What is the appeal of squirting?

i'm rather meh towards squirting it has happened to me before when i least expected it to it's not something i go out of my way to achieve if it happens it happens if it doesn't it doesn't

Thanks for all your imput!

VirginAngel wrote:

Personally, since i'm in the "it's definitely pee" camp, i don't find it appealing at all, infact, i'm terrfied of it happening to me by accident and it would be the worst thing that could happen.

It's chemically very different to urine, though. To make the fluid urine it needs to contain urea and creatinine, female ejaculate lacks either and is more alkaline, containing fructose, glucose and prostate specific antigens. It also lacks the colour, odour and taste of urine - while she hasn't squirted, I can personally attest this to be the case of the missus' gush fluid.

This doesn't mean that a squirt/gush is not very dilute urine, or doesn't contain any urine, etc. But there is a definite distiction between both fluids, even if they can still blur/mix during excretion in some cases.

I love to squirt. Sometimes it can happen when I play with my toys, but the best ones are where my husband is giving me oral whilst rubbing my G spot........wet sheets a plenty 😊😊😊

Eager-2-Please wrote:

VirginAngel wrote:

Personally, since i'm in the "it's definitely pee" camp, i don't find it appealing at all, infact, i'm terrfied of it happening to me by accident and it would be the worst thing that could happen.

It's chemically very different to urine, though. To make the fluid urine it needs to contain urea and creatinine, female ejaculate lacks either and is more alkaline, containing fructose, glucose and prostate specific antigens. It also lacks the colour, odour and taste of urine - while she hasn't squirted, I can personally attest this to be the case of the missus' gush fluid.

This doesn't mean that a squirt/gush is not very dilute urine, or doesn't contain any urine, etc. But there is a definite distiction between both fluids, even if they can still blur/mix during excretion in some cases.

It depends on the studies you've looked at. Personally the one who used ultrasound to view the bladders and found them empty to start, full just before orgasm/squirting (even after just 25 minutes since using the toilet), and empty imediately after, is the one i find most convincing. They're now testing the theory that sexual arousal and stimulation causes the bladder to go into overdrive and fill much faster. This would make it much more dilute, explaining why it doesn't have the colour or smell of typical urine and much lower levels of urea and creatine. Since it would be less filtered it would also explain the presence of sugars, like how a diabetic has sugars in the urine as they don't filter it properly as they urinate much more often.
I have a medical condition, for which the condition and medication mean i only urinate once aday, very close to 24 hours apart with little fluctuation, yet on days following masturbation, i always need to urinate again after 8-12 hours, i made a thread myself a few months back if nyone else noticed much sooner urination after sexual stimulation but the average person doesn't really track it. That study has made complete sense that explains everything imo, other studies i've looked at either find just urine or say the fluid was "chemically different" to typical urine, but the overdrive bladder filling would explain that difference to typical urine, while still just being urine and the fluid coming from the bladder. The study did say a few of the samples contained a small amount of milky white fluid that was female equivalent ejaculate, but that was mixed in with the urine and that squirting its self isn't ejaculate but both can happen together. True female ejaculate is similar in consistency and ammount to male ejaculate, plenty of women produce it without squirting, because its a different thing. The fact it requires intense g spot stimulation and causes a need to pee feeling is another reason i believe it to be urine. Putting internal pressure on the bladder will make you feel the need to urinate, similar to urge incontinence, if you ignore it, just like when you do need to urinate or have bladder spasms associated with urge incontinence you will involuntarily urinate.

We clearly aren't going to change each others minds, and there's no saying which of us is right or wrong as even scientists doing studies don't agree. There is no proven answer, but we both have our own beliefs, and mine is that squirting is a form of urinary incontinence.

Further to my post yesterday, my wife has asked me to bring up the subject of high emotion during and after squirting. She always without question gets very emotional and cries during and after squirting. Also the sensations are so strong for her that she has a whole body orgasm. For her its physically emotionally and mentally amazing yet exhausting, but for me the actual visual experience of her squirting is awesome and makes my feel like a sex god lol. Funnily enough we have no trouble sleeping afterwards. Do any of you squirters out there experience these same emotions?

