1. Solo Anal play, help?

    TheGoldenBalls [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi there!
    To any male or female out there who enjoy anal fun, this is a question to you.

    So I'm a straight male, but I do enjoy anal play, I have had anal toys before ranging from small plugs to bug dildos, but when I have anal play with toys, I have to slow down or stop after a few minutes as the enjoyment goes due to it becoming uncomfortable (ass pain, but the good kind).

    So to anyone who like to do solo anal play, what's your best tips?
    What can make me enjoy it more?
    What can make me want to go for a while?
    Best toys to get?
    And even what type or "experimenting" would you suggest?

    If possible, "hands free" options, I don't want to use my hands ;)

    Alicia4Ever [sign in to see picture]
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    search for suction cup dildos, and prostate toys.

    Get some good anal lube, suitable for the toys you have, or buy, that will make things more comfortable, and don't go too big too fast , work your anus up to to , get the muscules warmed up, and with draw the toy several times with a minute or so inbetween untill things feel comfy.

    If you put it in, and your anus is in spasm a bit, from the shock, ( things are supposed to be going out not in) and keep it in the muscules stay in spasm, pulling out gives them the chance to relax, and open up next time, not clamp.



    This one is a womans G spot toy, and is not hands free as such but if you can lay on a bed , with a towel pulled into a rope, and put the toy in pull the towel against the toy to keep it in ,and sit on the two ends of the towel, it works hands free,. thereis one setting on ot that vibrates the tip, which is inside you, and the shaft of the toy where it enters your anus, alturnatly. gets me bum going and righrt up into my belly.


    in out thrusting will give better than just in and say there, if it's not a vibe.

    for hand work, I love glass toys this one is really good for anal, ( why no hands, is that so you can mastrurbate, or just don't like the idea, You will find things with hands that you may not hands free, you have more control over the toy.


    all the beads don't half stimulate the anus, and is curved so you can search for your prostate gland, which can give massive orgasms, when you get the knack of it.

    Lil_Red_Kinkyboots [sign in to see picture]
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    Wow Alicia that's great advice/information. Going to look at these for hubby. Thank you x
    Here's another one you might like to try golden balls it's my hubbys first anal toy and he keeps going back to it time and time again. He said it hits him just where he needs it and of course it's hands free. He wears it solo and when we have sex and he gets really strong orgasms from it and it never pops out unlike some can during that crucial moment. For the price it's amazing 😊

    Lil_Red_Kinkyboots [sign in to see picture]
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    Would help if I gave you the link sorry

    TheGoldenBalls [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks for the reply ladies! :)
    Alicia, I'm not to sure what you mean, at least I can't picture the idea with the towel...
    I understand that the towel will hold the toy waiting it's knot and makes a nice elevated surface, but the laying down and sitting on, I can't picture it sorry.

    I think for solo play for male and female, love honey should make a lever thing... Push forward you goes up or in, pull back and it goes down or out, similar to the "exercise bike" I think I seen somewhere, but a lot cheaper, easy to assemble and easy to dismantle.

    And yeah it's kind of the idea of just relaxing and something do the work while I relax and enjoy it without having to move around for once, that's why I want something hands free


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    The best you can get is the Lamourose Rosa Rogue, compleatly handsfree and the absolutely best anal toy in the world.

    TheGoldenBalls [sign in to see picture]
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    Oh, last person who commented is now a 'Suspended User"...

    ...from the ceiling I hope.

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