• Are vaginal and g-spot orgasms different?

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    Foxxy [sign in to see picture]
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    Haha! I don't suppose it really matters as long as it feels good does it! :-)

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    Kimberleyking [sign in to see picture]
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    From my experience i have had the folowing:

    Clitoral orgasm (clitoral orgasm ends with vaginal contractions)

    Vaginal orgasm(orgasm during sex not stimulation the g spot)

    G spot orgasm(during sex or masturbation often ends in ejaculation)

    Anal orgasm(i once had orgasms during being fingered i have also had them using a plug)

    Blended orgasm (can be both g spot and clit or anal and vaginal or anal and clit etc)

    nipple stimulation orgasm( stimulating my nipples makes me hve a vaginal orgasm very rarely happens but it has)

    That is just from my experience nothing technical about it really.

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    Katie T [sign in to see picture]
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    What about anal orgasm ?

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    popk1n [sign in to see picture]
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    Im going to have even more time playing around with my body now I know this knowledge :)

    What does an anal orgasm feel like? Like is it contractions? Ive never felt anything close to an orgasm up there :/

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    LeilaK [sign in to see picture]
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    I didn't want to start a new thread so just posted in this one. I think I may have had a G-spot orgasm today, but I'm not sure as it felt similar to a clitoral one. I was using my glass dildo, and did not stimulate my clit, but I had my finger on it. Does anyone know if you can have a clitoral orgasm through stimulating the G-spot?

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    Lil_Red_Kinkyboots [sign in to see picture]
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    First things first when I squirt it can be from vaginal penetration or clit. The squirt happens a few seconds before orgasming (for me anyway). As for vaginal orgasm I get different strengths, sometimes really strong and other times barely there. I think this is down to where you are receiving most friction, g spot or deeper in or shallower. I would then say they are all vaginal orgasms just achieved from wherever the friction has been concentrated. We are confusing though 😊

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    Anal orgasm feels to me like it starts in the lower back but I orgasm in my vagina from anal but it feels deeper than a vaginal orgasm. It is so difficult to explain 😔

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    Lil_Red_Kinkyboots [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi leilaK sounds like a g spot to me but our clits are inside our bodies as well so yes they can be stimulated from the inside.

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    Andy/Jul [sign in to see picture]
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    Im now lost ....A ..G...join the dots and hey presto ...Orgasm must program the satnav from now on

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    I love A-spot orgasms the most, they are the most profound, divine out of this world experience and it can go on for a long time, easily half an hour or more. They always leave me feeling profoundly satisfied and somehow deeply touched and connected.

    Clitoris orgasms are a bit harder to control, they can be explosive if I'm not careful and then they leave me over sensitive and more or less wanting to roll over and fall asleep. Plus they only last a few seconds.
    When I do manage to relax and not hunt the orgasm so much, but just enjoy the sensations and feeling of intimacy and togetherness, then clitoral orgasms can be multiple. I once had 30 orgasms or so in 20 minutes. But they were still quite localized to the genital area and not whole body as such, even if they made my toes twitch, it didn't feel like my entire body was orgasming nor did they touch me in any profound way.

    I didn't experience a g-spot orgasm alone, but blended clitoris/g-spot is amazing and again something that can turn into multiples fairly easy. They are kind of a middle type for me, much more pleasurable than clitoral orgasms alone, not quite as profound as A-spot.

    U-spot orgasms feel the most playful to me, very bubbly and light and they either make me want to laugh or meditate.

    Nipple orgasms I only had a few times, but they feel very connected somehow to the deep A-spot orgasms. When my nipples are stimulated enough I suddenly become very aware of my cervix and also it feels support loving and nurturing.

    Anal orgasms I still haven't experienced, they are on my to do list :-D

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    leroylapaboy [sign in to see picture]
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    Foxxy wrote:

    It is totally possible to have a vaginal orgasm that isn't a G-Spot orgasm, by stimulating the A-Spot or AFE zone. You need deep penetration to climax from A-Spot stimulation, and if you've climaxed from penetration and it wasn't down to your G-Spot, there's your answer!
    The whole G/A/U Spot talk is confusing isn't it! Lol

    Also known as a deep spot orgasm. You can do it manually to your partner, if you have longish fingers and you can reach back and up past the g spot, and up where the pubic bone is. Completely different sensation to the g spot orgasm apparently. More like a whole body orgasm. Lots of foreplay and a couple of clitoral orgasms helped with this.
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    so to add fuel to this lovely fire I never squirted until I got good with my wand and orgasmed clit only.

