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  1. Do girls request anal?

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    naughtyboy [sign in to see picture]
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    From my experience anal sex is always requested by the man. How many girls here have requested anal sex from a partner who has not asked for it?

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    shellyboo [sign in to see picture]
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    Meeeeeee! My "dogging" partner's not keen on it so I haven't got it yet :(

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    BBG [sign in to see picture]
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    Usually it's me that brings it up, but I have been with women who are dead keen and plead for it - that's just a total turn-on when they do that

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    crayola [sign in to see picture]
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    I do I do!

    It's usually the bloke that suggests it I must admit, but I've outright asked for it quite a lot too.

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    tallboy247 [sign in to see picture]
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    Mrs T and often !!!

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    I think if I ever do it, it'll be me who initiates it but that's hardly a helpful answer coz I've not actually done it, sorry!

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    miss sparkle [sign in to see picture]
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    I have done - sometimes it is him that asks if he can but other times i ask for it - it was me that bought it uo first in my current relationship!

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    Sexychic [sign in to see picture]
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    I did last night., first time ive ever tried it, I think hubby was in shock weve been together 14yrs and it was oinly a couple of months ago i let him try a finger, im hoping ill relax more next time as it was a tad uncomfy. and im quite sore today. is this normal???

    and will it get easier??

    advice would be much appreciated thanks xxxxxxxxxxx

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    BBG [sign in to see picture]
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    Yes, it gets easier - practice by yourself first with some vibes / dildos and plenty of lube. Get used to progressively larger things, relax, enjoy yourself and then when you're ready, have a hot time with hubby. If you do it right it does not hurt or get sore. Don't ever use desensitising lubes btw - they mask the sensations if you go too far/fast.

    Have fun!

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    Sexychic [sign in to see picture]
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    thanks BBG, do you have any reccomendations on Lube, we didnt use any last night and hubby is quite a big boy I know we must have been mad, the wine helped a bit though lol, and i went on top so i could control the depth etc, i think it was nice but i think concentration took over a bit so heres hoping i can relax a bit next time

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    BBG [sign in to see picture]
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    This works for me

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=480

    or, lovehoney sells special anal lubes but they are usually slightly more expensive. They're a bit thicker usually. I'f you're desperate for more anal before the lube arrives then you can use a thick handcream if you want, but given that you're sore from un-lubed anal (ouch!!!) I'd have a rest for three or four days. Basically, ALWAYS use loads of lube, otherwise you can cause damage.

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    Sexychic [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks BGG as much as i would love to try again i think ill have a few days rest to recover, thanks for the link ill have a look at that one, thanks again youve been a great help x

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    shellyboo [sign in to see picture]
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    Sexychic wrote:

    thanks BBG, do you have any reccomendations on Lube, we didnt use any last night and hubby is quite a big boy I know we must have been mad, the wine helped a bit though lol, and i went on top so i could control the depth etc, i think it was nice but i think concentration took over a bit so heres hoping i can relax a bit next time

    Holy god you're brave... kudos to you Sexychic! I can guarantee it will be a lot less painful/uncomfortable with lube. Lube rules!

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    BBG [sign in to see picture]
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    Any time

    You might want to take a look here for anal lubes:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/store.cfm?cat=36

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    Sexychic [sign in to see picture]
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    hehe thanks Shellyboo, ill defo be investing in some Lube lol,

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    The tracey cox anal lube is good. I use it with my toys.

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    miss sparkle [sign in to see picture]
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    it is only recently that i have started using lube with anal - and it is much better!! before i made sure there was plenty of my juices on my partners before i let them go anywhere near me! i definatley suggest spending the money on some lube tons more fun

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    crayola [sign in to see picture]
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    I very rarely use lube. I've usually found that a lot of anal foreplay generally happens first so it's not uncomfortable. (Tsk- no douching, no lube- I'll be booted out of the anal community soon!)

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    diddlexl [sign in to see picture]
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    My gf has had a bit of a u-turn on the bum fun. As some ppl know me and my gf are long distance and when i first visited her she was a big fan of analingus (i even stuck my finger in her pooper) but this most recent visit shes now against it. Any ideas why?

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    crayola [sign in to see picture]
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    Calling it her pooper is probably the turn off

    Bet shes been talking to unbelievers. Or maybe just because she hasn't had it in a while shes talked herself out of it? Try convince her back into it (although respect her wishes yada yada yada).

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