saying I think the guy at the end of the street has lit up his aaaaaaaaaahhhhhh, satisfactory cig lol x

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    SmokingHotLove [sign in to see picture]
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    BigishBen wrote:

    SmokingHotLove wrote:

    BigishBen wrote:

    I wish my wife was a screamer!!

    Then make her scream BB 😉

    I do try!!😥

    Aw im sure you do BB.

    My comment was purely tongue and cheek. I'm sorry, as It wasn't in anyway intended as a dig or to hurt your feelings 🙈

    As you can see from other comments, not all woman are noisy.  Just because your wife isn't loud is not a reflection on you! From experience, I know guys love a challenge... I bet once you find her weakness, her squeals will even shock her. That first un-controllable moan comes without warning. It's just a natural response to sheer pleasure.

    I don't know enough about you guys tbh, but she's either simply a no noise required kinda gal, or she could maybe be shy and holding back? She's your lady and you will know her best. Talk to her and ask what sends her over the edge? Keep trying BB, if it's in there you'll find it 👍

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    BigishBen wrote:

    SmokingHotLove wrote:

    BigishBen wrote:

    I wish my wife was a screamer!!

    Then make her scream BB 😉

    I do try!!😥

    I honestly used to be quiet, almost silent, but now i scream so loud the neighbours neighbour's know about it. I personally got there be just relaxing and not thinking about it and letting go comepletely, the more i let go the more noise i made and tbh the better my orgasms felt. But not sure if that works for all girls and i know everyone is different x

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    hmm, i think im quite quiet...i moan, youd prob have to ask my OH because its a bit of an out of body experience for me! i say stupid things sometimes, and last time he made me cum so hard i couldnt hold back a giggle, it just came out like omg what did you just do to me?!

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    SmokingHotLove wrote:

    BigishBen wrote:

    SmokingHotLove wrote:

    BigishBen wrote:

    I wish my wife was a screamer!!

    Then make her scream BB 😉

    I do try!!😥

    Aw im sure you do BB.

    My comment was purely tongue and cheek. I'm sorry, as It wasn't in anyway intended as a dig or to hurt your feelings 🙈

    As you can see from other comments, not all woman are noisy. Just because your wife isn't loud is not a reflection on you! From experience, I know guys love a challenge... I bet once you find her weakness, her squeals will even shock her. That first un-controllable moan comes without warning. It's just a natural response to sheer pleasure.

    I don't know enough about you guys tbh, but she's either simply a no noise required kinda gal, or she could maybe be shy and holding back? She's your lady and you will know her best. Talk to her and ask what sends her over the edge? Keep trying BB, if it's in there you'll find it 👍

    Don't worry SHL it's all good. I do have a much higher sex drive than the wife, and am a much easier when it comes to trying new things. The thing that frustrates me the most is she never really does just relax and let her self go totally, which is something that I need to work on. I adore her and only want to please her, but we rarely even talk about sex and she never gives me an insight to what feels good or bad for her. I have tried many things to get her to relax completely, but I feel she needs to find out how to completely relax and just find the moment.x
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    AlyBlue wrote:

    BigishBen wrote:

    SmokingHotLove wrote:

    BigishBen wrote:

    I wish my wife was a screamer!!

    Then make her scream BB 😉

    I do try!!😥

    I honestly used to be quiet, almost silent, but now i scream so loud the neighbours neighbour's know about it. I personally got there be just relaxing and not thinking about it and letting go comepletely, the more i let go the more noise i made and tbh the better my orgasms felt. But not sure if that works for all girls and i know everyone is different x

    I think yhere is some truth in that. I try to be quiet because of the boys. (they've walked in on us before now) and I definitely find I have better orgasms when I forget to be quiet 😉
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    glitterismyfavouritecolour wrote:

    hmm, i think im quite quiet...i moan, youd prob have to ask my OH because its a bit of an out of body experience for me! i say stupid things sometimes, and last time he made me cum so hard i couldnt hold back a giggle, it just came out like omg what did you just do to me?!

