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  1. Bi-Curious

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    kneejerknuke [sign in to see picture]
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    Firsty, you are normal and thoughts like this are nothing to lose sleep over. Infact TONS of married straight guys either enjoy having their cocks sucked by other guys or doing the sucking themselves. Same goes for anal, although straight guys tend to be more submissive - guess its a feeling that you cant get from the gf/wife unless you use a strapon.

    Maybe you can find a buddy to experiment with and, possibly, a whole new world of fun awaits you! If you try and it and dont enjoy, then nothing lost and you can stop thinking about it all the time.

    Main thing is not to feel guilty or bad about such thoughts - if every straight guy was honest you will find that you are not really in that much of a minority.

    KJN

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    Goodvibrationz [sign in to see picture]
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    chisel wrote:

    GV. Hope your next meeting with your lady friend goes well. Don't push her too hard and relax. Tell your OH that your friend is gay and that she might not want to play if he is in the room. He might back off and let you two ladies do your thing. Any way Good Luck. XXX

    Wanted to let you know that my girlfriend is still on the scene and that I met a few of her friends last weekend. Plus she has been round to ours again and as you suggested, my OH was kind enough to let us "get on with it".

    We are progressing to much more intimate physical contact now and I have been surprised at how much I have enjoyed it all. Not sure what we will try next but my GF's friends were very welcoming and I joined in with some FFF group activities which were a bit of an eye opener.......

    Anyway, thanks everyone for all your support and suggestions over the weeks, LH is a great place to be as it feels safe for newbies.  It's all been a steep learning curve but that's what makes the world go round. 

    Certainly LH has brought many things to the surface that have been bubbling away for ages without getting anywhere but now they are.  They really are!

    GV X

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    SmokingHotLove [sign in to see picture]
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    So happy to hear it's going so well GV. I absolutely love the fact that you had this curiousity for so long and when you decided to test the water, it all paid off. You're a prime example of facing your fears and over coming the "what ifs" Thank you so much for sharing your experience, massive respect to you! Love your attitude and the fact that you know what you want. I honestly think you'll inspire others by sharing your thoughts and experience on here and we can only admire you for that. Just keep being you and everything else will fall into place. And enjoy, always ensure you're having fun and that's all everyone wants. Go get em lovely xx

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    Goodvibrationz [sign in to see picture]
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    SmokingHotLove wrote:

    So happy to hear it's going so well GV. I absolutely love the fact that you had this curiousity for so long and when you decided to test the water, it all paid off. You're a prime example of facing your fears and over coming the "what ifs" Thank you so much for sharing your experience, massive respect to you! Love your attitude and the fact that you know what you want. I honestly think you'll inspire others by sharing your thoughts and experience on here and we can only admire you for that. Just keep being you and everything else will fall into place. And enjoy, always ensure you're having fun and that's all everyone wants. Go get em lovely xx

    Thanks SHL. Yes, lots has happened recently and we can only wonder what's next.....

    Certainly when I met some of my GF's friends recently at hers and got invited upstairs for a FFF "taster session" I had my doubts. But the two women were lovely (about 30 years younger than me) so I just lay between them and they were kind, gentle and very attentive.

    My OH is more than happy that I am fully in control of what's going on and I am just enjoying myself and having fun - although I still can't believe that other women find me attractive. But let's not go down that road again!

    I will continue to give the odd update from time to time if anyone is interested in how things are going. But I won't go into too much detail as it's a bit embarrasing!

    GV XX

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    Goodvibrationz wrote:

    SmokingHotLove wrote:

    So happy to hear it's going so well GV. I absolutely love the fact that you had this curiousity for so long and when you decided to test the water, it all paid off. You're a prime example of facing your fears and over coming the "what ifs" Thank you so much for sharing your experience, massive respect to you! Love your attitude and the fact that you know what you want. I honestly think you'll inspire others by sharing your thoughts and experience on here and we can only admire you for that. Just keep being you and everything else will fall into place. And enjoy, always ensure you're having fun and that's all everyone wants. Go get em lovely xx

    Thanks SHL. Yes, lots has happened recently and we can only wonder what's next.....

    Certainly when I met some of my GF's friends recently at hers and got invited upstairs for a FFF "taster session" I had my doubts. But the two women were lovely (about 30 years younger than me) so I just lay between them and they were kind, gentle and very attentive.

    My OH is more than happy that I am fully in control of what's going on and I am just enjoying myself and having fun - although I still can't believe that other women find me attractive. But let's not go down that road again!

    I will continue to give the odd update from time to time if anyone is interested in how things are going. But I won't go into too much detail as it's a bit embarrasing!

    GV XX

    I can see from your lovely photos why the two young women would want to be with you. Please let us know what happens the next time. Tell it your own way please. X

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    Gotta say being a woman I prefer to watch a woman being played with it really turns me on. I'm wouldn't consider me bi I love to watch and imagine it's me they are playing with. I also love it when hubs watches himself pleasure me with his fingers as I watch too :p

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    T-honey wrote:

    Gotta say being a woman I prefer to watch a woman being played with it really turns me on. I'm wouldn't consider me bi I love to watch and imagine it's me they are playing with. I also love it when hubs watches himself pleasure me with his fingers as I watch too :p

    That's how I started off some years ago - now fully fledged bi. XX

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    Alicia4Ever wrote:

    You are you, there is no need for lables. Many people don't fit the "box", as the extent to which a person is attracted to the same sex is different for each individual, both physically and emotionally.

