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  1. Is your OH as horny as you?

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    LokiDay [sign in to see picture]
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    My boy and I seem to alternate who has the stress-caused low sex drive to the near second.

    Current arrangement is that I'm the horny little bastard and he's trying to focus on Uni work.

    Naturally, the moment he starts getting his back I'll have a family emergency or something equally ill-timed.

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    Mistress D [sign in to see picture]
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    Not a chance, i live for sex, it consumes me 24/7. X

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    toycar69 [sign in to see picture]
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    I find myself getting more and more interested in sex the longer I've been on the LH forum.

    Its one of the great ironies, that somewhere I came to find ideas to make her more interested in sex, is having that effect on me, but not her.

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    Mistress D [sign in to see picture]
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    toycar69 wrote:

    I find myself getting more and more interested in sex the longer I've been on the LH forum.

    Its one of the great ironies, that somewhere I came to find ideas to make her more interested in sex, is having that effect on me, but not her.

    Oh nevermind. Think of the nice people your meeting, think of the fun your starting to have.

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    toycar69 [sign in to see picture]
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    Yes, lots of nice people here. Sometimes I think I like the naughty people too though!

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    JonnyBeBad [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm horny 24/7 my OH on the other hand, is never horny, but she just came off the pill, hopefully her sex drive will come back, she used to be horny when we first met : (

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    lurve it. [sign in to see picture]
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    yeah im quite lucky that we both have very high sex drives. x

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    Dirty Red Angel [sign in to see picture]
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    We're not evenly matched but my sex drive seems to be really dipping - I knew it wasn't going to last.

    Oh well!

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    boobaloo [sign in to see picture]
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    Most of the time we both have really high sex drives, but sometimes with work and kids one or the other of us can be tired and that does put a downer on things. Doesnt normally last to long tho we are both very persuasive at times

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    1976male [sign in to see picture]
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    Definately not!

    she'd rather go to bed after the kids have and read a chuffin book!

    hence I'm hear reading all these very intresting topics :)

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    ju [sign in to see picture]
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    i think me and my OH are really lucky. took some work and had a few bad spells- but mostly we're in tune. a lot of the stuff that gets us tired or down, is family stuff and has a similar effect on both of us at the same time. tend to share our tasks etc. i get really horny mid-cycle and go off it a week or so later- he never says "no" though- and never pesters, so i think we're OK.

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    Mr Monster [sign in to see picture]
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    mrwall wrote:

    Definately not!

    she'd rather go to bed after the kids have and read a chuffin book!

    hence I'm hear reading all these very intresting topics :)

    That sounds familiar! Have you tried getting her to read erotic fiction?

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    ju [sign in to see picture]
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    Mr Monster wrote:

    mrwall wrote:

    Definately not!

    she'd rather go to bed after the kids have and read a chuffin book!

    hence I'm hear reading all these very intresting topics :)

    That sounds familiar! Have you tried getting her to read erotic fiction?

    or write it...... writing erotic gets me every time

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    ju [sign in to see picture]
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    Mr Monster wrote:

    mrwall wrote:

    Definately not!

    she'd rather go to bed after the kids have and read a chuffin book!

    hence I'm hear reading all these very intresting topics :)

    That sounds familiar! Have you tried getting her to read erotic fiction?

    or write it...... writing erotic gets me every time

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    mrs.soft [sign in to see picture]
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    we r pretty much matched!!!!!!!

    i also get the love honey horn lookin at all the huge dildos mmmmmmmm

    i usually end up playing the whole time!!!

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    *Emma* [sign in to see picture]
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    Pretty much similar i think although id say im more horny. I tend to initiate all the time. Im known as a nymph by a fair few friends and family and i dont deny it. Never used to be but i love my man to bits and like to please. Pleasing him pleases me so its good all round lol x

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    sharry [sign in to see picture]
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    ju wrote:

    i think me and my OH are really lucky. took some work and had a few bad spells- but mostly we're in tune. a lot of the stuff that gets us tired or down, is family stuff and has a similar effect on both of us at the same time. tend to share our tasks etc. i get really horny mid-cycle and go off it a week or so later- he never says "no" though- and never pesters, so i think we're OK.

    Exactly the same for us!

    Mid cycle I can't seem to get enough, poor man must dread coming home!

    I think I wore him out last week

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    1976male [sign in to see picture]
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    my other half seems to be happy with one session a month :(

    sex is really good but so infrequent, I had to go abroad to the thailand a few weeks ago (first time I had been away since we got together 13 years) barely got a kiss when I got back but thats because she did'nt want me to go, had been back 2 weeks before we had sex ater that.

    love her to bits but the sex is something to be desired!!

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    should of shagged your self rotten in thailand then

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    1976male [sign in to see picture]
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    LOL, was a serious family matter so last thing on my mind but yes perhaps I should have!

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