• Is your OH as horny as you?

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    xxxxchelzsxxxx [sign in to see picture]
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    keeping up even x

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    tronic [sign in to see picture]
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    Mine's through the roof apart from the odd few days when it disappears for whatever reason. sadly, OH is not very well at the mo and hers has given up the ghost it seems. Months can pass with no interest from her dear self whatsoever. I have been investing in a collection of peripherals to help pass the time for now, which is partially working! It's not the same though, feeling rejected and so on takes its toll.

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    timid-adventurer [sign in to see picture]
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    I *think* my OH's is the same... he's always up for it when I want it (a lot...) but I always have to initiate. God knows why! I've asked him and he just says he prefers it that way. I do wish he'd just grab me one day and take me to bed with urgency. But I guess you can't change a person!

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    timid-adventurer wrote:

    I *think* my OH's is the same... he's always up for it when I want it (a lot...) but I always have to initiate. God knows why! I've asked him and he just says he prefers it that way. I do wish he'd just grab me one day and take me to bed with urgency. But I guess you can't change a person!

    I am sometimes like that with the OH, I'd say it was 65% me, 35% him. But I dont mind really as long as he doesnt expect me to me on top for too long if at all.

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    I think we're evenly matched,

    i go to college five days a week and then placement four days a week, then college, placement etc, and my partner is unemployed at the moment so he seems to be up for it more than me recently as he isn't doing anything in the day but i have been to work all day and am exhausted!

    VW x

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    MasqueradeMinx wrote:

    timid-adventurer wrote:

    I *think* my OH's is the same... he's always up for it when I want it (a lot...) but I always have to initiate. God knows why! I've asked him and he just says he prefers it that way. I do wish he'd just grab me one day and take me to bed with urgency. But I guess you can't change a person!

    I am sometimes like that with the OH, I'd say it was 65% me, 35% him. But I dont mind really as long as he doesnt expect me to me on top for too long if at all.

    lol, I imagine you having a timer, 'it's been three and a half minutes, we're swapping places!'

    I think OH just likes the way I initiate... maybe I should find a new way so he'll take the reigns. hmmm...

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    I think I get a lot hornier than my OH. He's opened my eyes to how much fun sex can be and now I can't get enough of him!

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    SexiLexi wrote:

    I think I get a lot hornier than my OH. He's opened my eyes to how much fun sex can be and now I can't get enough of him!

    Awwww! That's really cute

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    I think me and my OH are deffinatly as horny as each other but the problem at the moment is that its at different times lol

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    Defiintely not...I'm a 3 time a day guy, shes a 3 time a week girl!

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    My oh is nowhere near as horny as me i have a very high sex drive but i am working on changing his opinion and he doesn't seem to mind : )

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    Nope, she's definitely not as horny as me at the moment. Last time I posted in this thread, she had been making an effort, and we were doing it at least once a week, but that has been forgotten now.

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    yes... we're both as horny and when he travels for work... it just becomes ridiculous and by time he is back we tend not to leave the flat for a few days! ;)

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    simple answer- no I as a man am a very horny sex god lool

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    We are almost matched,my OH does like waking me up 3 or 4 times a week at 3 in the morning to provide "extra" services,I probably wouldn't wake him for the same purpose.I guess we "play" seriously about 10 hours a week and would reach orgasm on average just over once a day every week each.

    Some of the stuff we do is not about the sex act at all,it's more about enjoying each others limits and fantasies.

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    Ooh, I remember this one. Most definitely not still. I seem to be getting in the mood more and more, and her less and less.

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    oi Toy i thought you were gettng it sorted mate .You seem to be going backwards what's happening or not ?

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    I used to have a very low sex drive but then me and OH decided to check out some of the porn sites but we couldnt decide on what to search both a little shy. As this had the wrong affect we decided to both go away and write down 5 things we liked about sex and what fantasy we had we then came back and compared not feeling as shy anymore we headed back for the porn and since i cant get enough and even try new things always. obviously i still have my personal fantasies that i didnt share lol

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    oh she can be when inflenced or goaded by me

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    I think my sex drive may be a little higher than Phantasma's...im not entirely sure. But at the moment its rock bottom sicne I have a cold! I just cannot feel sexy with a cold!

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