• advice for prostate massage

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    pinkyv [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi, OH is very keen on this idea.....so am I.... so I purchased a prostate massager as a surprise for him....however im not really sure how to use it....ive read posts that say using it while giving him a bj is not a good idea !? would love to feel a little knowledgeable before our first adventure.

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    Young and fun95 [sign in to see picture]
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    I always accompany anal play with a bj, I don't see why not, few men can orgasm from just anal play, I imagine OH would get bored without a bj.

    try and find his prostrate with your finger first so you have a better idea of where your targer is and if he's new to anal go slow

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    Subdom27 [sign in to see picture]
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    Prostate massage is great with a bj. Is he used to having things up there?

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    pinkyv [sign in to see picture]
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    We have only just started exploring with fingers...so very new for both of us.

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    kusanagi [sign in to see picture]
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    Id just say plenty of lube and talking is the best way to start out, you can figure out what works for you both and then you get to really enjoy it the next time :)

    Oh and a bj feels great when combined with prostate play!

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    Ikey [sign in to see picture]
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    Make sure you use a decent anal lube. Definitely do it along with a bj! Then afterwards tell him to realise how lucky he is that he has a partner that will use anal toys on him! :P

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    pinkyv [sign in to see picture]
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    Thank you all for your advice.....ikey I will !

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    pinkyv [sign in to see picture]
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    Good news and bad news......
    bad news...prostate massager still unused....
    good news....first successful anal last night ....and it was incredible...can't believe its taken until im 45 to experience something like that....
    However I cannot wait to try out our new toy soon!
    Thank you all for your great advice.

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