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  1. Too big?

    Butt fiend [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi all,

    I'm a straight male in a hetro relationship but I love my buttplugs!
    I've worked all the way up from 3.5" circumference to 8.5" which is the max I can take right now.
    I recently ordered and received a 9.5" plug from Lovehoney which I sat on for the first time today and it feels like it'll NEVER go in.
    Feels like it's hitting bone on the way in!
    Will it? Will it not??
    Have I reached the limit with 8.5" ???

    Lovehoney - Jess Wilde [sign in to see picture]
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    GeekyEleanor [sign in to see picture]
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    More lube?

    Stuburns [sign in to see picture]
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    Attack it from a different position.

    NatandTom [sign in to see picture]
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    Did you warm up with smaller plugs prior to trying it? And use enough lube?

    I don't think there's such a thing as being too big, but bigger sizes require more patience, relaxation, preperation and lubrication!

    Phlip [sign in to see picture]
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    It will go in - be patient, relax and use lots of lube. Then you can go for something bigger!!

    Couple looking to spice things up [sign in to see picture]
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    If you're worried it won't go in then that's probably your problem. Follow the above advice and I'm sure you'll have a new limit in no time.

    Mr-Mrs-Sexy [sign in to see picture]
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    dont worry about it will be the first thing, warm up lots before hand slowly working your way up in size to let the muscles get used to it and then with lots of lube it should fit

    Mcbean [sign in to see picture]
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    time, patience, plenty of time to warm up, decent clean out before hand, loads of suitable lube, and practice,

    bunual [sign in to see picture]
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    You may find that your pelvis too narrow for the plug. I have the same problem although I don't know exactly how the bones are oriented. I've found that using more expensive eliptical toys I can go larger than if I use round ones. Alternatively you may find you can take two with a larger diameter than one for the same reason.

    If this is the case then I don't think there is any way around it, that's just how your body is.

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