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  1. How long have you gone without sex?

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    go for it no time to waste we are only here for a short time on this planet have fun

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    Lubyanka [sign in to see picture]
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    bbn wrote:

    Lubyanka wrote:

    tallboy247 wrote:

    Lubyanka wrote:

    Since that was what I wanted, why would I need anything to compensate for that?

    [...] there must have been something, and compensate as in replace!

    [...] I had no need nor want of any special compensation or distractions. I don't eat when I'm not hungry. I wasn't feeling sexual, so therefore I wasn't being sexual. If I'd wanted sex, I'd've had some, simple as that. I didn't, so I didn't. End of story. I find it interesting that you needed this explained.

    If I may make a personal observation, I've noticed that when a person wants something and they persistently don't get it, their desire for whatever it is grows and grows until ultimately, it occupies every waking thought. That state of affairs will continue until that desire is satisfied. [...] You said there must have been something to compensate or replace sex in my life. Why must there have been something like that? Because for you, that's how it would have to be? Ok, that's cool. For me, that statement is not applicable.

    I hope that answered your question.

    Well said - and well written - bbn

    I've only just seen this. Thank you bbn. :)

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    tallboy247 [sign in to see picture]
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    Dear campers,

    The proposals perpetrated by me in these forums should by no menas always be taken as gospel, but are merely my musings on a theme offered in the interests of camper selection. No as straight as you might think at the end of the day xx

    TB

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    xxxxchelzsxxxx [sign in to see picture]
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    6 months but i was pregnant and went off sex!

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    Despina Rose [sign in to see picture]
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    I've been 2 years.

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    Muz333 [sign in to see picture]
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    I seriously doubt I ever went over two weeks since I began!

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    Seduced [sign in to see picture]
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    The longest I went without, I think, Was about a year...

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    Malteser81 [sign in to see picture]
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    4 months I think has been the longest for me. Nowadays I struggle going more than a week and I mean "seriously" struggle =S

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    2 months

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    *Loves not being long distance anymore!*

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    jay2010 [sign in to see picture]
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    4 weeks i think - but worse was 2 weeks of sleepin next to OH every night and havin no sex or masturbation. that was tough!

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    GHxx [sign in to see picture]
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    i think for its about 6 months, had plenty of toy usage tho!!

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    Sunshine2009 [sign in to see picture]
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    Think it was about 6 months but that was years ago now

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    jay2010 wrote:

    4 weeks i think - but worse was 2 weeks of sleepin next to OH every night and havin no sex or masturbation. that was tough!

    How come you werent able to do anything?

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    2 years, for part of that i was married to an alcoholic, and then the nasty divorce and then it took me time to sort my head out and feel like i could trust someone again and feel sexual.

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    DrtyBoy [sign in to see picture]
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    I have gone without for 2 months, that was when my son was born so it wasnt a problem! at the moment its been 5 days and am gagging at the bit.

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    toycar69 [sign in to see picture]
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    ok, I guess the time up till you lose your virginity is out!

    I was basically single from the time I lost my virginity, till I started seeing my wife, so thats from age 18-25. There was a 1 night stand in there somewhere, but I couldn't say when. I guess maybe 5 years straight in there somewhere?

    When I started seeing my wife, we took 6 months before she wanted sex. She always said she didn't believe in sex before marriage, so I'm glad she eventually changed her mind, as that was about 7 years in.

    Since we've been intimate, there have been a few times where for one reason or another we've not been having sex. When she was pregnant, we went 3 months, and then another 2-3 months when the baby was first born.

    We've also gone without for about 6-8 weeks a couple of times over the last few years without a good reason. Mainly stress, or bad moods I guess.

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    2 weeks today .....

    Ok, I know it is not a very long in the grand scheme of things, but for me ; A very tactile, sensual and intimate person, it feels like an eternity ....

    However, at the moment , I understand the reasons why and will just continue to get friendly with my toy collection

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    Pinkilious [sign in to see picture]
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    i think i have only gone 2 months without sex since i was 15 : )

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    wow after reading some of the comments on here i dont feel so bad about going 2months without sex

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