Will defo check the lube stock, as that confirms what I'd expected may be the case early in if not longer term too.
I've had cystocele & rectocele repairs as well, so softer toys are defo a good option for early stages. I am blessed with a caring & sensitive Plaything, so we can always find other fun ways to enjoy our time together if I need to slow things down a bit. It's just a shame the sexual Rehab for folks going through such procedures is so poor and under-acknowledged. It was my bits that were defective- not my brain or sex drive!
Hi WildFlower! Your post made me chuckle as I have to echo your feelings on the first play front. The relief of knowing that I could still orgasm was HUGE! I'm defo planning to take things slow on the AS front, as the repair site is very obvious and I'm not sure how comfortable I will be mentally to put the area under pressure, but the Plaything & I both really enjoy it, so I'm sad to think it could be off the menu.
I think you have all kindly confirmed for me that there is hope, and I just have to listen to my body, with care and loving steps forward. Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts & experiences. EOM600