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  1. Orgasm without a clitoris?

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    NervousNewbie [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi all,

    I'm very new to this website and the world of sex toys. I have an issue that seems very uncommon (no info on here, google and Dr's don't seem to know either): I do not have a clitoris at all :( - not sure why. As of yet I have been able to orgasm - ever. I was wondering if anybody tips on how to get there without any clitoral stimulation? I would really appreciate any advice, thankyou in advance :)

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    Arual [sign in to see picture]
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    There is too other forms of orgasm you can achieve. I would suggest using g spot specialised toys if you really want to try to have a orgasm. Personally I love the shape and texture of glass dildos which can be shaped to hit your g spot and cause a vaginal orgasm. But there are toys specifically make for vaginal orgasms which are targeting your g spot. That's the best advice I have sorry.

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    glittergirl [sign in to see picture]
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    Again i would says try g spot toy have you try really exploring your self as in masturbating totally relax and hunted your g spot using lots of lube. I would say make sure your really turned on i have actually had mini orgasm just from very Sexual thoughs and then just clenching my muscles down there. So i would say having no clit shouldn't stop you but think it might take longer. I cant say as i cant talk from experience. Hope you find away to achevive satsification. And there are lots of things that can be enjoyed remember.ta
    Me pressure Of as this will be stopper before begin.

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    NatandTom [sign in to see picture]
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    I would suggest reading some of the threads that exist already regarding g-spot stimulation and the best toys for the job. If anal play is an option for you then you may be able to orgasm from that with some experience. It doesn't have to be something big to do the job! A finger or small prober may be enough.

    A wand might be worth looking into as they have large heads that can stimulate multiple external areas. I can get off with just general vulva stimulation when using an extremely powerful wand.

    Hope you find some answers soon 😊

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    NaughtyNerd [sign in to see picture]
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    Another g spot toy. I struggle to orgams just from clitoral stimulation so its a vibrating gspot toy for me.

    My favourite is the LH deluxe wand with gspot attachment.

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31087
    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25899

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    cobra1987 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi well first let me say welcome and I think you first thing to do is to buy some sex toys. I would suggest gpsot vibrator and clitoris toy. I know most women love to stimulate clitoris and then gspot but you can get orgasm with gspot . I would also say get relaxed and turn your self on by watching porn. If you get your lover to turn you on. If you dont have a lover then I would say explore your self mebe even do it in mirror so that you can see everything easily. I would say use lube and experiment with yourself as you do need to be pleased. I hope this was useful?

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    So it sounds like we've established you may be able to orgasm from G-spot stimulation, but that's not your only option.

    Clitoris or no, some sound advice is to get to know your body and what works for you, and at the end of the day the clit is just one of many erogenous zones. Some of the others don't provide such "easy" orgasms - but you work on them and you'll get there.

    As Nat&Tom point out, some hefty vibrations applied to the vulva may work - no doubt for those with a clit, this comes into play here, but there are so many nerve endings in the whole area that this may well work for you. The doxy wand is a firm favourite for strong vibes, but LH also have the rockbox on a crazy price at the moment, and that is so incredibly powerful.

    My OH really gets a lot of pleasure from penetration of bumpy and ridged dildos - and only just inside the entrance to her vagina too, something like the

    G-spot has been mentioned above, so won't say much more, but the L'amoursose Rosa is teh best we've tried in that respect.

    Have a google and read of your AFE zone (or A-spot) too, that provides for some good orgasmic fun too, C-shaped and heavy works best for us, like the pure wand.

    Anal is a possibility too - there are reports of women orgasming from anal penetraton, but even if thats not successful (it doesn't for us), having something in your bum makes your vagina tighter and thereby more sensative to stimulation.

    It is known for some people to be able to orgasm from nipple play, so experiment there too - maybe start with some suckers, go on to clamps and whatever else takes your fancy. Thats the key really - relax and experiment (ohh and lube where appropriate)

    links

    doxy - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/brands/doxy/

    rockbox - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31069

    dildo - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29001

    Rosa - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30909

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    Sole [sign in to see picture]
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    The clitoris is not just the tiny spot at the top of the smaller lips. The internal structure of the clitoris runs throughout all the vulva. I'm not sure if any doctor has carried a full inspection, or any study of your anatomy, but I (as a doctor) find quite strange that someone lacks a full structure of the body. It may be different (smaller, hidden...) but I'm (almost) sure that some of all this tissue must be somewhere. So the first thing I'll suggest is to consider a visit to a gynecologist that carries some serious studies to your body.

    And even if you don't have any of this tissue, you should investigate yourself what parts of your body and mind (mind is as important to female orgasm as any possible organ or zone in your body).

    Whereas to buying a sex toy, I would recomend something you can use internally and externally to explore.

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    SquirtyPanda [sign in to see picture]
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    Not the end of the world sweetheart, get yourself some good Gspot toys and other sensory items (clamps, floggers etc) todays DOTD would be perfect for you

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/deal-of-the-day/

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    Hi and welcome. You are with peole who genuinely care about your sexual happiness.

    There are many ways to orgasm and I feel sure we can help you find them.

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    NervousNewbie [sign in to see picture]
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    Thankyou all for your helpful replies and advise :) definatly some got some things to try now! I have been reluctant to spend much on toys as I'm new to them and not really sure what I like yet (plus I read a review of a vibrator recently which was likened to a 'phnematic drill', a little intimidating lol). Will certinaly invest in a G-spot toy now though!

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    Tiger Dick [sign in to see picture]
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    NervousNewbie wrote:

    Thankyou all for your helpful replies and advise :) definatly some got some things to try now! I have been reluctant to spend much on toys as I'm new to them and not really sure what I like yet (plus I read a review of a vibrator recently which was likened to a 'phnematic drill', a little intimidating lol). Will certinaly invest in a G-spot toy now though!

    Fear not about spend too much on toys

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/help/returns-policy/

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    Purring-Pussy [sign in to see picture]
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    Try and get to know your body and what feels good.....nipples, vulva, gspot, bum fun. Explore and enjoy.

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