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    secret_scarlett [sign in to see picture]
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    My kids are 2 and 3. When my youngest was in his first year we were not having sex very often at all. Maybe once a month? Mostly because we were knackered and other issues after having a baby like body confidence, breastfeeding and pain after stitches.

    Now they are abit older our sex life feels right for us at about 2 -3 times a week but as others say it can ebb and flow depending on life. When I'm on my period we don't have sex for the week but we make up for it after as I'm always super horny after my period ends.

    As long as you are happy with the frequency you are having sex don't worry about how much others are getting. And if you aren't having as much as you'd like, take a look at the things stopping that from happening and see if you can make little changes to help you, just don't pressure yourself 😊
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    AK1970 [sign in to see picture]
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    At the moment, it's about once every two months. And that's an improvement! Apparently, we're too old for 'that sort of thing' and, if I ask, I get the 'Is that all you think about?' lecture. Kids are 11 and 13 and they sleep like logs, so noise isn't an issue. Incredibly frustrating, so have resorted to getting up extra early for 'me time'. Hmph!

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    Browncoats [sign in to see picture]
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    Having the boys doesn't really effect our sex life it's usually everything else in life getting in the way

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    Aims85 [sign in to see picture]
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    A lot but he works away most weeks so we always make up for lost time when he's back, everyday usually 🙌

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    Bigtrak [sign in to see picture]
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    We have two - 4 amd 8.

    So outside the dreaded week we have it five times a week. Sometimes do a 2 week chalenge of every night for a fortnight.

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    Richy wrote:

    So - we have two kids (age from 1 to 4) and just wandered anyone else with young children, how often do you have sex these days?

    We pretty much have it ever 2-3 days depending on period (doesn't like it then) but wandered about others?

    I say we are about the same. Sometimes more. Sometimes we just dont find time. That said, even if its a sparse week, we borh get quite fraught and when it happens its a bit of an explosion :-) xxx
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    A lot when in a relationship not enough when not 😂

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    Physically together once a week avg. On our own alone with toys in the bed 3 or maybe 4.

    We have 4 grown up. 1 married and 2 in the hospital training institute. Remaining one in the university living with us.
    I'm quite a noisy fellow so it depends very much on my son around. Shifts work and coping with customers 'demands took away most part of our time. Fortunate twice a week otherwise once avg. Worst scenario once a month.
    Always looking forward to holiday... We have it every day and sometimes more.

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    teacake [sign in to see picture]
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    You know when our child was younger we had sex more and more but now we have a teenager its harder at times, but we still manage to be very active. I love hidden fun in the house.

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    Snedders [sign in to see picture]
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    It's usually about once a week for us at the moment as we're both so tired futing the week. My sex drive went up as soon as I got the coil implanted, H can't believe the change in me! Luckily I have my LH toys to keep me satisfied in the mornings :)

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    Tazzy84red [sign in to see picture]
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    3 boys ages 10 8 & 2

    We still have sex at least 3 times a week some weeks more. On bad week 2 times

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    Tazzy84red wrote:

    3 boys ages 10 8 & 2

    We still have sex at least 3 times a week some weeks more. On bad week 2 times

    On a bad week 2!! 😂 That b good for me ATM! 😂
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    I'll let you all know in April when the little one arrives!

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    Scoob wrote:

    I'll let you all know in April when the little one arrives!

    Oh boy you won't b allow near it again if it's bad labour is it your 1st??
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    pusseypleaser [sign in to see picture]
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    One daughter. 2 times a week on average

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    Phelps [sign in to see picture]
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    One 2 year old, sex about once every 2 months. I'd like it every other night or at least once a week.

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    OneHotMinute [sign in to see picture]
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    similar to phelps - except it's about every 3 or 4 months - it's also never as wild as it used to be, before the pregnancy :(

    anyone got any ideas for improving things? I'm trying to be more healthy and attractive, and make more time for it, but that doesn't seem to be enough

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    brufton [sign in to see picture]
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    It's not the kids that's the problem, it's how tired we are normally. Still manage couple of times a week usually

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    lovelylumps [sign in to see picture]
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    We have a just over 1 year old and our sex life is only just returning lol. We have it at least twice a week at the moment

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    Michael777 [sign in to see picture]
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    We have a two year old and six year old so fall in to the always knackered category!

    Usually once a week or so but generally I'd probably like a bit more!

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