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  1. What toy would you refuse if give as a present?

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    SweetSubmission [sign in to see picture]
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    yup, I can't deal with any of the big guns either, in any oraface! I can't be doing with nipple clamps or weights, just not my thing, my boobs look ridiculous enough without adornment thanks, and I'm not one for flavoured lube - bleugh.

    I also have no idea what one would want with one of these:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2286

    Why???

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    shellyboo [sign in to see picture]
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    SweetSubmission wrote:

    yup, I can't deal with any of the big guns either, in any oraface! I can't be doing with nipple clamps or weights, just not my thing, my boobs look ridiculous enough without adornment thanks, and I'm not one for flavoured lube - bleugh.

    I also have no idea what one would want with one of these:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2286

    Why???

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    Trans/queer/gay women wear them out and about. Good article on it here from Babeland: http://www.babeland.com/sexinfo/howto/how-to-pack

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    ahh, ok, excuse my ignorance. You learn something every day.

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    I'd also avoid these type of things

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=11303

    It's not that I'm necessarily ruling out fisting, but rather that it looks too much like a severed arm for me!

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    I'd have to agree with m3lf- any thing second hand is a complete no no! Apart from that i can't really think of anything i'd say no to.

    I'm even quite interested in those big old machines used to fuck ladies, i can see double penetration that leaves you hands free as a big bonus, they look like they would make you cum a treat!

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    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=8915 wow this is pretty big! I've seen bigger ones though, bit too big for me i think. It would be like a reverse birth!

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    I don't think there's any gift i'd refuse, after all it'd be rude not to accept it. It may come in useful at some point when i've plucked up the courage to try the things I don't want to do now I guess. Or it could be given away again in a game of secret santa x

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    I didn't lol maybe I should have a look x

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    Nexas wrote:

    sexynurse09 wrote:

    I don't think there's any gift i'd refuse, after all it'd be rude not to accept it. It may come in useful at some point when i've plucked up the courage to try the things I don't want to do now I guess. Or it could be given away again in a game of secret santa x

    Did you LOOK at that dildo before? LOL

    Oh my God!!! No wonder it's not been reviewed yet! Hmm I still wouldn't refuse it though. I'd keep it by my bed to scare burglars with! x

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    What about this?! Looks like a body bag with Peggy Mitchell inside!!

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    I would never refuse any present unless it's given to insult me. I'll give anything a go even the weirdest most intimidating toys, you never know you dont like it until you try it.

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    masterandslave wrote:

    What about this?! Looks like a body bag with Peggy Mitchell inside!!

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    LOL, what toy warrants that description?? Do give us the link!!

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    Schibi wrote:

    I would never refuse any present unless it's given to insult me.

    I'm glad that your unawareness indicates that you have never encountered this behaviour before, but presents can be inappropriate for other reasons than to insult.

    I've had presents given to me in attempts to

    • manipulate me into doing what I didn't want to
    • intrude upon my privacy
    • inappropriately sexualise a non-sexual relationship

    In my experience, a lot of people count on most people's strong desires to be polite and considerate and not to be rude, and they use those desires to manipulate. I hate that and I know it's terribly disrespectful, so I have no issues whatsoever declining any gift which leaves me feeling in the least uncomfortable, no matter who it's from.

    My feelings are much more important to me than theirs are, and I'd much rather be rude than be manipulated, used, or intruded upon.

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    Am just looking for it - know its discontinued but can't seem to find it!

    Am coming across some interesting products tho!

    Wouldn't refuse these but they'd get a giggle!

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=8688

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=6021

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=9475

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=8828

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=8391

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    masterandslave wrote:

    Am just looking for it - know its discontinued but can't seem to find it!

    Am coming across some interesting products tho!

    Wouldn't refuse these but they'd get a giggle!

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=8688

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=6021

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=9475

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=8828

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=8391

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    Seriously wtf to all of those, I wouldnt refuse them though i'd just be amused.

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    Im trying to think what kinds of gifts could do any of those things but im a bit confused, I suppose thats a good thing though and I hope I never find out by demonstration.

    Lubyanka wrote:

    Schibi wrote:

    I would never refuse any present unless it's given to insult me.

    I'm glad that your unawareness indicates that you have never encountered this behaviour before, but presents can be inappropriate for other reasons than to insult.

    I've had presents given to me in attempts to

    • manipulate me into doing what I didn't want to
    • intrude upon my privacy
    • inappropriately sexualise a non-sexual relationship

    In my experience, a lot of people count on most people's strong desires to be polite and considerate and not to be rude, and they use those desires to manipulate. I hate that and I know it's terribly disrespectful, so I have no issues whatsoever declining any gift which leaves me feeling in the least uncomfortable, no matter who it's from.

    My feelings are much more important to me than theirs are, and I'd much rather be rude than be manipulated, used, or intruded upon.

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    masterandslave wrote:

    Am just looking for it - know its discontinued but can't seem to find it!

    Am coming across some interesting products tho!

    Wouldn't refuse these but they'd get a giggle!

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=8688

    I've heard of men who couldn't find a clitoris with both hands and a flashlight but I didn't think they made a flashlight specifically for them to try!

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    Schibi wrote:

    Lubyanka wrote:

    Schibi wrote:

    I would never refuse any present unless it's given to insult me.

    I'm glad that your unawareness indicates that you have never encountered this behaviour before, but presents can be inappropriate for other reasons than to insult.

    I've had presents given to me in attempts to

    • manipulate me into doing what I didn't want to
    • intrude upon my privacy
    • inappropriately sexualise a non-sexual relationship

    In my experience, a lot of people count on most people's strong desires to be polite and considerate and not to be rude, and they use those desires to manipulate. I hate that and I know it's terribly disrespectful, so I have no issues whatsoever declining any gift which leaves me feeling in the least uncomfortable, no matter who it's from.

    My feelings are much more important to me than theirs are, and I'd much rather be rude than be manipulated, used, or intruded upon.

    Im trying to think what kinds of gifts could do any of those things but im a bit confused, I suppose thats a good thing though and I hope I never find out by demonstration.

    In my experience, it's less about the gift and more about who is giving it. For example, a partner giving me a sex toy is a whole lot different to a work colleague, boss, or somebody I don't know well giving me the same sex toy.

    Sometimes some guy will offer to buy me a drink in a bar, and I often decline these offers because I've had experiences where they think that buying me a drink entitles them to something from me, and I'd rather avoid that kind of aggravation.

    Sometimes if I have experienced unpredictable unpleasant volatility from a person giving me a gift, then I might just accept it without saying anything and then pass it on to somebody else or throw it away. If a person I don't know buys me a drink without asking me first or without my accepting the offer, then I'll often just leave it sitting there.

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    Lubyanka wrote:

    In my experience, it's less about the gift and more about who is giving it. For example, a partner giving me a sex toy is a whole lot different to a work colleague, boss, or somebody I don't know well giving me the same sex toy.

    Sometimes some guy will offer to buy me a drink in a bar, and I often decline these offers because I've had experiences where they think that buying me a drink entitles them to something from me, and I'd rather avoid that kind of aggravation.

    Sometimes if I have experienced unpredictable unpleasant volatility from a person giving me a gift, then I might just accept it without saying anything and then pass it on to somebody else or throw it away. If a person I don't know buys me a drink without asking me first or without my accepting the offer, then I'll often just leave it sitting there.

    Ah that makes more sense, fair enough

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    Ok this is the limit for me! Would refuse this!!!

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=10940

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