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  1. Do girls request anal?

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    truther [sign in to see picture]
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    I've had a few girls request it, some a lot more than once, though that was college days and the years that followed close after. if you do it right the first time, and get them off (and there's no reason you can't make that happen), you're well on your way.

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    poppy904 [sign in to see picture]
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    i request it. im only prepared to do it if its something i request. x

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    masterandslave [sign in to see picture]
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    SweetSubmission wrote:

    I'm a girl who asks for it! I have a couple of long term exes who also loved it, so I have been known to forget with new partners that it's not something that's part of everyone's usual repertoire - there have been a few raised eyebrows!

    masterandslave wrote:

    Has anyone orgasmed just through anal play?

    x

    I have done... but my usual playmate is very very good at turning me on with words and power play, so it's as much the filth that he's murmuring in my ear as the anal I suspect. He loves to make me beg for it, nothing makes him happier than knowing he's made such a seemingly respectable girl into an anal slut!

    SS x

    I haven't (yet) but it gets me red hot!!

    x

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    SweetSubmission [sign in to see picture]
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    well I hope you do soon!

    SS xx

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    Vampyrewillow [sign in to see picture]
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    i have requested it since the first time but i didnt request it then because i hadn't been with anyone before so i was a little bit unsure of everything to do with sex (of course i hadn't found this forum then either...)

    but since the first couple of times i have asked for it

    we dont do it often either because he is quite big so if he gets a bit too excited it can quite hurt, and then he gets upset that he's hurt me...

    so it tends to be avoided unless we really fancy it!

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    masterandslave [sign in to see picture]
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    Vampyrewillow wrote:

    i have requested it since the first time but i didnt request it then because i hadn't been with anyone before so i was a little bit unsure of everything to do with sex (of course i hadn't found this forum then either...)

    but since the first couple of times i have asked for it

    we dont do it often either because he is quite big so if he gets a bit too excited it can quite hurt, and then he gets upset that he's hurt me...

    so it tends to be avoided unless we really fancy it!

    You could try a slim vibe or butt plug before you go for it with him? Don't forget to use plenty of lube too!

    x

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    SmoothOne [sign in to see picture]
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    *licks pencil, holds pad expectantly*

    Taking orders....

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    Vampyrewillow [sign in to see picture]
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    masterandslave wrote:

    Vampyrewillow wrote:

    i have requested it since the first time but i didnt request it then because i hadn't been with anyone before so i was a little bit unsure of everything to do with sex (of course i hadn't found this forum then either...)

    but since the first couple of times i have asked for it

    we dont do it often either because he is quite big so if he gets a bit too excited it can quite hurt, and then he gets upset that he's hurt me...

    so it tends to be avoided unless we really fancy it!

    You could try a slim vibe or butt plug before you go for it with him? Don't forget to use plenty of lube too!

    x

    to be honest its not one of the main things we're into but if we do really fancy it we will,

    and of course we use plenty of lube! too much is not enough when it comes to anal :]

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    SEXYGET 69 [sign in to see picture]
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    SmoothOne wrote:

    *licks pencil, holds pad expectantly*

    Taking orders....

    Duck ginger spring onion, fried rice please!

    SG69

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    masterandslave [sign in to see picture]
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    Do you want to bend over?!!

    x

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    SmoothOne [sign in to see picture]
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    masterandslave wrote:

    Do you want to bend over?!!

    x

    SEXYGET 69 wrote:

    SmoothOne wrote:

    *licks pencil, holds pad expectantly*

    Taking orders....

    Duck ginger spring onion, fried rice please!

    SG69

    I don't think you two are treating this thread with the respect it deserves. Can we please show some maturity please.

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    masterandslave [sign in to see picture]
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    *Cracks whip*

    Now get this gimp mask on and get down the Chinese!

    x

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    Little Lady [sign in to see picture]
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    I asked my boyfriend if he'd ever done it and he said no, then asked out of curiousity if he would ever do it with me. He said no again because he isn't into it.

    So no, I don't ask about it. =P

    I know some girls who have though.

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    Schibi [sign in to see picture]
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    One guy kept asking me to try it saying it was essential and he does it with everyone he's slept with and another thinks it is unnatural for straight couples and wont ever do it. Either way I never asked for it and wont ask or do it until i've tested the waters with myself first, I wont rule out asking in the future though.

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    SweetSubmission [sign in to see picture]
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    I bought this,

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=6406

    it's arriving tomorrow ready for my date with my lovely playmate tomorrow night. I think that counts as a request for anal!! Am very very nervous... and very turned on.

    SS xx

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    Wizzie86 [sign in to see picture]
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    I will ask for anal on occasion - sometimes you're just in the mood. With new partners I can see why guys may request anal more than girls. If a guy asks and the girl doesn't want too then I think most girls would brush it off thinking 'typical male' where as I think if guys are asked and they are not that way inclined they can be a bit weird about it. Any girls asked their guy and he's flat out refused? x

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    Lubyanka [sign in to see picture]
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    Wizzie86 wrote:

    [...] Any girls asked their guy and he's flat out refused? x

    Yes, guys have refused to let me penetrate them, but they always come round and are always gratifyingly grateful I noodged them into it. :)

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    SweetSubmission [sign in to see picture]
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    Yup. I was only about twenty at the time. Boy did I feel slutty! He looked at me like I came from outer space! It had been such a regular thing with my previous partner I sort of forgot not everyone thought it was "normal". He was actually so judgemental about it I broke it off.

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    SweetSubmission [sign in to see picture]
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    Ah - I broke the relationship off. I did not break off his penis. One for the "quotes out of context" thread there!! Ooops!

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    shellyboo [sign in to see picture]
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    Nexas wrote:

    LOL And to add to that...

    Has any girl asked a guy if the guy will penetrate them anally and been flat out refused?

    Yes! Apparently it wasn't "natural". He then went on to ask me to pee on him. I was confused to say the least.

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