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  1. Men who view porn in a committed relationship or married.

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    bigbrownblowjobeyes [sign in to see picture]
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    Exactly - I found the porn *because* I was thinking of it and went looking for it.

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    Slave Malcom [sign in to see picture]
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    well said bbbje!

    My OH and I love to sit down and watch a bit of BDSM porn, it helps us come up with new and exciting ideas of things to do! There are so many amatur clips out there anyway as BBBJE states that you can find realsitic stuff of pretty much anything if you are prepared to look through some rubbish for it!

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    Tigerlilies [sign in to see picture]
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    spankmebaby wrote:

    But where is this "good stuff"? by that I mean stuff that doesn't involve a skanky, inflatable looking woman being penetrated in every hole by aggressive men.

    Hi, spankmebaby, earlier in the thread I posted a link ideal for anyone looking for the opposite to this:

    If any mainstream porn haters are a little starved for some good stuff, Violet Blue has written an excellent guide to smart, hot, safe porn that women and couples seem to especially enjoy. She's a writer on the LoveHoney blog roll and many of her books are available here. Plus her site is fantastic.

    http://www.tinynibbles.com/smartporn

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    Ilovemyman [sign in to see picture]
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    spankmebaby wrote:

    But where is this "good stuff"? by that I mean stuff that doesn't involve a skanky, inflatable looking woman being penetrated in every hole by aggressive men.

    I've tried Petra Joy stuff, supposedly porn from a female POV, tbh I found it fairly ridiculous, but maybe that's just me.

    The only thing I've seen that I found in any way a turn on/erotic, was Tristan Taormino's guide to anal - it's very well done imho, even though we're not particularly into anal.

    There is far too much nasty stuff available online for anyone to access, that can't possibly be healthy for young men and women who are almost brainwashed into thinking that anal /ass to mouth/slapping/choking etc. is relatively normal fare , sex should primarily be about enjoyment, not about hurting or humiliating someone. Getting into kinkier / more extreme sex demands total trust and respect, I can't imagine porn shows much of that.

    Just sounds like fun to me!

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    SweetSubmission [sign in to see picture]
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    Well said Loves Huni! Glad you guys have got it so good together!

    SS xx

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    OperationFilth [sign in to see picture]
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    Spankmebaby, for many of us (as theres a decent kink orientated quota here!), good sex does need pain, kink and general filth. Nilla isn't better or more "normal" - but neither's kink. They're just different and as such I'd suggest a kinkster watch kinky porn, a Vanilla sort, nilla porn!

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    OperationFilth [sign in to see picture]
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    Oh and what I actually came into the thread to post (silly me) - I got pissed off when my mr was watching cam shows etc, not only because it was 2-way interaction, but also because I want more sex than I get, I do have a higher sex drive than he does, so for me not to be getting any AND he's jacking off to some bird on a webcam? What's the point? I was definately left questioning a lot of things...

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    bigbrownblowjobeyes [sign in to see picture]
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    Oh hun, you do sound so like me right now. Got to face the situation tonight. I feel slightly sick.

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    *AdamKR* [sign in to see picture]
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    when my wife heads out to a friends or anything some evenings i will put porn on, but mainly because im horny and where she is out and wont be home until late and will just want to sleep when she is in i take my frustration out on a toy and i like to have something to watch during, and each time im watching our homemade videos

    most times i watch porn im watching it with my wife if im honest lol

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    Puppies77 [sign in to see picture]
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    Mr Pups watches porn and i don't have a problem with it, its not like he watching it cos he does'nt want to be with me. We will watch it together and we share pretty much the same taste. Recently we have been finding errotic pictures more of a turn on rather than the vids.

    I must admit i love porn and have been known to watch it alone

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    kaidono [sign in to see picture]
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    I watch porn when: Wife is to exhausted to do anything, she is sick, she and I are working opposite shifts and she is in bed ready to sleep when I get home, our roommate (thank goodness he is moving out today) catches us in our free time and follows us... everywhere.

    My wife excites me and the more intimate we are over a week the more she excites me. My wife stimulates me. Pornography on the other hand does not because I know it's not me having the sex, just my mind imagining I would be turned on.

    Take away porn - man goes to women. Take away a women - man tries to get them back!

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    SweetSubmission [sign in to see picture]
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    My new man is a fan of Alicia Rhodes - she's too fake for my liking, I'm not always convinced she's enjoying herself and I am distracted by her barbie hair, but I love that she's not an emaciated prepubescent type. Makes me believe he really does think my rather silly body is sexiness personified. He's welcome to watch her as much as he likes, but if we're watching together I prefer more natural ladies. And less "performance".

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    masterandslave [sign in to see picture]
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    We tend to watch porn together to warm us both up!

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    solosax [sign in to see picture]
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    my OH knows i watch internet porn occasionally and she thinks i am perverted (though not seriously so).

    if she sees any at all she just says its silly and that "normal" women don't watch porn at all so i don't rub it in her face (pardon the pun). The reason i watch it is cause she went off sex over 2 years ago.

    BTW i find the only porn i do like is free amateur "tube" porn and in particular female masturbation (pref with fingers) and it HAS to have sound.

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    linda2008 [sign in to see picture]
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    we both watch porn together normally girl on girl porn gets up both hot and ready and we also watch it alone..as hubby works away a lot i find nothing better then going to bed putting a nice porn film on getting out my favourite toys and having a good play ,while i tell hubby all about it on the phone xx

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    masterandslave wrote:

    We tend to watch porn together to warm us both up!

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    yea me too or rather us too and it takes ages to watch it till the end weeks cos it don't take long

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    YesChef [sign in to see picture]
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    Men don't watch porn because they're dissatisfied with their partners; they watch porn because they're men. Proof (sort of) : http://www.telegraph.co.uk/relationships/6709646/All-men-watch-porn-scientists-find.html

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    Bear1 [sign in to see picture]
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    I've looked, but like what I have at home......That's real, not silconed, and is warm.........She's real!!!

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    pusseypleaser [sign in to see picture]
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    I belieev that a man or woman watching porn means that they are cheating on their partner as their passions and thoughts are on this other person and not their partner.

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    CurlyCoupleWife [sign in to see picture]
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    pusseypleaser wrote:

    I belieev that a man or woman watching porn means that they are cheating on their partner as their passions and thoughts are on this other person and not their partner.

    I can see where you're coming from but I disagree. I think if someone has agreed not to use porn then does, they're betraying their partner's trust.

    However the majority of the time I would say that people don't invest their thought or passion into porn - no more than viewing nudes in an art gallery - it's just something pleasant & titillating to look at.

    My husband & I watch porn together & apart from one another & neither of us feel cheated by it.

    Out of interest, do you view masturbation or fantasies as cheating too?

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