    That made me giggle because I find myself telling captain I love him, a lot, during sex. Then I tease him that I shouldn't be trusted because I was always told never to trust a man who says "I love you" during sex...
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    I scream, moan, shout, beg (usually a lot of begging) lol

    I'm extremely loud and our daughters have both left home now so its not a problem. If they're home for a visit however, I do try very hard to keep the noise down a bit...although they are used to it and generally just smirk at me and my oh ;) lol

    If I try to bite the pillow etc it does muffle me somewhat but then I end up with a bleeding mouth where I've bitten my lip etc xx

    PS...Mr JJ is very quiet but I'm guessing thats because he cant get a word in....even if he did make noise, I doubt we would hear him over my noise ;) xx

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    Depends on the circumstances if I have to be quiet my tongue gets bitten to silence myself but if not then definitely make noise not necessarily coherent but noise lol

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    I love my OH to be as noisy as possible and to hear her pleasure. Its a big turn on for me.

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    Oh I'm a screamer 😂😂 I'm loud anyway when I'm talking etc so when I'm getting sexy I'm just X-rated loud 😂😂😂

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    But I can be quiet if I need to be.....not silent, that's impossible but quiet..er...ish ha ha ha ha 😂😂

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    Hi lovely people. Is that a thing that we ladies are louder than the guys? And why is that?

    When I was dating my husband, I used to ask him to moan and be a bit louder, but he always was a bit on the quiet side. Shame, because my hearing is my sharpest sense and I do get turned on a lot by male (female as well) moaning, but it's not very common!

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    I make noise but not loudly. When I reach climax I tend to hold my breath and then get caught up in the moment when [MY OH] cums.

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    I enjoy [MY OH] when she moans while I get her roused. While we have been here in Finland we have made love every day for nearly three weeks and even though we are in the countryside with no one else around us she still does not make much noise even with a constantly deep thrusting when I cum. After saying that we Finns are a quiet nation.

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    Antti67 wrote:

    I enjoy EllieRae68 when she moans while I get her roused. While we have been here in Finland we have made love every day for nearly three weeks and even though we are in the countryside with no one else around us she still does not make much noise even with a constantly deep thrusting when I cum. After saying that we Finns are a quiet nation.Anti

    Anti67 trat's so true! Back in my country (somewhere in South America) I met a girl from Finland years ago, when I used to work with Theatre. We got on loads, she was so lovely and very confident about her own body, nudity and all these kind of stuff.

    After a party or night out we always laughed because no-one knew if she got laid or not, because she was so quiet. We were all single and living the life, but because most of us were loud in the bedroom department and she was quiet, we had the reputation.

    She had sex with several people and she told me once that it was the way she was back in Finland and she asked us what she had to do to let it go. I hope she found her own way - lol!

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    I tend to be quite silent but honestly I just want to be able to let it all go. To at least do a bit of moaning out loud. Definitely practicing on it ;)

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    Lu SB wrote:

    Antti67 wrote:

    I enjoy EllieRae68 when she moans while I get her roused. While we have been here in Finland we have made love every day for nearly three weeks and even though we are in the countryside with no one else around us she still does not make much noise even with a constantly deep thrusting when I cum. After saying that we Finns are a quiet nation.Anti

    Anti67 trat's so true! Back in my country (somewhere in South America) I met a girl from Finland years ago, when I used to work with Theatre. We got on loads, she was so lovely and very confident about her own body, nudity and all these kind of stuff.

    After a party or night out we always laughed because no-one knew if she got laid or not, because she was so quiet. We were all single and living the life, but because most of us were loud in the bedroom department and she was quiet, we had the reputation.

    She had sex with several people and she told me once that it was the way she was back in Finland and she asked us what she had to do to let it go. I hope she found her own way - lol!

    Its the quite ones you have to worry about [MY OH] is really horny but I do not have a problems with that she more so now due to wedding plans coming together and making the most of each other in beautiful surroundings here in Finland.

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    Hands All Over wrote:

    I tend to be quite silent but honestly I just want to be able to let it all go. To at least do a bit of moaning out loud. Definitely practicing on it ;)

    Trust me when you let go it feels amazing, but it does take time to let go, but when you start....theres no stopping you haha ;)

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