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  1. My Wife Wants a Boyfriend!

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    Jezebella [sign in to see picture]
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    +1 LadyS

    That kind of post would be confusing for someone looking for similar advise to the OP in the future.

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    kittencub wrote:

    Eager-2-Please wrote:

    mr very good wrote:

    reply to Eager-2-Please

    Fortunately, I get a thrill from being humiliated, and I masturbate while listening to them making love.

    They have started letting me watch them now.

    They asked me if I would like a ringside seat, and my reply was "yes, but how are you going to stop me joining in?Are you going to tie me to the headboard ?"

    And that is exactly what they do now, tying me to the headboard so I can't move. They must know I like humiliation, because they treat me just like a servant. I have to give up the sofa for him or for them when watching TV, etcetera, and I have to get him drinks and serve him drinks whenevr he orders me to, and generally wait on him, etcetera. He is very much he master of the house.

    I don't know what she saw in him in the first place though, with his beer belly, and bald head.She says that's a sign of virility, masculinity. And I think she likes the grey hairs on his chest.

    Ah. Well that's entirely different, then, and wasn't apparent from your initial post. I would certainly hope that they are knowingly fulfilling your desires as well as their own. Otherwise, again, it makes them not very nice people, in my opinion, if they're just doing it with no regards for you.

    Look at Mr v goods post about male prostitute, pot calling kettle black or troll I think.

    Similar concerns from me...
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    Tiger Dick [sign in to see picture]
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    mr very good wrote:

    I cannot understand why she likes this lover of hers so much, because he is older and uglier than me, and less intelligent , and inferior to me in every way.

    Firstly I'm not too happy about the way LUC's thread has been hijack by Mr Very Good, the first post was IMHO a good reply and had some merit to the LUC's original post. But comments quoted above don't add anything to the thread.

    That is your view MVG, but may I politely point out that clearly your SO it seems doesn't share that view. And whilst your points about his age and IQ may be factually correct, Your opinions about them being inferior to you, are in my view as ugly as it gets.

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    mr very good [sign in to see picture]
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    Re-the comment about me going with a male prostitute, in my defence I have to say it was after my wife started sleeping around. Also, my desire for young black men is so strong that I could not help myself.

    But I admit to being a kettle calling a frying pan, because I was chasing after other women before my wife and I made that agreement. I was always chasing after her female friends, and slept with one of them. Again, I couldn't help that, because I was absolutely besotted with that friend of hers.

    I suppose I deserve everything I get, and I have no ill-feelings towards my wife and her new lover. I would probably have done all the same things he has done, presented with the same opportunities.

    I've actually found I get a thrill out of being cuckolded, anyway. I have masochist tendencies.

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    mr very good wrote:

    Re-the comment about me going with a male prostitute, in my defence I have to say it was after my wife started sleeping around. Also, my desire for young black men is so strong that I could not help myself.

    But I admit to being a kettle calling a frying pan, because I was chasing after other women before my wife and I made that agreement. I was always chasing after her female friends, and slept with one of them. Again, I couldn't help that, because I was absolutely besotted with that friend of hers.

    I suppose I deserve everything I get, and I have no ill-feelings towards my wife and her new lover. I would probably have done all the same things he has done, presented with the same opportunities.

    I've actually found I get a thrill out of being cuckolded, anyway. I have masochist tendencies.

    hello & welcome 

    This may be a better thread for you: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/505749-cuckolding/ as this discussion has taken the thread off topic.

    Please take this discussion over the linked thread and don't forget to check out the rules in the welcome thread 

    Enjoy! 

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    Getting back on topic...

    My ex-wife and I were having issues and decided to open our relationship up. We had threesomes and went to fetish/swingers clubs and she had boyfriends. Then I found a girlfriend, and my marriage imploded. It wasn't because of the polyamory, it was because we were trying to use sex with other people to "fix" what was wrong in our marriage, and of course that isn't going to work. We weren't happy, the relationship had become all about my keeping her happy and reassuring her constantly.

