Turn on's and kinks!

Hi,

So, I wanted to know what makes everyone tick. Is there anything that really gets you going? Any kinks? For me, although I have a partner, I have his consent to have a plaything online. My "plaything" is exceptionally gorgeous and together we partake in things that normal couples would do just...without the actual physical act of touching (Even though it totally kills me sometimes)

It may be a little taboo for some, but I wanted to know what gets you fired up? For me, knowing my bit of fluff on the side is doing things gets me going, he often sends me pics and videos which I return the favor on and then of course- the grand finale which is always the most exciting bit for me.

Other than that, a bit of spanking, gentle whipping and the odd bit of choking (too much?) is always good for me.

How about you?

We like to sext one another quite a lot & sometimes send pictures. We like the same as you, spanking, choking, whipping & mild face slapping if we wanna play rough. We're also like to do role play, watch porn together, play with toys. My OH loves to dress slutty when a filthy session is planned. Solo play, we do everything, we never get bored because there is always something new to try.

We haven't tried light slapping yet. We've done bondage and tying eachother up. My partner isn't very sexually active but my buddy is and has no qualms about trying things- just the distance thats in the way!

Forgot to say we do all the tying up too. Being dominate over one another.

Does your partner know that you have a FWB's or is it something they're happy with? You don't have to reply if you think I'm being too personal.

Well, we spoke about it, since his sex drive is so low and I don't think I'll ever be ready to go without. It's with his consent that I have my little bit extra.

That's cool that you've come to an agreement.

It is, we've been together six years and he's good about it. I think the fact theres distance between me and my buddy helps.

My girlfriend and I enjoy some bondage, with ropes, handcuffs and blindfolds, the occasional spanking and roleplay :)

Far far to many to list.

But I don't label them if two people want to give each other pleasure in any way then its just sex no matter how others want to label it.

I think each to their own.

My bit of manfluff (well...not so much anymore, seems things have gone a bit...south) liked my feet and spanking.

My partner likes to spank, and ripping any tights i'm wearing.

OMG.. I have a few.. Not that kinky I guess but they work for me. I like CFNM scenarios (clothed female, nudie male) .. I would like to be driven somewhere at night with not much on. Marched out into a secluded wooded area and to be tied up used and abused by a woman. I love to receive nipple tweaks and pinches. Spanking. Electro play. Being blindfolded. Tie and tease. Edging. Woman wearing black gloves, leather or black latex. I have a thing about tongues and mouths. Particularly watching a woman apply lip gloss. I like being watched. Fantasies include being watched by one or more women whilst I'm blindfolded. They instruct me to do sexual things. I would hear their comments and observations. I seem to but quite turned on now. Anyway you get the drift.

Bondage: ropes, chains, cuffs, spreader bars, ball-gags, blindfolds, hog-ties, anal hooks, nipple clamps

Primal/Rough: fistful of hair, hairpulling, hand on the throat, biting earlobes, up against the wall, general man-handling

Dress-up and lingerie: particularly tights, stockings, thigh-high/knee-high socks, frilly ankle socks

Forced orgams, squirting, and lately I seem to have developed new fetishes for gangbangs and bukkake... particularly where the guys are lined up/gathered around and take turns on the girl/woman and/or pass her around (rather than the much more commonly seen mutilple penetrations from every angle while she also has cocks in each hand - call me picky).

So er... yeah. One or two!