    It's only when you come to tell someone else that you you find difficulties, as many people do like to have set boxes for other people, particulally those who see sexuallity as set in stone, to either gay, bi, or straight.

    Also, you will probably find that how you feel changes, like door that constantly swings open all different ways, do be scared if this happens to you, it doesn't me you have to be anything new, you just changed what you like.

    I would say that you do need to feel capable and desiring of a relationship with a same sex partner to say you are trully gay, or bi; but as I said you are just you. And it's the rest of the world that needs to get over it's self, and stop judging others simply for being different.

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    I don't really believe in set sexuality. I am what you would call bisexual but I truly believe you are attracted to who or what you are attracted to. By what I mean what sexual acts I'm not suggesting someone fancies a chair...
    I was in a relationship with a woman for 9 years. I've been with my husband for 8. My husband isn't attracted to men but quite likes the thought of giving a guy a blow job.

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    i am the same browncoats im not attracted to men but i like the thought of going down on a guy especially if another woman was there

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    Browncoats wrote:

    I don't really believe in set sexuality. I am what you would call bisexual but I truly believe you are attracted to who or what you are attracted to. By what I mean what sexual acts I'm not suggesting someone fancies a chair...
    I was in a relationship with a woman for 9 years. I've been with my husband for 8. My husband isn't attracted to men but quite likes the thought of giving a guy a blow job.

    I agree. Its the person I am attracted to not their sex, X

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    bigjohn1976 [sign in to see picture]
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    im bi curious i fantasise about going down on another man whilst being encoraged by a women

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    Nonamesplease [sign in to see picture]
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    I fantasise about playing with another man, the thought of kissing or penetration doesn't do anything for me, but I like the thought of holding, playing and possibly sucking another mans penis

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    bigjohn1976 [sign in to see picture]
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    thats what i want with another man just oral and mutual masturbation

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    I've just accepted or realised that I'm Polysexual. By that I find all feminine people attractive but both genitals sexually exciting. So as long as they look like a female would happily accept them with a vagina or penis.

    My wife at the same time has realised she is bi-sexual.

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    mr very good [sign in to see picture]
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    I was what you might call homophobic and 100 % heterosexual all my life until I reached my late sixties. Since around 2 years ago, that is.

    Now I have become partly homosexual, but only in so far as I occasionally get very attracted to a good-looking young black man. They have to be exceptionally handsome and muscular, and I find that such men are few and far between, but when I see one I lust after him,*EDITED BY MODERATOR* 

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    Bigtrak wrote:

    I've just accepted or realised that I'm Polysexual. By that I find all feminine people attractive but both genitals sexually exciting. So as long as they look like a female would happily accept them with a vagina or penis.

    My wife at the same time has realised she is bi-sexual.

    Sounds like you and your wife could potentially have some fun times exploring together :)
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    A term I recently came across; Heteroflexibility is a form of a sexual orientation or situational sexual behavior charactarized by minimal homosexual activity in an otherwise primarily heterosexual orientation that is considered to distinguish it from bisexuality. it has been characterized as "mostly straight".

    I've been straight all my life, but I would straight-up have sex with Fernando from Sense8.

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    Hi, firstly I love this thread, I am a mostly gay guy and like taking and receiving, I have endulged straight friends with mutual masturbation and oral sex and a lot of gay guys have fantasies about turning straight friends. The curiosity of people in itself is a huge turn on for me. Straight people is sort of a forbidden fruit kind of thing, getting attention from someone otherwise completely unobtainable. so I am sure there are a lot of gay guys out there that would enjoy hearing that so many people are curious about it.

    Bisexual, gay and straight arent as useful as the kinsey scale which rates sexual behaviour in 6 (or 7) scales, it acknowledges that sexuality is a spectrum but picks particular definitions which are: 0 - exclusively heterosexual 1 - predominently heterosexual but incidentally homosexual 2 - predominantly heterosexual but more than incidently homosexual 3 - equally heterosexual and homosexual 4 - predominantly homosexual but more than incidently heterosexual 5 - predominantly homosexual but incidently heterosexual 6 - exclusively homosexual.

    So all of you guys that seem turned on by cocks or turned on by having sex with men but not necessarily attracted to the man behind the cock (or more than just sexually) you could probably think of yourself as a 2 on the scale if that helps you. I dont think we need labels because human sexuallity is so incredibly complex, but sometimes labels are comforting because it makes us realise that its a common thing, loads of people feel the same way.

    I myself identify as 5 on the scale maybe 4 at a push but i have never done anything with a woman, only had male sex partners. I am definitely bi curious though, I have started being able to enjoy straight porn where i used to be turned off, especially bi threesomes. I suppose I am bi curious in the opposite direction to what people normally think of.

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    Nonamesplease [sign in to see picture]
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    A bi threesome would be good, my wife sucking both of us while we're standing in front of her, while I'm holding the other penis, then playing with it then me and her take turns to suck it

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