    Polyamory gets a bad rap for "breaking up" marriages and relationships, but I have seen a LOT of poly relationships work, and work well, for decades. It won't, however, fix something that is broken. If you have a strong marriage, a strong relationship and friendship with each other, and respect each other and prioritize your relationship, then opening the relationship up might just be an added dimension to your sex lives. If you're trying to find something to break you out of a "rut" or to fix something in the marriage, then it's just going to magnify whatever issue you're having and bring it to a head.

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    Tony McA wrote:

    Getting back on topic...

    My ex-wife and I were having issues and decided to open our relationship up. We had threesomes and went to fetish/swingers clubs and she had boyfriends. Then I found a girlfriend, and my marriage imploded. It wasn't because of the polyamory, it was because we were trying to use sex with other people to "fix" what was wrong in our marriage, and of course that isn't going to work. We weren't happy, the relationship had become all about my keeping her happy and reassuring her constantly.

    Polyamory gets a bad rap for "breaking up" marriages and relationships, but I have seen a LOT of poly relationships work, and work well, for decades. It won't, however, fix something that is broken. If you have a strong marriage, a strong relationship and friendship with each other, and respect each other and prioritize your relationship, then opening the relationship up might just be an added dimension to your sex lives. If you're trying to find something to break you out of a "rut" or to fix something in the marriage, then it's just going to magnify whatever issue you're having and bring it to a head.

    Great post fella.

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    Thanks, Tiger Dick. I just hate it when the entire concept of polyamory gets written off or vilified because people go into it with unrealistic expectations and for the wrong reasons.

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    Thanks Tony, and everyone else. Plenty of good advice, sorry we've been quiet both not been feeling 100% of late. We'll keep you all posted.

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    Been thinking of you both loads - keep working together hunnies xxxx

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    Thanks LNT x

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    How are you guys doing? Xxxx

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    lovingnewtoys wrote:

    How are you guys doing? Xxxx

    Very well all things told, we are in a much better place than just before Xmas, sorted a few things out & councillor says we don't need to go again!

    Talked through the bedroom stuff and agreed to work on getting us sorted in all ways as a priority.

    How about you my dear? Xx

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    luvved up cupple wrote:

    lovingnewtoys wrote:

    How are you guys doing? Xxxx

    Very well all things told, we are in a much better place than just before Xmas, sorted a few things out & councillor says we don't need to go again!

    Talked through the bedroom stuff and agreed to work on getting us sorted in all ways as a priority.

    How about you my dear? Xx

    Thats good to hear - I am genuinely really pleased for you. I haven't been great but the last few days have been better so hoping the hrt is kicking in now. Keep up the good work you guys xxx
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    luvved up cupple wrote:

    lovingnewtoys wrote:

    How are you guys doing? Xxxx

    Very well all things told, we are in a much better place than just before Xmas, sorted a few things out & councillor says we don't need to go again!

    Talked through the bedroom stuff and agreed to work on getting us sorted in all ways as a priority.

    How about you my dear? Xx

    Delighted to hear everything is going well. Relationships are well worth fighting for .

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    Thanks again guys x.

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    luvved up cupple wrote:

    lovingnewtoys wrote:

    How are you guys doing? Xxxx

    Very well all things told, we are in a much better place than just before Xmas, sorted a few things out & councillor says we don't need to go again!

    Talked through the bedroom stuff and agreed to work on getting us sorted in all ways as a priority.

    How about you my dear? Xx

    Great to hear it's going so well. Been thinking about you both and wishing you all the very best for the future x
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    Just checking things are still on track for you guys - tell me to mind my own if you like, but genuinely hoping all is good xxx

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    Hi sorry to come in so late to this thread.Once I had come across it I felt like I was on an emotional roller coaster with you.You have certainly achieved a remarkable step forward with your relationship and should feel extremely proud of that fact.I feel so happy that counselling has helped add positivity for you. What a great feeling you must have had on hearig that you shouldn't need any further meetings.I wish you all the best for a long and happy future together.Good things are always worth saving so keep up your good work .

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    Hey guys - hope things are still going from strength to strength for you both xxx

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