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    Kazamrie might I suggest you start with a couple of speculum. Clear ones re best and very visual. If your guy is really into you pussy then this shows it of in the most erotic way whilst getting you used to being stretched open and exposed.

    The joy of speculums is they can be open very slowly so you get used to the sensation and they have been medically designed to open up your vagina perfectly..

    From a guys point of view the never before seen soft pink and wet inner folds of a woman's vagina is stunning , very arousing indeed..

    If you choose a Collins speculum this opens sideways so it exposes your cervix , A & G spots, the meateus of the vaginal roof, your ureathral opening and the clit is very exposed as it draws back the hood whilst holding the vaginal lips open wide.

    Its all far less daunting then the uncertainty of an over excited partner trying to fist you right away. I feel sure he will be blown away with the beautifully erotic view of an opened vagina.

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16485

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    lovingnewtoys [sign in to see picture]
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    Kazamarie wrote:

    Whoop whoop whoop I've done it 😆😆😆😆😆 i finally let go and didn't worry. One happy woman I think the whole street probably heard ha ha ha oh well whoop whoop x

    GG - I think she beat you to it xxxx

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    Oops yer OK many congratulations

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    Gentle giant wrote:

    Kazamrie might I suggest you start with a couple of speculum. Clear ones re best and very visual. If your guy is really into you pussy then this shows it of in the most erotic way whilst getting you used to being stretched open and exposed.

    The joy of speculums is they can be open very slowly so you get used to the sensation and they have been medically designed to open up your vagina perfectly..

    From a guys point of view the never before seen soft pink and wet inner folds of a woman's vagina is stunning , very arousing indeed..

    If you choose a Collins speculum this opens sideways so it exposes your cervix , A & G spots, the meateus of the vaginal roof, your ureathral opening and the clit is very exposed as it draws back the hood whilst holding the vaginal lips open wide.

    Its all far less daunting then the uncertainty of an over excited partner trying to fist you right away. I feel sure he will be blown away with the beautifully erotic view of an opened vagina.

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16485

    You are quite correct we've got 3(speculum) I like playing with also a torch helps once fully open there's lots you can poke rub lick finger etc provided your partner is okay with it all, wide open and creamy? yum.
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    Quiet ones are worse! wrote:

    Gentle giant wrote:

    Kazamrie might I suggest you start with a couple of speculum. Clear ones re best and very visual. If your guy is really into you pussy then this shows it of in the most erotic way whilst getting you used to being stretched open and exposed.

    The joy of speculums is they can be open very slowly so you get used to the sensation and they have been medically designed to open up your vagina perfectly..

    From a guys point of view the never before seen soft pink and wet inner folds of a woman's vagina is stunning , very arousing indeed..

    If you choose a Collins speculum this opens sideways so it exposes your cervix , A & G spots, the meateus of the vaginal roof, your ureathral opening and the clit is very exposed as it draws back the hood whilst holding the vaginal lips open wide.

    Its all far less daunting then the uncertainty of an over excited partner trying to fist you right away. I feel sure he will be blown away with the beautifully erotic view of an opened vagina.

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16485

    You are quite correct we've got 3(speculum) I like playing with also a torch helps once fully open there's lots you can poke rub lick finger etc provided your partner is okay with it all, wide open and creamy? yum.

    Headlamp gives you both hands free but I still just find myself starring

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    Fisting is something i would love to try with my OH. I have been close but just couldnt get my thumb in. I find the idea quite a turn on.

    Will have a read of the link in the start of this topic.

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    Daunts me tbh but if was something oh wanted to do i would definitely give it a go....although think would need lots or lube or to be dripping wet to attempt. Kinda worried if would be painful, but not averse to trying always talk through things with oh. And tbh we have a very frank relationship we tell each other a lot & theres not many things I'd be a blunt no on. Think half the fun is the trying new things together...so we'll see if it happens

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    Hopelessly Horny wrote:

    Daunts me tbh but if was something oh wanted to do i would definitely give it a go....although think would need lots or lube or to be dripping wet to attempt. Kinda worried if would be painful, but not averse to trying always talk through things with oh. And tbh we have a very frank relationship we tell each other a lot & theres not many things I'd be a blunt no on. Think half the fun is the trying new things together...so we'll see if it happens

    Its wonderfull to hear people trying new things together.

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    A few fingers is enough for me! A fist just seems so brutal! Turns my stomach even scanning past it in porn... Has a real disrespect feel for me and not sexy at all! Just my opinion though!

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    Just thought my video on the subject might help 😊

    Fisting: How to Fist - The Do's and Don'ts.

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    My wife anally fisted me last night past her wrist is was quite an experience with her latex fisting gloves on, have to admit I'm used to some very large butt plugs so was not an issue still thinking on the two hands front, give it a try? But go slow and talk, and Don't expect results frost time.

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    Well done Kazemarie for not giving up. Now you are no longer a fisting virgin. Truely inspirational! Let us know how you progress with this so others who may be thinking about it can follow your advice..

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    Here's a book you can read. Then you can decide for yourself if it is for you.
    A hand in the Bush: The Fine Art of Vaginal Fisting is a 1998 book by Deborah Addington about the sexual practice of inserting a fist into a vagina. It reached number four on Amazon's "Hot 100" sales chart in February 2000.

    The book dispels myths and discusses it plainly and openly (no pun intended) . It says that the word 'fisting' conjures up a violent act, when in fact it should be a personal, loving and thoroughly enjoyable sane, safe and consensual practice.

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