1. When you want to be the bottom but it hurts?

    Deebo26 [sign in to see picture]
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    I like it when my partner wants to be on top but i find it really hurts, because i dont do it that much it always kinda feels like a first time thing and have to use toys to kind of ease me in. looking for one that'll do the job but not be so painful so i can be ready to take....... Any suggestions???

    Alicia4Ever [sign in to see picture]
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    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30709 this one is slim on the end then widens out, so the more you push in the more you get stretched. water based anal lube only.

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34638 this one is super slim, water based anal lube only.

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29221 This one is glass I love lhenm they are hard, but they are very slppery when lubed up and you can use any kind of lube

    The main thing is once you start having anal sex if you don't do it regularly things go back to how they were and you have to start stretching again; as you have found out. use plenty of lube too, get an applicator syringe off LH and put some up inside you as well.

    Deebo26 [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks I'll have a look :)

    amber_angel [sign in to see picture]
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    You might also look into sex position guides specifically geared toward gay men.

    They are out there. I cant link to them, but just putting "sex position guide for gay men" in the search engine, will give you many many resources.

    You and your partner can have lots of fun trying and you may come up with some comfortable ways while you are doing the stretching exercises Alicia has referred.


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