• Can fat people be attractive? (I'm a fat person)

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    *sexybabe* [sign in to see picture]
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    It's al down to personal taste; my gf often complains about her weight, but I fancy her more when she's bigger. I like curves and plumper skin, and I think she looks beautiful and curvy (that's a better word than fat!)

    My ex was curvy too, her body is amazing. Wide hips, big boobs. Curvy tum.

    Saying that, I don't like to see myself looking bigger as I'm short (5'1") and I don't carry it well. But I don't care too much, I'm healthy and I exercise, and my boobs are bigger when I'm bigger! Result!!

    We're all beautiful the way we are I reckon ❤️

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    Reg90 [sign in to see picture]
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    Well said sexybabe. All the reasons I'm attracted to curvaceous women.

    We are all beautiful in different ways and have different likes and desires.

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    sexcrazedbear [sign in to see picture]
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    Hey listen, everyone can be attractive to someone or else I would never have scored or been married. tastes vary and some men find skinny women a turn off. I see some women at the gym who are so muscualr it turns my stomach.

    On the other hand, if you would feel better about yourself if you were a bit smaller then why not try something like the 5/2 diet? Spice it up a bit by getting your partner to reward you for reaching a target by giving you some longed for sexual treat - like going to a dungeon or whatever turns you on.

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    Thank god every one person is an individual!

    For every man/women's trash is another's treasure... Each of us have our turn on/offs... For a person to play on your insecurities, remember there is a dozen more that would relish and adore that spot! They don't like it - move along to someone who does... simples!

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    *sexybabe* wrote:

    It's al down to personal taste; my gf often complains about her weight, but I fancy her more when she's bigger. I like curves and plumper skin, and I think she looks beautiful and curvy (that's a better word than fat!)

    My ex was curvy too, her body is amazing. Wide hips, big boobs. Curvy tum.

    Saying that, I don't like to see myself looking bigger as I'm short (5'1") and I don't carry it well. But I don't care too much, I'm healthy and I exercise, and my boobs are bigger when I'm bigger! Result!!

    We're all beautiful the way we are I reckon ❤️

    +1 My oh adores my fuller figure, which is alien to me! As SB wrote my boobs are much larger with a bit of weight gain! Also work out 3-4 times a week. And OH made it clear he does not want my booty too firm lol.

    Why cant we just appreciate what we have... opposed to focussing on our negatives?

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    Lovesextoys1245 [sign in to see picture]
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    Yes love big woman

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    Eager-2-Please [sign in to see picture]
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    Absolutely.

    Sex appeal isn't a body shape, size, type or age. To me, some women just have it, whatever "it" is. I fancy all different types as a result.

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    WillC [sign in to see picture]
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    Personally,i love curves,so fat is sexy.

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    Ridiculous question! Sex appeal has nothing to do with someone's measurements :/

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    Personally I think beauty isn't about size on other people but for me I feel ugly and horrible because im fat yet other people are beautiful regardless of size

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    Kirsty92 wrote:

    Personally I think beauty isn't about size on other people but for me I feel ugly and horrible because im fat yet other people are beautiful regardless of size

    Many of us can find trhings we don't like about ourselves , however others find that they like these attributes and therefore turning a negative into a positive . I suppose for some thats why we like certain "types" .

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    I've had sex with all shapes and sizes of women and there was something wonderful about them all, soI hope you find some men who feel the same :-)

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    In our swinging group it's about 50/50 large/slim ladies. ( I don't like saying fat to a ladies size )

    It doesn't make a difference to any person in our group. We just love each others bodies.

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    Kirsty92 [sign in to see picture]
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    mysteron wrote:

    Kirsty92 wrote:

    Personally I think beauty isn't about size on other people but for me I feel ugly and horrible because im fat yet other people are beautiful regardless of size

    Many of us can find trhings we don't like about ourselves , however others find that they like these attributes and therefore turning a negative into a positive . I suppose for some thats why we like certain "types" .

    Thats true I guess I'm just very full of self hate. My boyfriend doesnt see size he loves me for me but I know skinny girls have turned him on before so he's not a chubby chaser and he's not a feeder so I know he doesnt care if im size 0 or 30 he loves me regardless

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