• How old are you and is your sex life improving with age?

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    Tigerlilies [sign in to see picture]
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    22 and it's getting better every day. It's all about confidence, being an enthusiastic pupil and passing on what you learn ;)

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    Mushy [sign in to see picture]
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    I think as you get older you start to realise that life is too short and all those inhibitions you may have had in your early days (such as trying anal etc) go out of the window.

    I like many others thought sex was about a few varied positions of the bog standard missionary and the thought of using toys etc and pleasuring for the sake of pleasuring was for others and not us. We seemed happy in out ignorance and so for that there was no real problem.

    It was only as we started to get past the child bearing and looking after stage that our sex life improved dramatically, when this started i cannot pinpoint as it was a gradual awakening.

    As a man of a certain age (am not telling) I can tell you that your libido does wain a little (remember in our teans we could wank all day!) but that does not stop you doing what you have to do, the plus side for this is that the days of coming in your pants are just about over (well nearly), this means that OH gets a little more action and hence hopefully more pleasure.

    Obvioulsy the key to all of this is who you are with, if you are with someone where all subjects are open for at least discussion and you are not called a dirty pervert for suggesting you want to watch a bit of porn then all well and good. I am very lucky, my partner(why do I hate that word?) and I are very open in the bedroom, this is based on all round trust and no subjects are a taboo, although this does not mean we do everything!

    Look forward and not back is my motto, have no regrets about what you have done or not done but try to enjoy those days and nights as much as you can.

    pretend every fuck is your last fuck................

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    Gyrator53 [sign in to see picture]
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    There is no doubt 40 was a big turning point for us. The "life is not a rehersal" and "in old age we only regret what he haven't done" ideas started to hit home on all fronts so, having both had excessively well-spent teens, twenties and thirties we started to try anything we fancied and have a lot more sex.

    50 was a reminder to keep this going.

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    Puppies77 [sign in to see picture]
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    Im 32 and have been with my hubby for 10yrs in march. The sex was good from the start but its just got better and better as time has gone by.

    I do struggle with self confidence but he makes me feel special and i totaly forget all those issues when we are together. We know each oter inside out and find it easy to say what we like.

    I have aalways been interested in a bit of pain and when I spoke to him about it after seeing things on these forums. He wasn't freaked out like I expected but said we could try whatever I wanted.

    We are very open with each other and I think that comes from being with someone for so long. Just imagine how wild we will be in our 60's :D

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    45 this year and yes sex has got so much better since I was 40.

    A lot of it has to do with the fact that as I've got older I'm not quite so trigger happy - sometimes quite the reverse, but it makes sex SOOOOOOOOO much better.

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    Sam66 wrote:

    45 this year and yes sex has got so much better since I was 40.

    A lot of it has to do with the fact that as I've got older I'm not quite so trigger happy - sometimes quite the reverse, but it makes sex SOOOOOOOOO much better.

    Trigger happy god yes been there, usually just after l had entwined me leg round her thigh and flicked her knickers off with my foot, left or right while nibbling her nipples between my teeth, and squashing the aforementioned between teeth and tongue!! if you get my drift.... her glorious ass all the time displayed in the mirror of the wardrobe door!!!

    TB

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    Leeo [sign in to see picture]
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    What is sex????????????????

    been that long, the sunday before christmas last time i had owt

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    Sam66 [sign in to see picture]
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    tallboy247 wrote:

    Sam66 wrote:

    45 this year and yes sex has got so much better since I was 40.

    A lot of it has to do with the fact that as I've got older I'm not quite so trigger happy - sometimes quite the reverse, but it makes sex SOOOOOOOOO much better.

    Trigger happy god yes been there, usually just after l had entwined me leg round her thigh and flicked her knickers off with my foot, left or right while nibbling her nipples between my teeth, and squashing the aforementioned between teeth and tongue!! if you get my drift.... her glorious ass all the time displayed in the mirror of the wardrobe door!!!

    TB

    Blimey I'd still be trigger happy if I was doing that all the time!

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    SEXYGET 69 [sign in to see picture]
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    I was thinking. . . . .

    Yoda's sex life must be fucking brilliant!

    SG69

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    Puppies77 [sign in to see picture]
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    SEXYGET 69 wrote:

    I was thinking. . . . .

    Yoda's sex life must be fucking brilliant!

    SG69

    *shouts to the OH who is Yoda*

    Be good to be still going wouldn't it :D

    I could keep him under my skirt lol

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    im just past 47, and feeling very naughty every day, feel like i am 25

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    Im old this year - 30 in July. :(

    However Im getting more and more confident sexually. This is parallel to body insecurities due to age, baby, life, weight changes, etc

    It's true that women are complex!

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    I'm 51 & OH is 66, so reckon I'm one of the'golden oldies'!!!

    BUT I'm definitely getting hornier ;) We make love 1-4 times a week, but I play solo almost every day :)

    None of my toys get me off though - so made a wishlist & deciding which to buy first - when we've recovered from Christmas...

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    SnowyOwl wrote:

    I'm 51 & OH is 66, so reckon I'm one of the'golden oldies'!!!

    BUT I'm definitely getting hornier ;) We make love 1-4 times a week, but I play solo almost every day :)

    None of my toys get me off though - so made a wishlist & deciding which to buy first - when we've recovered from Christmas...

    :) I hope me and my fella are like this when we're in our 50's.

    Welcome to the forums SnowyOwl!

    Good luck with the toy shopping.

    Ax

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    SEXYGET 69 [sign in to see picture]
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    I was 41 yesterday and the sex was much better than when I was 40 the day before ;-)

    So yes It is improving all the time! Lol

    SG69 x

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    I would prefer to say with time....

    Age is irrelevant, plenty of people have amazing sex at 20 others at 69, I guess its when you begin to relax properly, experiment and become comfortable enough, I feel I have a head start with AdnaW, she pays attention and enjoys experimenting. Some people take time to find a sexually compatible person and their age doesn't matter.

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    well ive already answeard this before but something i have noticed is, that since me and my OH have said we both feel ready to live togther and wanting to get a place asap

    weve had loads and really great sex and i also feel like were more closer and our love for each other has sort of deepend?

    so is it not age but maybe milestones in relationships make for great sex?

    :S

    Dx

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    WandA [sign in to see picture]
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    Hello D!

    Yeah, that might be a point! Who doesn't love rounding off important times with a good session!

    We recently had a good 'End of exam' celebration... any excuse ey?

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    SEXYGET 69 [sign in to see picture]
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    Oh shit! It's my mothers birthday soon! :-s
    SG69

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    SEXYGET 69 wrote:

    Oh shit! It's my mothers birthday soon! :-s
    SG69

    Present from LH maybe? Haha! :P

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