When the misses squirts I absolutely love it, apart from making me feel like a stallion in the bedroom, I love how messy it gets. Makes me so much harder when she's juicing for me! Squirtings not as easy as us men would like but with a bit of practice and good technique you can have yourself in the power position in no time and can quite easily have it on tap, literally!

kinkytaffs wrote:

Further to my post yesterday, my wife has asked me to bring up the subject of high emotion during and after squirting. She always without question gets very emotional and cries during and after squirting. Also the sensations are so strong for her that she has a whole body orgasm. For her its physically emotionally and mentally amazing yet exhausting, but for me the actual visual experience of her squirting is awesome and makes my feel like a sex god lol. Funnily enough we have no trouble sleeping afterwards. Do any of you squirters out there experience these same emotions?

After reading this it reminded me that I almost hug the life out of my o/h after I have squirted but after the exhustion I fall asleep within minutes. He usually has to take the wet stuff downstrairs and throw covers over me as I get very cold even in summer.

Sinner wrote:

Some of you are saying; "I'm trying to teach the OH to squirt" Is it really something you can be taught? I'd never heard of it until I joined this community, and whilst I find the idea intriguing I'm not sure that I'd like someone to try to teach me how to do it simply because they would like to see it. To me that feels like pressure to perform and come up to someone else's ideals...bit like someone saying "here, I want to teach you how to do anal." May be possible. but surely ought to be my choice!

I think what most of us are saying is our o/h are helping us to "learn" how to squirt just like you learn how to have anal you don't just jump in without both learning how to do it.

But yes you can be taught or learn how to squirt to answer your question.

I absolutely love it when girls squirt! After a lot of practice my girlfriend can a bit and i find with the majority of girls ive been with they find it embarrasing.

GIRLS! to this date i havent spoken to one guy who hasnt said he loves when a girl squirts! so if you feel it just relax and let it happen i promise you he will love it if not think hes done something amazing in bed!

Hope this helps!

For me in the lead up to squirting my orgasms get more and more intense, and when I squirt it's like a big release, and feels amazing.

After squirting I can continue cumming until I squirt again, and generally carry on until I can squirt no more. Usually my legs get very shaky in the lead up to squirting.

When I've finished squirting I usually feel very tired lol, and very relaxed. For me the whole experience is like nothing else and I really enjoy it.

Nicely.explained deliah.... shaky legs the whole thing down to exhaustion and running dry when theres frustratingly no squirt left. ;)

Personally, being able to be part of something like your partner squirting / gushing etc, is the biggest turn on for me.

I think it's the sexiest and most awesome thing to happen in any sex / play

It took my husband nearly 8 years to get me to let go and relax enough to squirt and now that I have, it happens all the time. The feeling is overwhelming and much more than a 'normal' orgasm. It is the most intense feeling that lasts for ages before subsiding and makes me feel physically exhausted. I am completely incoherent and shout out all sorts of things which my husband finds hilarious but then the sex after is mind blowing because my body is still super sensitive and like others have said I get horny a lot more often because I just want hubby again and again. People who say they don't understand what the fuss is about should relax and see if it happens for them because once you've done it, you'll want to do it all the time

As j&m86 says above it took a long long time for us to manage to get to squirting (not through lack of trying) but once she relaxed and went with the flow I couldn't believe how horny she was and how much pleasure she got from it.

From a male point of view it is quite possibly the sexiest thing in the world to see your wife/partner writhing with pleasure and moaning the house down then to see the release. Squirting itself is such a turn on for me. A hot thing to see and proof that you have been able to please your woman.it really is the icing on the cake.

For us if she squirts we know we are well on our way to a g spot orgasm too. Such a turn on just thinking about it!

Okay just asked Mr he said because I enjoy it and he gets to see that I am pleasure probably much to do with the fact women ca easily fake and orgasm :/

For me as a man getting my wife to squirt is about making her feel so intensely satisfied that her body just quivers and explodes with pleasure. Nothing better than making a woman truly feel overwhelmingly satisfied.

It's the Holy Grail for us, I see it as the ultimate expression of the female orgasm.

My OH has come so close a few times, but is scared of letting go, if she can just get past that peeing feeling then I think it would happen.

i squirt happened once i learned to stop that 'gonna pee' feelin. As for gushing, not sure how i manage that lol

I'm a serial squirter, took my ex years to achieve it and could only do it with fingers.

fastword to a year being single I can now achieve a squirting orgasm solo, and with my Italian lover he pretty much has me gushing throughout our sex together, it's intense and exhausting but leaves me very satisfied.

it does make you horny as you do want to experience the sensation over and over, but I found once I'd identified my switch it became second nature,

my guy absolutely loves it, yes it can get messy but he sure as hell gets hornier from it.