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    I have clitoral orgasms and blended orgasms - at least that's what it feels like, when I have something inside me on my g spot and something on my clit. It's a different feeling to a clitoral orgasm where I throb afterwards, it feels deeper, like it's coming from deep inside me.

    I've not experience an orgasm from anal alone but I do love the feeling!

    And I still haven't been able to squirt, but whether it happens or not I'm having a flipping good time practising 😜

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    Vanessa8 wrote:

    so to add fuel to this lovely fire I never squirted until I got good with my wand and orgasmed clit only.

    I'm the same and when it first happened, I was very surrised that I could squirt without g-spot stimulation. I've been practicing with my first glass dildo to see if I can get a vaginal (g-spot) orgasm, but so far no success. Years and years trying, but I just orgasm through clitoris. Having said that< I'm happy because these orgasms are amazing.

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    Great thread. My Wife is not very adventurous and im struggling to get her to look on the LH website, I think some of these of these forum chats would help give her more confidence. She can easily have nipplegasms, but doesn't find that orgasm that satisfying. She usually gets me to stop and move to her clit. In all our time together she has only had one orgasm through intercourse and that was so long ago...... We have recently been opening up to each other in discussing sex and she has been discussing the idea of g spot orgasms with me; she has been using toys solo (g spot vibe and a curved glass dildo), but no success. Having read up on g spot orgasms I have managed to use my fingers twice successfully for her, but more often than not she tells me to stop and just focus on her clit. She has told me that the g spot orgasm felt more "forced out" than her clit orgasm, is that my technique or is that the feeling that others get ? I've been encouraging her to talk more, guide me more when I'm pleasuring her. She says that I just do a great job so why does she need to speak. After 36 years I've learnt though trial and error, too much error for my liking, makes me feel bad.

    I think I may have hijacked this thread, so it's okay if no one wants to respond, but I would really appreciate some female advice on g spot or vaginal orgasms and how to proceed. Advice for my Wife either solo or with me and advice for me to support help my Wife achieve these orgasms more reliably.

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    Lu SB [sign in to see picture]
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    More Sexy at 50 wrote:

    Great thread. My Wife is not very adventurous and im struggling to get her to look on the LH website, I think some of these of these forum chats would help give her more confidence. She can easily have nipplegasms, but doesn't find that orgasm that satisfying. She usually gets me to stop and move to her clit. In all our time together she has only had one orgasm through intercourse and that was so long ago...... We have recently been opening up to each other in discussing sex and she has been discussing the idea of g spot orgasms with me; she has been using toys solo (g spot vibe and a curved glass dildo), but no success. Having read up on g spot orgasms I have managed to use my fingers twice successfully for her, but more often than not she tells me to stop and just focus on her clit. She has told me that the g spot orgasm felt more "forced out" than her clit orgasm, is that my technique or is that the feeling that others get ? I've been encouraging her to talk more, guide me more when I'm pleasuring her. She says that I just do a great job so why does she need to speak. After 36 years I've learnt though trial and error, too much error for my liking, makes me feel bad.

    I think I may have hijacked this thread, so it's okay if no one wants to respond, but I would really appreciate some female advice on g spot or vaginal orgasms and how to proceed. Advice for my Wife either solo or with me and advice for me to support help my Wife achieve these orgasms more reliably.

    Hi MSat50, I reckon I understand what your wife means by "forced out" because when I explore my g-spot to try to achieve a vaginal orgasm, I enjoy the feeling, but when I get past that point of stopping the urge to wee and nothing happens, I feel like it's not point forcing something that's not gonna happen. It's like several ladies mentioned on this thread, womens body are so different, wonderful and full of misteries.

    As a woman I'd feel wonderful if I achieved a vaginal (g-spot) orgasm not only because of the amazing feeling described by others, but mainly because of the fact that it means I understand how my body works and what I can do to give it what it needs. But perhaps it's ok to accept the fact that some women are not able to orgasm through this way and there's nothing really wrong with that.

    If you think about the fact that some women spend their entire lives faking an orgasm, lying to their OH and fto themselves and feeling frustrated because they never achieved a real, powerful orgasm, your wife, me and others out there are lucky because at least we are able to have a clit orgasm and that's my friend it's absolutely amazing. As much as I want a vaginal one, I'm so happy and grateful that my clit is able to take me to heaven and back. So enjoy what you have with your wife and by all means keep exploring to make your sex lives always more fullfilling, but be grateful for what you've achieved so far. Good luck!

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    More Sexy at 50 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi LuSB, thanks for the comments. You are right, what we have already is great and works well for her. In fact it works well for me as I know how she responds, I've had a lot of practice over the years 😀

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